I like this guy... I don't know how much, but I do... I guess he doesn't drink at all. I find that kind of unattractive. I feel like he'll judge me. I'm not a partier, but I do like to go out and get silly sometimes. Should I just say this won't work out and move on?
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As long as you don't make him feel embarrassed by your actions once drunk, there shouldn't be a problem.
There could be thousands of reasons why he doesn't drink, as mentioned before, he might be a son of an alcoholic, lacking the enzyme, just not feeling it, or being an ex-alcoholic himself and so on.
You are fearing the judgement.
If he is an "ok person" he won't mind you having a couple of drinks every once in a while. But if you trash yourself every single day, then he, and anyone else for that matter, will not be cool with it if they genuinely care about you.
I myself am an alcoholic whose stopped drinking a week ago because of health issues and because I met a guy whom I did not want him to think of me as an alcoholic. We started dating a few days ago, the guy is an occasional drinker, but I don't mind him doing that in front of me, and he does not mind me drinking water now.
If there is understanding and respect, it can all work fine.0
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