He didn't do anything wrong, but I have been cheated on in the past and am extremely hurt by this. I keep going back to the fact that he didn't do anything wrong since we aren't in a relationship.
I just wanted to know if you would consider this a deal breaker in a period where you're still trying to figure out if you want a relationship with the person.
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I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker at all. He's free to do what he likes, as you are as well. I would question if he wants the same thing as you do. I think its a red flag if you want to be exclusive, but aren't yet.
Keep in mind jealously is not an emotion, its a reaction. Sometimes its a reaction to feelings of insecurity. In this case, you may be feeling like he may meet someone else and stop seeing you. If that's the case, you need some reassurance of his commitment to you. Without it, the jealously won't go away.
Don't feel bad about being jealous. It's your way of telling yourself that you don't feel safe in this relationship.