Firstly, sweetie, I am so very sorry for all of your problems. I know what it means to have someone you love have cancer. It's hell watching them suffer, and even more trying, watching them die. My grandmother died of colon cancer one Thanksgiving morning many years ago.
I also am very sorry about his dad as well. I see you both have endured a lot of pain and anguish and strife in your lives. However, I am seeing his mental issues started way before dad died, and have continued to escalate over the two and a half year relationship you both have been in. I can tell you from working in this healthcare field, plus dealing with many members in my family who are mentally disturbed and all on medicine, that he has definite mental problems, and if not taken care of professionally, he will end up hurting someone---and I think that someone would be you.
Everything he is feeling, experiencing, has built up inside of him like this ticking time bomb, is directed mostly at you. It's as though he blames you for everything, and this includes dad's sad death. He most likely has a personality disorder issue, and there are 10 different Personality Disorders. Very complicated. It will never get better without help and medicine. But I don't know who could be the one to actually take the bull by the horns and get him some.
If he has "unblocked" you, sweetie, this is a sign that he is ready to "face his demon" again and that demon is you. He is going to contact you again, and believe me, he is ready and raring once again, for the millionth time, to put on the boxing gloves and go for another round. Don't fall for it.
He most definitely will contact you again and when he does, your best and most safe bet, would be to "nicely" tell him that being a couple now and in the future would be harmful, and that this relationship will never work
The decision has to be up to you, but I feel, from my experience with people like him, you are in danger. He has it in for you big time, and you never know when "the final blow" would come and could be "rockier" than you could ever imagine.
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it means he is a pycho and you need to block him and stay far away from him.he displays the same behavior my ex did which lead to physical abuse.Dont talk to him, he treats you like trash and he will never change, and every time you allow that behavior and he has you apologizing, you are making him think he is getting away with the way he's treated u.Have more self respect and block this loser.
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He wants you to say sorry again...and he may wants you back on his terms...
Do you wanna be a doormat all your life...
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