I have been texting this girl for weeks now. I've known her for 2 years but only recently started talking to her. She's very shy and a few of her friends have told me she really likes me. I really like her now and we text each other every day. I asked her out for a meal, she said yes but she can't because she was busy, but told me she wants to meet up the week after. Ok, so I ask her the next week, again she says she wants to meet, but can't for some reason and will meet up soon. Ok, so I ask her again, she says she's ill but wants to meet when she gets better. This has happened five times now. Does she really like me and is just shy and nervous about meeting/dating? Or is she just leading me on?
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It sounds as though she is feeling more comfy, secure, having a "text relationship" with you, than going out on a real date in person. Because she is shy, she is most likely nervous as a little sparrow, and hasn't gotten the nerve to accept your offer to "break bread" as of yet.
No, I don't think she Means to "lead you on," and I believe sometime down the buffet table she will accept to meet up. However, I can't promise when that might be, and it would be your choice to either wait it out or---find another dinner companion.