I asked this a few days ago but didn't get many answers so i'm asking again hoping I get more engagement from guys. Basically - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we have a very strong relationship, we know we want to marry in the future and we talked about it several times. Basically, he is a geologist and I work as a receptionist (I did go to university but I haven't been able to get a job in my area). I have been feeling really frustrated lately because I was saving money to go on an internship that involves another country, but I'll end up using that money to get a visa so I'm able to live in the same country as my partner (I came here as an international student), obviously I've decided to do this because I love this man with all my heart, but I am sort of putting a dream aside and it's hard. He's helping me pay half of my visa as it as it is a partners visa and is quite expensive. The internship I was saving for would be a really important career investment as my field is very experienced based (I'm a biologist). My boyfriend got vacation work recently (he has one one more semester to go at university) and was able to make a lot of money and he keeps saying he wants to help me pay with my internship because he knows it has been my dream to go that country my whole life and that i'm holding it for him but I feel horrible accepting financial help because we are talking about 5k, it's not little money [He made a little under 20k in the two months he worked, but I think he should save everything?]. I don't know what to do, I told him I want him to save that money for his dreams and stuff and he keeps saying we are a team and he wants to help me reach my dreams. It's so bloody kind from him but I dont know if I should accept his help. He keeps saying he won't take no as an answer, but like ugh I dunno.. if I did accept his help i would pay him back over the year (s) but I dunno. What do you think?