This is just another marketing ploy. You know what love is? Love is your mom making you soup when you’re sick. That’s what love is. All of this is just to sell more chocolates and flowers and diamonds. It’s a huge scam.
Wade none of this has to do with material things at all quality time it’s just being around each other acts of service that’s doing the dishes or something for them words of affirmation tell them a complement physical touch you should know what that is.
No one is asking you buy anything. It’s about how do you like to receive and giving love
Well as you can see many men and women think it’s easier to sum it up with simple words. This is a better way to communicate the way you would like to show your love or appreciate it. You right I can be call something else. Any suggestions?
I don’t think so if you don’t like anything that your partner does for you then that’s fine but you can some of those things in a couple of words like people are doing now it’s not a concept it’s just the definition of those
But nobody’s asking you to buy anything that’s the problem that I don’t get with your answer. They’re just words that sums up the way people treat their partners. It’s not a concept it’s not a gimmick it’s not anything like that. If I want to be treated a certain way then you just say that. Being taken care of when you’re sick is an active service that your mother did.
Bruh. This shit is from a stupid book. Love language is not a real thing. It’s from someone trying to make an extra dollar from easily impressionable idiots.
Again nobody’s forcing you to do anything you don’t have to buy nothing you don’t have to do nothing well here just talking about how we would like to be treated.
@ChefPapiChulo Love is when you're tired and exhausted and sad and you can't do something you normally do, but the person you love and loves you back (I mean a romantic partner) does that thing for you. Makes food, does your laundry, because they love and understand you and they know you're not capable of doing some things because you're feeling down
@strawberreez123 my point is that it’s just a concept and not a real language. And it’s a silly scam. If my professor ever forced me to read this shit in psychology class I’d probably drop out of that class.
See you whenever you comment on my stuff you’re always so negative I don’t understand. In psych it’s also brought up before about Love languages. The concept is putting those things into categories ask of service as in taking care of you as a part of that and I have explained each one so it makes sense and obviously there are so many people that responded to this thread it makes sense to them. Again no one‘s asking you to buy an item you either have a way that you like to be treated or love or you just don’t care. It only categorizes the way you want things. Maybe you want somebody to take care of you maybe you want someone to buy you things maybe you wanna just spend time with someone or maybe you want to be touched
They’re basically categories of things that you can do with other people or for other people or what they can do for you. It’s not a concept is not a ploy it’s not a scam. It’s just simple terms
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No I don't know what my love languages are
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I agree but thats more along the line of what you’re attracted to
Yes.
Lol which ones
Lol. I already answered previously. But mine is Quality Time.
Gotcha I have to re-do the question because it didn’t make sense to other people
Oh, okay. Cool
I know what mine are yeah.
Yes! Quality time
Physical affection and quality time for me.
there's no such thing as a love language.
There is aren’t certain things that you would like your partner to do fo besides sex. You probably just have learned them yet
What a bunch of rubbish.
This is just another marketing ploy. You know what love is? Love is your mom making you soup when you’re sick. That’s what love is. All of this is just to sell more chocolates and flowers and diamonds. It’s a huge scam.
Wade none of this has to do with material things at all quality time it’s just being around each other acts of service that’s doing the dishes or something for them words of affirmation tell them a complement physical touch you should know what that is.
No one is asking you buy anything. It’s about how do you like to receive and giving love
Well that doesn’t have to be defined by a “love language”.
What a ridiculous term. Sounds like a bad book.
Well as you can see many men and women think it’s easier to sum it up with simple words. This is a better way to communicate the way you would like to show your love or appreciate it. You right I can be call something else. Any suggestions?
It’s a made up concept
I don’t think so if you don’t like anything that your partner does for you then that’s fine but you can some of those things in a couple of words like people are doing now it’s not a concept it’s just the definition of those
This shit is not a real concept. It's literally a book turned into a marketing ploy.
But nobody’s asking you to buy anything that’s the problem that I don’t get with your answer. They’re just words that sums up the way people treat their partners. It’s not a concept it’s not a gimmick it’s not anything like that. If I want to be treated a certain way then you just say that. Being taken care of when you’re sick is an active service that your mother did.
it's just stupid.
Why are you so mean and mad about stuff? You’re mad at words what’s wrong
I'm explaining to you how love language is stupid and there is no such thing as a love language. Not hard to understand.
Obviously you’re wrong but OK
Bruh. This shit is from a stupid book. Love language is not a real thing. It’s from someone trying to make an extra dollar from easily impressionable idiots.
You don’t think people actually study people and wrote a book about it. It’s OK I’ve already said it was OK
Again nobody’s forcing you to do anything you don’t have to buy nothing you don’t have to do nothing well here just talking about how we would like to be treated.
That last part you said is unnecessary because it’s not about me. And I dont need to study people to know what’s a scam
I’m not saying you. I said it’s ok
@ChefPapiChulo Love is when you're tired and exhausted and sad and you can't do something you normally do, but the person you love and loves you back (I mean a romantic partner) does that thing for you. Makes food, does your laundry, because they love and understand you and they know you're not capable of doing some things because you're feeling down
@strawberreez123 my point is that it’s just a concept and not a real language. And it’s a silly scam. If my professor ever forced me to read this shit in psychology class I’d probably drop out of that class.
@ChefPapiChulo who hurt you?
@strawberreez123 that’s not a valid response.
See you whenever you comment on my stuff you’re always so negative I don’t understand. In psych it’s also brought up before about Love languages. The concept is putting those things into categories ask of service as in taking care of you as a part of that and I have explained each one so it makes sense and obviously there are so many people that responded to this thread it makes sense to them. Again no one‘s asking you to buy an item you either have a way that you like to be treated or love or you just don’t care. It only categorizes the way you want things. Maybe you want somebody to take care of you maybe you want someone to buy you things maybe you wanna just spend time with someone or maybe you want to be touched
They’re basically categories of things that you can do with other people or for other people or what they can do for you. It’s not a concept is not a ploy it’s not a scam. It’s just simple terms
Mine is "leave me alone"
Lol 😂
@msc545 hows that working out for ya?
@loves2learn Very well, thanks.
You left off "gifts".
Beware women who's live languages are "acts of service" and/or "gifts. These woman want a man slave who buys them things.
I updated it
Not many do actually. Quality time. Seem to be the average response.
A little bit of everything!
Not yet, what's your order?
I like quality time and physical touch and words of affirmation
Words no. 2 quality time no. 1 I think I am almost same physical touch would be no. 3 for me.
Slight different order than you
Hmm I see
Gifts
Funny you missed one opps
Still learning, lol.
No, maybe