Why does my dad give me a hard time but also helps out a lot?

[Anonymous]

He calls me a waster when I was going for interviews and applying for jobs but on the other hand he helps a lot with money

[TheMajesticKing777]

Ask him, I know there's a reason, but at the end he still loves you

[Asker]

I was so housebound there is fuck all to do in this town in Scotland and I couldn't even get a little side job to keep me busy because there is literally 2 shops. I'm so mad that he gave me a hard time when he knows well fine there is fuck all to do

[TheMajesticKing777]

You should explain to him that situation and how you feel, it's just tough love and it's something every father has to do at some point and they do it so your mother doesn't have too

[Asker]

Only opportunity in the scottish Highlands is the dole office. My dad gets offended by it for some reason but uts true its a dead end. I'm not sure why he told me to come back here to search for jobs to only get his harrasement dll day and mood swings

[TheMajesticKing777]

So you ever thought of getting anything else but that?

[Asker]

Well I'm moving further south to Glasgow it's towards England. In the uk the only jobs are far south the Highlands have such lack of opportunity. But I'm temporarily working in sn Airport until I land a marketing job

[TheMajesticKing777]

Sounds like he wants more for you than that, tell him baby steps 👶

[Asker]

He can fuvk he's only a electrician himself and his girlfriend has no grades st all and thick as a plank but yet he is never happy with myself or my brother

[TheMajesticKing777]

He probably wants more for y'all then what he could have ever accomplished, who knows what that man has sacrificed for the family which probably brought him to that position he is in, he seems like someone that does sacrifices by the way he still help you out, sounds like tough love to me