My child’s father doesn’t work. He sells weed and even sells food stamps to get by and I have told him many times that he doesn’t have to struggle like that if he would just get a job. It’s decent paying jobs these days because no one wants to work since the pandemic. Like okay, selling weed and stamps has gotten our son diapers, wipes, clothes etc but I get them most often because I have a real job. I feel he needs something real. I work, so why can’t he? It’s not like two hustles are big hustles that are meant to provide. He isn’t Scarface. They’re temporary and he just doesn’t get that. He gets offended when I tell him to get a job and says things like “It’s people with jobs that neglect their kids.” As if that has anything to do with him getting a job at all.
Was I wrong for speaking up about this?
