How do people who dont work or listen in school think they’ll ever get a job?

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my friends never work or listen im getting scared for them, they go home at every minor convenience, have terrible grades, always skip school, its not like they’re suicidal or anything they’re js lazy and wants a future and says it’ll ”work out” eventually..

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well then you are a good friend because you care and you see things that other people might not see within themselves

I am curious why you said the word suicidal though

No matter what in life people have an agenda people have plans and just because nobody tells you their plans are their agenda doesn't mean they don't have one

There are people your age that are still finding themselves

This is probably the age words most difficult in a lot of different situations because of the hormone change people at school change parent change just everything all starts coming together in chaotic ways that makes people think feel see things all crazy and different
It's cool that you're caring loving person but right now you have to focus just on you it's always cool and good to say something to a friend that you care about but you have to let them do their thing because they do have a plan just like you probably have a plan

But it's probably 20 different plans and that probably goes the same for them cuz like I said it should be one of the best times of your life high school friends just met learning becoming independent dating friendship experiences but it's also that hectic moment in life because of our bodies going to different things
And just because they don't have a plan doesn't mean that one won't come together for them that's usually the way it happens

JustinTheGreat · Accepted Answer

They’ll be fine.
Yes you should listen and get good grades but it’s not the end of the world if you don’t do that in high school.
You can completely start over in college. Even if you got horrible grades in high school, you can go to a community college, get good grades there, and then transfer to a better college. Your high school grades pretty much become irrelevant at that point.

Even if they don’t graduate high school at all, they can get a GED or a diploma at another time.
This is normal with teenagers. some of them need to grow up before realizing they need to lock in and focus. And it’s never too late.

also you never know what your friends could be going through. So don’t say “they’re just lazy.” There could be a number of reasons why they’re struggling. Whether it’s ADHD, mental health, family issues, etc.

I struggled in school with my grades and my absences because my sister died and I was going through other family issues. There were plenty of people who called me lazy but I was just going through a lot.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

Let them flop its not your worry. We get exactly the same type in the UK, school isn't cool, they're brainwashing you, it's all a lie...

Thing is even I'd they apply for entry level unskilled work they're completing against people who do have qualifications. Employers simply say if you couldn't be bothered at school why would you be different here.

What these people forget is anyone in the country can apply for that job, your not just competing against the local village idiots.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Key word in your question is THINK which is what those folks don't do.

Advisor Smith · Accepted Answer

It's understandable to be concerned for your friends. While some believe things will fall into place, it's crucial to highlight the importance of education and developing skills. Encourage them to explore their interests and engage in activities that can enhance their talents and capabilities. You might suggest they try part-time jobs or internships to gain experience and understand the value of commitment and responsibility. Sometimes, seeing real-world examples of hard work leading to success can inspire a change in attitude. Being supportive and offering resources or advice can also help guide them toward a more proactive approach.

MrOracle · Answer

The people here telling you that some people don't learn the way modem schools teach, and do fine later on are correct... about SOME people, maybe 30% of them. These people will either teach themselves, will do some blue-collar job (mechanic, construction, oil field work, military, etc.), or will start their own business.

But they aren't accounting for the maybe 60-70% of that group that will be stuck at the lowest tier of employment for their whole lives or will end up on welfare or a disability scam, or will make a living as a criminal. The woman may end up doing sex work - not usually an option for men. In fact, the men generally will have it much harder - women have the option of cooperating with a man and living off of him - very few men can live off a woman.

expfireworks · Answer

Indifference or Inspiration: Profoundly clever people may not find government sanctioned tests connecting with or significant, prompting an absence of inspiration to plan or perform well. They could focus on different interests or pursuits over test arrangement

Redstang88 · Answer

School doesn’t have much correlation to life after, highschool is a very limited experience compared to the options once you’re done. Most people in the skilled trades did not do well in school, many successful business owners did not do well in school.
I’ve never once heard of an employer asking about grades or what classes to took, if they care at all it’s more of a yes/no (do you have the training/experience needed to do the job?)

Malik3232 · Answer

Not everyone who struggles in school ends up without opportunities. Many learn through hands-on experience or other non-traditional ways. Success often comes from determination and practical skills rather than academic performance.

For those looking to start their career, platforms like Get UK Jobs (https://www. getukjobs. com/) are great for finding roles suited to different strengths and experiences.

Apple1996 · Answer

You'd be surprised some of those high-school flops turn their lives around and do really well in their adult life/jobs

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Oh, it’ll “work out”. They’ll end up with a job that is mind numbingly easy, requires little instruction, and doesn’t pay well.

Bricealan · Answer

@chocolatetwopointo WEll, we will always need ditch diggers! LOLOL

travelguy01 · Answer

They’re waiting for another stimulus package to save them.

msc545 · Answer

Ask them, not us.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Good point

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