Girlfriend dressing hot when with other guys. Ok with you guys? Are you girls dressing to impress them?

[ilovelegs]

I've noticed that my girlfriend likes to dress hotter and sometimes sexier when we're going places where guys will be around to notice. I mean she'll wear shorter skirts, or maybe tighter and lower jeans, or it could be a tighter top or one with more cleavage or a combination of any of these. Now that she's wearing shorts more, that means shorter shorts and she does have a great figure. When I bring it up. Not in some jealous manner, she's like. "Ohhh I never even think of that. Is all I'm doing is trying to look nice for you. " She doesn't flirt openly with any of the guys but I do notice that she notices the attention and it's no uncommon for her to smile back and she always says "'Well thanks" to any complement she gets from other guys. Sometimes I'm bothered. Should I be? Guys would you be? Girls, do you mean anything by this or is just natural behavior?

[trukita]

I know this is a really old question, and you probably don't even care any more, but...

Girls place a lot of importance on what other people think of them. When I go out with my boyfriend, I like to look nice and have other guys lusting after me. It's an ego booster. I like when his friends comment to him later that I looked good. It makes me feel sexy, and I like having him know that he was the lucky guy who got to have me when there are so many other guys who would have been available for me (in reality, I'm the lucky one to have him, he's amazing).

I like other girls to look and be jealous, too. If a fellow girl approves of my look, then I know I'm gold.

[ilovelegs]

Yes I do still care. Actually, I thought I had already given someone a best answer but I guess not, but now you have it! :-] I really liked your answer because it does fit the situation. I like how you said, "... When I go out with my boyfriend, I like to look nice and have other guys lusting after me. It's an ego booster. I like when his friends comment to him later that I looked good. It makes me feel sexy..." That tells me a lot about you. You're a smart chick! ha!

[trukita]

Lol I like to think so. Good luck with your girl....hope she's still looking sexy!

[ilovelegs]

Thanks again! She is! lol!

[southernbeauty]

Hmmm. I love to dress sexy, little black tops with cleavage, I guess women want to be reminded that we are sexy, even if that means getting attention from other guys. Depending on how old she is makes a difference too. This may be her telling you that she isn't getting enough attention from you, causing her to get it else where. She may be trying to show you that she is desirable by other men and to maybe pay more attention to her or compliment her more often; appreciate her more. That's really the only thing I can think of. Try to reassure her that she beautiful and maybe it will stop. It's just probably a harmless way of her getting your attention. Good luck. :)

[chloenicole]

Some girls naturally like getting attention and it gives them more confidence but it may also just be that she wants to impress you and look presentable for when yous go out. She wouldn't be with you if she didn't like or love you and I'm sure she is being honest :) but she shouldnt be making you have doubts so if this is still going on just be open with her and maybe shel start to dress down :)

Hope I've helped hun :)

[ilovelegs]

Good point. Thanks!

[Methos0918483]

Girls *LOVE* to make their man jealous.

I have had A LOT of women flirt or

try to get to know me in FRONT of

their husbands.

I also had a girl at the Fitness Club

exercise right next to me for

2 weeks even though she showed

up with her boyfriend Weird.

They even say my name out loud in

front of their husbands.

A lot of this has to do with my looks

I just wish I was 6'4" lol.

[Anonymous]

no, I don't necessarily make him jealous, but it just happens that way. I always want to make myself look hot and sexy, and so do most other girls. I want guys to think I'm hot, but not go up there and hit on me. Plus, it makes me feel special when they are looking at me

[ilovelegs]

This such a good way for a girl to be. You have a great attitude. I hope you keep it up and that a ton of guys are always looking at you.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you! ;)

[ilovelegs]

You're welcome! :-)

[Opinion Owner]

Guys do look at me all the time! so I guess you were right!

[ilovelegs]

You're boyfriend is so lucky to have a girlfriend like you that can be flattered whenever she gets attention because she's knows she's hot. Being looked at all the time is a sure sign that you are hot and it's the only way for a girl to honestly know that. If you didn't notice that you wouldn't be very observant. If your boyfriend gets jeaous then like you said, "you don't necessarily make him jealous, but it just happens that way." That's the best way.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I guess and apparently I'm pretty damn hot

[Anonymous]

We dress sexy like that to try to one-up other girls or to make other guys want us. As girls, we always want guys to want us, no matter if we like them or not. We want other girls to look at us and think "why can't I look that hot? ". You may have a reason to be worried about it and you may not. It depends on the girl.

[Anonymous]

I don't generally do it to make my boyfriend jealous it just ends up that way. Also, sometimes I do it just to make myself feel good. When I feel like I look good, I feel way more confident. And when I feel like I look ugly, I feel less confident. So, mainly for myself:)