My oh my, I can relate to you perfectly! I find myself stuck in an identical situation to yours.
Let me share my reason and maybe you'll find it similar to yours. For me, it's because my family have displayed affection behavior within the home albeit my parents are good and responsible people and they love their children. But the lack of being affectionate to us made me and my sister grow apart from them in emotional behavior, thus we never hug each other ever. I feel embarass & awkward to hug any family member. But I'm a excessively touch-feely person in nature, and I hide this nature of mine from my parents.
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You don't want em to start thinkin' you like em, or they'll start expectin' ya to hang around the house and do stuff!
Same!! Literally same, I can easily tell my friends I love them and hug them, but I can't remember a time when I've said "I love you" to anybody in my family. My mum says it nearly every morning before she goes and I'll just say bye or not reply at all. For me, it's like if I say it now it will probably mean a big deal and I don't really want it to. Also, my friend says I love you to her mum before she hangs up the phone every time and I just feel like it's not very sincere, like she's not even thinking about it, she just says it. I'm so glad I found someone who feels the same way as I do!!
I feel exactly the same way! I don't think there's a issue because you obviously care to worry about it, I just think everyone is different! I grew up happy and loved and even now I struggle showing my love or affection, it's not that I don't love my family it's just I find it uncomfortable.
Do the rest of your family act the same way? Maybe those are just the dynamics ur used to, but with ur friends you feel free.
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