I made-out with my sister's fiance (both of us were drunk), to tell or not?

[Anonymous]

It was held at a friend's party nearly 2 weeks ago and I've been trying to move on from it but can't. Maybe if it was just a boyfriend I might be able to let it go but they're gonna get married on Nov of this year.

We made-out that day and it was me that stopped it from leading to more. I stopped it some time after he unbuttomed my shirt and it was gonna lead to more.

[Paris13]

... Both of us were drunk...
Don't open a can of smelly worms that just might even Jeopardize your Own Relationship with your sister here, dear.
It doesn't seem Fair that because you and your Future Bro in-law got Pied eyed, and that although you both were in the wrong, This Sticky Situation would then put a Monkey wrench into the cake and make it the Top talk as the Topper as well.
Let sleeping dogs lie. If he is known to Swap Spit with Others, believe me, your sister will find out on her own about this dog, and you would not have to be the Monkey caught in the Middle, but a Friend indeed instead who she may Need.
Good luck. xx

[cherrymarina]

How can you betray your sister like that? Drunk or not drunk it''s not acceptable. If you tell her she will be extremely hurt but if you don't tell her she will marry a loser. You don't have to answer here... but be honest to yourself. Did you have a thing for her man? Things like that don't JUST happen. This is a huge red flag for her. She shouldn't marry him.

[Asker]

I guess. I always thought he was kind of cute but never thought I would somewhat act on it till that day we got very drunk. Only that fact that I realize what I was doing and thought about her in the moment, it's when I stopped him from going further. Still, I do feel awful about it.

[cherrymarina]

Did you speak to him after the incident? Did he say anything?

[Asker]

Yes, he won't say a word if I don't spill the beans either. But I'm now wondering that if he would have gone all the way to sex if I haven't stop him, cheat with me then he can cheat with someone else.

[cherrymarina]

Damn. What a shitty situation. Perhaps it's a sign that this marriage must be stopped. Did you ever notice his sleezy ways or is this the first time?

[Anonymous]

You should tell your sister. You can't keep something like that from her. She has the right to know.

[cobra2]

Tell him, he sounds like a sleeze ball. Do you really want that guy to marry your sister and end up cheating on him later on? Think about how much it will hurt your sister the longer you wait... Your sister takes priority, she might be mad at you. But you genuinely care about her and don't want her to end up with an a**hat like that. Marriage is for life, but he seems like he is ready to cheat at the drop of a hat

[madhatters4]

your sister deserves to know. she deserves to know because of the act itself but also that her fiance is the type who potentially may be unfaithful... well he is unfaithful

[Metlahaed]

Yeah he is obviously a cheater, probably already has cheated, and certainly will again. Tell her. Maybe not that it was you though.

[guyngals]

Your sister should know her fiancé is a cheater.

On the other hand, it's not like you respect your sister, is it?

[jacquesvol]

Forget it ever happened.

[iFarted]

Tell your sis cause her man is a cheater

[Thandz01]

Damn.

[Asker]

I guess I should tell her. I can't let her marry someone that cheats.

[Thandz01]

Just tell her u were doing some investigative work on her behalf lol but seriously if u do that u run the risk of her cutting u off too or she may fight u lol or she may cut one of y'all off and keep the other. It depends on the type of girl she is. But u gotta be in more control yourself that was your friend's man lol low blow but we all make mistakes i guess...

[bcromartie]

Tell.