Why did my friend blocked me on snapchat and Instagram?

[Aurora95]

This is a stupid question I'm sorry... But... Okay yeah my very close friend blocked me on snapchat and Instagram because I posted a quote about love: "Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. who understands you even in the madness; someone who helps you, and guides you, someone who is your support, your hope. fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight. Fall in love with someone who misses you and wants to be with you. Do not fall in love only with a body or with a face; or with the idea of being in love "

We are actually very close friends, we always cuddle and hold hands and hug each and kiss each other other and we have been in a relationship too but not right now. Tbh I still love him and care about him so much. He was my first love and I was his first love and we have always so fun togeher. He blocked me immediately after I posted this quote so I'm just wondering did he get upset or what is going on... I just feel bad and sad because I didn't mean anything bad. I just feel like an idiot because I posted it. What do you think? ... why did he blocked me? Because we are not together though

[Jennadya0910]

Hi Girls and Guys! First of all, I been with my guy friend relationship on and off him and I dated before like 2 months and after that he broke up with me because he wants me to get a full-time job and my license. And I told him I would get them if he give me more time to get them but now he was telling me that we’re just friends for now and maybe someday if him and I both single we could try again but it makes me confused more that right now him and I are just friends but he keep showing me all those romantic stuff and when him and I going in public he was holding my hands and kissing me especially when him and I hanging out at his house he was starting kissing me and telling me how happy he is when I’m with him and he was telling me how beautiful I am and he told me that he loves me and I said it back to him. And on Friday night him and I had a fight about something and all the sudden I called him a douchebag because he really does acting like a douchbag sometimes and he got upset and mad at me for telling him that to him but I told him I was sorry and he told me that him and I were never be friends and he told me to leave him alone and I was keep telling him how sorry I am and the last thing he told me is to fuck off. And last week he told me he forgive me and he explain to me why he was mad at me and on Sunday him and I hang out at his house and riding his fourwheeler I told him that was really fun and I really a good time hanging out with him. And last Wednesday night I went to my Facebook to change my profile picture but all the sudden I accidentally post the picture of him and I on Facebook but I decided to change it because I would think he doesn’t wanna see it on there and on Thursday morning he blocked me on Facebook and I went to my Instagram and I have a message from him and he explain to me how he blocked me on Facebook. I told him it was an accident and texted him that I’m going to delete that pictures of him and I so I don’t posted of them anymore and I ask him to unblock me on Facebook but he told me no because he was taking a break until now he won’t talk to me at all and he won’t texting me back when I’m trying to text him. Actually he was my number 7 and he was the last guy I ever dated. And now I really need an advice about all of this Please help me?

[phil2]

You need to just ask him straight up, don't think of all these things and blow them up in your head that he doesn't like you just because of that quote. How do you know it was just because of that quote? How do you know if it was not something else? I think that quote just means you really want to fall in love with someone who won't give up on you, and that is the greatest thing in a relationship. That when the going gets tough, he won't just drop you. Why don't you ask him, maybe he just doesn't like instagram or whatever, some guys don't use social media that much and maybe he deleted it because he doesn't want to use it much. You have to really just call him up and talk to him.

[RJGraveyTrain]

I assume he blocked you because he clearly has feelings for you still, and he felt that the quote was somehow insinuating that he didn't have the qualities you listed and thus took it as a personal jab.

[Blueeyes2016]

How can I ever get off the blocked list? The girl talks to me in person again?

[RJGraveyTrain]

@Blueeyes2016 What?

[Blueeyes2016]

Shit.. I meant to post that as a new post! No wonder I didn't see it

[RJGraveyTrain]

@Blueeyes2016 I'm so confused.

[Blueeyes2016]

Yeah me too lol

[mikemx55]

Is he seeing someone else? Or is he into someone else? He clearly thought you were provoking him. Either by mentioning some reference from the past, referring to body vs mind, or by seeming like it was directed at him (I'm sure you thought of him when you posted it), or because he's into somebody else and thinks you're jealous.

[Aurora95]

No he is not seeing someone else. I feel so horrible now... That quote was just a advice for other people. I didn't mean him...

[mikemx55]

Well then, it's not that mature of him to block you because of that either...

[Aurora95]

Yeah true :) I'll try to text him. Thanks for answering

[MrAtticusLebowski]

I don't know be honest here did you post that while you were thinking of him?
He probably felt that was the case and thought it passive aggressive.

The other possibility is he's kinda/maybe seeing someone and doesn't want you to see the pics he's posting.

[nothing6795]

It's probably because you are trying to force something to sound deep when it isn't profound, why don't we cut the sh*t here Doris, your messing with his head you really are. you say your in love with him but you aren't together? It seems like you want all the benefits of being in a relationship without actually having to be in a relationship well thats selfish of you decide what you want and stop messing with his head If you made up your mind a little sooner maybe he wouldn't have blocked you.

[Jan1ssary_]

Well maybe this part of your message "Fall in love with someone who missed you and wants to be with you. Do not fall in love with only body or with a face; or the idea of being in love" because its like you loved him cause of his looks and you think his personality sucks, maybe He got offended.

[Aurora95]

Damn that sucks... Ugh I feel horrible now. Because I fell in love with him because of his personality. He is so caring and loving. Any girl would be lucky to have him. Hopefully he didn't understand me wrong :/

[Jxpxtxr]

I'm confused.. so is he your ex-boyfriend or your friend?
If he's your ex boyfriend he might have just gotten jealous because you obviously moved on.. Whatever his reasons are, it's certainly not your fault.

[Aurora95]

Yeah he is my ex boyfriend but also my very good friend. I just feel bad because I feel like I did something wrong. I just don't want to lose him. Thanks for answering :)

[thelanatellama]

Sounds like it's definitely the post that caused him to block you, really not sure why though. There's nothing wrong with post itself unless you recently turned him down or something like that. You should text him and ask if there's something wrong

[Aurora95]

Yeah you are right. I feel bad because I didn't mean to hurt him and I really don't want to lose him. Blocking just feels so dramatic I don't know... Thanks for answering :)

[ADFSDF1996]

He might have misinterpreted it. He probably has a crush on you but he might have thought that you were talking about someone else. If you ever see him in person, try to explain what you really meant.

[HotDogg]

How close are you two? Do you think he's in love with you?

[Aurora95]

We are very close. And that is something I have been thinking. I'm still in love with him but I don't know does he still love me. But we love to cuddle together and everything like that and he always texts me did I get home safe, and did I eat today, what I ate... and he is very protective. And when we are walking somewhere he put his arms around my shoulder and sometimes his hand on my lower back. Sorry that sounds so cheesy. But everything so sweet stuff, and I love it. But I don't know. :)

[HotDogg]

That definitely sounds like he is still in love with you. He probably thought your post was about someone else and not him, or he's upset because he thinks you don't love him back.

by the way, that's not cheesy, I wish I could do those things with the girl I like...

[Aurora95]

Thanks for answering I appreaciate that :) I just feel so sad rn because I feel like hurt him. That quote was more like a advice for other people. I just don't want to lose him. But I'll text him and explain everything. I really do love him.

And good haha :) Just text that girl something and ask her out !

[ginny_weasley]

I think it's the post that hurt him. There is nothing wrong with the post. Just text him and ask what is wrong.

[ThisDudeHere]

Maybe he's trying to get over you and you just made it harder for him so it sent him over the edge?

[JessTheMess]

Maybe he posted something he doesn't want you to see.

[starzcapz]

if he is your close friend I would ask him, he should be mature enough to answer the question

[Anonymous]

How do you know he blocked you? Have you asked him? That's the only way you'll know what is going on.

[Anonymous]

burn it alllll, unexcused, unabsolved