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Honestly? Everywhere could be a romantic place to go with a platonic guy friend. His house, your house, Walmart, the park, somewhere to eat, a construction site... the list goes on & on. Except the library, but no one goes there.
So here's the thing. You can go with him wherever you guys want to go. Grab coffee together and talk or whatever, or sit in one of your vehicles and chat. When people see you two together, and if you're near the same age, they're generally just going to assume the following in the tiered list:
That you're dating each other
That you're friends or coworkers
That you're siblings or cousins
There's no way to make people think you're not dating unless you tell each and every one of them personally that you're not.. it's just how people think, ma'am. Everyone's going to assume you're dating. This even happened to me once when I walked with my friend's girlfriend one time at a place I worked-- everyone gave me rude looks as if I were cheating on my fiancee whom they all knew. It's unfair.
So... just don't worry about it; if your boyfriend gets the wrong idea all you have to do is explain the situation. Sometimes it's complicated to have friends on the opposite sex without a little judgement or assumptions going on. Go wherever you two wanna go. :)
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there's no such thin as having a "platonic" guy "friend". you have 2 boyfriends. don't "COMPLICATE" THINGS
The place you're going to is most likely not what would make your boyfriend think that something is fishy. Think about the places you would go to with nobody but your boyfriend. You can probably not think of many, and those you can think of are those that would make him feel suspicious. I would say only do stuff in groups or even better try to introduce your friend to your boyfriend.
In terms of where to go you can as I said before basically do whatever you want without feeling that it's wrong. He won't mind unless there is a reason to distrust you (and in that case the location wouldn't help)
Anywhere that you wouldn't go with your boyfriend on a romantic date, for example I wouldn't go to a high class restaurant with someone who is just a friend. Otherwise, if you happen to have chemistry people will think you are dating.
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I would hang out with other friends to avoid confusion
And out of the way Motel where neither of you will be recognized by anyone.
Problem is that anything you do could be considered a date...
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