Why does he act weird when his wife is around?

[Tamikaze]

He is acting weird due to what is in his mind. He's probably imagined all sorts of things and maybe hopes it would happen. And when I mean "things", I mean sex, not a relationship or love. Who knows, maybe he even let it slip to his wife that he flirts with you or that you flirt with him. People do all sorts of crazy things in marriage. Wives know when a guy is treating another woman in a special way, so he might not have said anything, she just realizes that he treats you a bit different.

[JUST13]

"Tamikaze" is probably right. But if you do not agree then its his wife... She is probably jealous & angry. I suggest keeping a distance.

[hisangel]

He freezes up because she is his wife and he has a priority to please her and make her happy over you. He made a commitment to love her and forsake all others. And he doesn't want her thinking he is going to do anything with you.

His flirting may lead to him asking you if you want more but luckily you have already seen how adulterers act. When it's you and him, he is flirty and open. But when his wife is there guess who is going to win? His priorities are going to be him, his wife, his children (if he has any), his mother and father, his siblings, his job is in there somewhere. He is going to make decisions to persevere those things first and foremost.

I'm not trying to hurt you but I think you need to see that his wife isn't an evil shrew who is jealous of you. She is the one who has him. And the evil looks probably aren't jealousy, they are "Oh another one!" I know you think he treats you different then other women but he most likely doesn't. Adulterers throw out the vibe to many women and then just flirt with the ones who pick up on it. I can't tell you how many girls I've heard think they are the only one who he flirts wth and then get a shock when they see him flirting with others.

She is his wife and she has every right to look at you however she wants. I hope you can respect their marriage and not flirt with a married man to stroke your ego. If you truly don't want her to get hurt, leave her husband alone.