In some cases, a lot of the time, girl believe that guys are looking to get with them so they become friends first. But there are some nice guys out there that respect the girls and are only looking to become friends. But in the society today, if you have too many 'girl friends' you are judged to be gay. Personally, I have loads of friends that are girls, and I get on with them more than guys because I can talk to them about so much more and I feel comfortable around girls
Obviously they always can be... becoming close to someone is natural.. bt being in relationship wid tht person is completely ur own decision... A person might be close to u bt not necessary tht u r in relationship wid tht person.. U feel a bond between both of u... bt it may nt be love
Not if there's physical/emotional attraction between the two, otherwise our natural instinct to come together romantically/sexually will get in the way of that frienship.
Yeah. The main thing is if either individual has/has had feelings for the other then they just need to make sure to keep that in check. Regardless, in both friendships and relationships, communication is key.
I have a lot of guy friends who only see me as a friend and so do I so yes I believe it’s definitely possible. Some guys would argue that guys and girls can not be just friends
It depends. If the guy feels sexual attraction to her, it makes it tough. I have been with about half the female friends I'm attracted to, but we were mature enough to not let sex make things awkward enough to ruin our friendship.
Friends with benefits? Absolutely we can be friends. I havn't had a female friend where there wasn't sex involved since high school. And because I've cared so deeply for my love, I havn't had any female friends besides her in a long time.
Yes people have been asking that questions for years and it’s starting to get annoying. For me i kinda have more guy friends right now. It’s no big deal.
Personally no I had a friend and he always said that's what we were friends and thats what we always will be , and then he said I don't want to be friends anymore because I want to be more and that seems to happen often
Yes. In my opinion... I had my best friend Jenna "best woman" stand in my wedding. Trust is everything. We always say I love you , and she is like the sister I never had. We still to this day will not allow anyone or anything to come between us. Just my experience.
having sexual interest on a friend doesn't mean that it's not a real friendship, it's just human nature to get sexually aroused by the other gender. i have a lot of female friends, and i don't mind having sex with them while it's nothing emotional. but it doesn't work that way, a friend is a friend, having sexual interest is okay, but doing it is uncool.
I read it's unlikely because boys most likely imagined the girl naked before (friends don't imagine each other naked). But I think they can just be friends
Yeah. There are plenty of females I don't find attractive in any way that I'm friends with. They're nice, but they're not someone I could see myself with in any way.
As long as the guy is not attracted to you it's possible. I've had guys get mad at me that i friendzoned them but the whole time they know i had a boyfriend.
It depends. I have never had any female friends, only acquaintances. So, I've always only preferred one woman in my life at one point and that is my girlfriend. The rest of the women are just acquaintance
If your a real man, No. I wouldn't fuck any of my guy friends but I would fuck all of my girl friends. It's the slow play, you start off as friends yadadada when her guard is down slam bam thank you mam.
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In some cases, a lot of the time, girl believe that guys are looking to get with them so they become friends first. But there are some nice guys out there that respect the girls and are only looking to become friends. But in the society today, if you have too many 'girl friends' you are judged to be gay. Personally, I have loads of friends that are girls, and I get on with them more than guys because I can talk to them about so much more and I feel comfortable around girls
Obviously they always can be... becoming close to someone is natural.. bt being in relationship wid tht person is completely ur own decision... A person might be close to u bt not necessary tht u r in relationship wid tht person.. U feel a bond between both of u... bt it may nt be love
Not if there's physical/emotional attraction between the two, otherwise our natural instinct to come together romantically/sexually will get in the way of that frienship.
No cause if so then friends and no strings. Was felt before sexuality or a kiss.
@critter1989 what..
Thats my instagram name
Yeah. The main thing is if either individual has/has had feelings for the other then they just need to make sure to keep that in check. Regardless, in both friendships and relationships, communication is key.
Yes untill it is a pure friendship.
When anyone of them getting towards the love border, it will be no more a friendship.
Coz it will increase the expectations and will spoil the relation.
I have a lot of guy friends who only see me as a friend and so do I so yes I believe it’s definitely possible. Some guys would argue that guys and girls can not be just friends
Are you sure they only see you as a friend?
That’s what they told me
Well, you should know men will use their first opportunity to get something else
Most of them have girlfriends anyway and I’m friends with them too
It depends. If the guy feels sexual attraction to her, it makes it tough. I have been with about half the female friends I'm attracted to, but we were mature enough to not let sex make things awkward enough to ruin our friendship.
Friends with benefits? Absolutely we can be friends. I havn't had a female friend where there wasn't sex involved since high school. And because I've cared so deeply for my love, I havn't had any female friends besides her in a long time.
Yes people have been asking that questions for years and it’s starting to get annoying. For me i kinda have more guy friends right now. It’s no big deal.
Personally no
I had a friend and he always said that's what we were friends and thats what we always will be , and then he said I don't want to be friends anymore because I want to be more and that seems to happen often
Yes. In my opinion... I had my best friend Jenna "best woman" stand in my wedding. Trust is everything. We always say I love you , and she is like the sister I never had. We still to this day will not allow anyone or anything to come between us. Just my experience.
How does your wife feel about this? Is she close to her? And who is more of a priority, the best friend or the wife?
having sexual interest on a friend doesn't mean that it's not a real friendship, it's just human nature to get sexually aroused by the other gender. i have a lot of female friends, and i don't mind having sex with them while it's nothing emotional. but it doesn't work that way, a friend is a friend, having sexual interest is okay, but doing it is uncool.
I read it's unlikely because boys most likely imagined the girl naked before (friends don't imagine each other naked). But I think they can just be friends
Men imagine every girl they meet naked at least once.
@jim97 what about unnattractive ones
Sometimes that can slip into our minds too only that it disgusts us.
Sure! Why not? I have a lot of male friends. Meanwhile, my man has numerous female friends. My brothers have a lot of female friends too.
Same, I have mostly male friends actually while my boyfriend has mostly female friends! People are so close minded - it’s 2018!!!
Why I Think Women and Men Can't Be "Just Friends" ↗
I've had "moments" with freinds who I only saw as freinds. It's going to go either way eventually. Either non freind or more.
Yeah. There are plenty of females I don't find attractive in any way that I'm friends with. They're nice, but they're not someone I could see myself with in any way.
As long as the guy is not attracted to you it's possible. I've had guys get mad at me that i friendzoned them but the whole time they know i had a boyfriend.
It depends. I have never had any female friends, only acquaintances. So, I've always only preferred one woman in my life at one point and that is my girlfriend. The rest of the women are just acquaintance
If your a real man, No. I wouldn't fuck any of my guy friends but I would fuck all of my girl friends. It's the slow play, you start off as friends yadadada when her guard is down slam bam thank you mam.