Can a girl and a guy be just friends? (Page 3)

[CheekyPaws]

Yes, most of my friends are female, doesn't mean I want them all in a sexual way.

[Disc98]

Yes, i have a few female friends, and our relationships are purely platonic

[sabas2200]

I think so I have had some friends that were girls and didn't want to date or sleep with them just wanted to be friends

[Anonymous]

Yes, society deems otherwise but they don’t matter, my best friend is a girl, she’s like family to me

[TaureanBull81]

Yes you sure can! I have quite a few friends of the opposite sex 😊

[bennythedog]

It's possible. Really good friends who pass the test of time - I doubt.

[DamnMan]

Only when younger. When you get older, it's less likely to be just a friendship.

[adamjanovic]

I asked this same question and got very mixed responses. Personally, I believe they can.

[Kareless21]

absolutely. Just don't overstep each others boundary lines.

[Galen01]

Yes, the majority of my friends have been and are female.

[MackJanzie]

Yes, it's actually quite nice to get advice from the other gender.

[SketchForger]

Yes... If we fucked every female we saw Japan wouldn't be going extinct right now.

[BagoFit]

yes if one is in a relationship or if they're absolutely not attracted sexually towards each other

[Mariouch]

Yeah, but there’s always be an opening for a potential relationship.

[LordPK20797]

Yes definitely. Gender is a social construct and it bugs me when people are against having friends just because of their gender.

[cchltm]

I have a few guy friends mostly guys who I have dated in the past after telling them I gay. I think I get on with them more than my female friends to be honest!

[Mstovickova]

All my true friends are boys. So my opinion is yes, girls can be with boys just friends. Yeah friendships between boys and girls are different than friendships between two boys or two girls. But

[Faweezie]

I believe it depends on the people. Most of my friends are males and we have never Done anything sexual but there are many people out there that just get attached to easily

[stfu12345]

No fucking way.. thus is jaut a myth.. either one is unattracted , it's not a friendship ( because it is too professional) or one is ugly or they'll screw

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I had a couple of guy friends back in high school.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. If the guy is gay or one or the other is really unattractive towards one or the other.

[saud1998]

Wouldn’t they end up catching feelings at one point though?

[ryancg]

Yeah, I think so. I've had quite a few female friends.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Yes they can be friends regardless of sexual orientation.

[helphelpimdying]

yes. but often you fall in love with them eventually

[helphelpimdying]

by the way that picture is not "just friends" behavior either. staring deep into each others eye.

[gbmlevin]

Yes, but if a guy tries to be a friend with you, he usually is seeking to be a lover.

[Philyouup]

Absolutely. My best friend and I are 35 years and counting. And no she is not my lover

[dominic_drago]

Yes. I can't believe its 2018 and people still don't know this

[TallGuy96]

If the girl was nice, cool and clear then yes, as long as there is ambiguity then no.

[synonymous773]

Yeah, if that guy doesn't mind being in the firendzone getting used for attention.

[VaIiant]

Uh... no.

[synonymous773]

Uh... yeah.

[VaIiant]

My best friend of many years is a guy. Mutually platonic relationship, we’re extremely close.

[synonymous773]

And he wants to fuck you and you drag him along.

[VaIiant]

Uh... he’s been in a relationship for four years. We’ve also mentioned that while the other is very attractive, the idea of dating repulses us both.
I’m sorry you can’t control your hormones long enough to develop actual co-ed friendships.

[synonymous773]

Nope. That's not true at all. How the hell, can you both be attracted to one another and but he repulsed by dating? That don't make sense. You're using him.

[VaIiant]

There’s a difference between identifying another person as good looking.
I am certainly not using him, and for you to assume so is rude.

[synonymous773]

Come on now... I know how women think. Don't play me kid.

[VaIiant]

Women? I’m a teenager, and he’s my childhood friend. I’ve known him since we were 9.
You don’t know how “I think”. Claiming you do is disrespectful to him, since I’m close with his girlfriend, who he intends to marry.
As long as there’s a real friendship, it can be platonic, but most of the time there isn’t. But it’s not a rule, there’s plenty of people with platonic friendships.

[synonymous773]

Lool

[VaIiant]

What?

[synonymous773]

Nothing beautiful, have a wonderful night!!!

[VaIiant]

You too.

[AM-205]

I think they can! (All that's stupid is the peer-pressure of others)

[Dxk007]

Yeah, unless there's no feeling of attraction between them

[Jacket-Daniels]

Of course why not... but I think if the question was asked in Turkey most people would say very hard , impossible or something like that..

[bondboo]

Absolutely not. One will always develop more feelings towards the other, usually sexual. Its human nature.

[Anonymous]

I think one will sooner or later fall for the other, depending on how close they are.

[zachlavoie]

Yes, but it should be more or less explicitly stated towards the beginning of the relationship

[burhanuddin]

Yeah they can, but the until ones interest to another don't change

[AnandoRudra]

May be. It's depend what they think about each other

[deido]

Theoretically yes and also in rare occasions... but technically biology come a in the way

[mattroman1]

Yes! I think there doesn't always have to be sexual tension between guys/girls lol

[Riyadh3]

I have a lot of female friends
but in my opinoin it's difficult to be really friend

[CT_CD]

Yeah. If the girl is unattractive or the guy is gay

[PrincessPie]

lol :D

[VaIiant]

@CT_CD lol not true.

[Flower-petal]

LMAO 😂 @CT_CD

[CT_CD]

@VaIiant True

[VaIiant]

Nahh, my best friend is a guy,( we’ve been friends since we were 9, so that might effect things). Completely mutually platonic, he’s even said the idea of dating me repulses him, as were like family.
I think if there’s a real friendship it can be platonic, but otherwise not so much.

[CT_CD]

@VaIiant Are you attractive?

[VaIiant]

Oof, how to answer this without sounding like an arrogant ass...
Short answer, yes, very much so.

[CT_CD]

@VaIiant I bet he would have sex with you if you tried to seduce him

[Flower-petal]

This is hilarious 😂

[Flower-petal]

@VaIiant proof or it's not true 😂

[VaIiant]

@CT_CD no he wouldn’t😂 He’s my childhood friend and we’ve been best friends for years.

[VaIiant]

@Flower-petal How do I upload photos in a reply?

[CT_CD]

@VaIiant You can use https://imgur.com

[Flower-petal]

@VaIiant or you can change your profile picture

[VaIiant]

@Flower-petal I’ll just change my profile photo.

[RobinT]

Yes. One of my best friends is a girl.
BUT I also would prefer to be more than friends if it was possible. But I'm still happy to be friends

[mynkhunk]

Yes can b... but 90% fall in luv with each other... some share der feeling n some keeps it secret.. so dat none feelings wudnt hurt...

[billyho]

Yes and no. W friendship may be a desire to touch or be w it can be controled maintained as long as at least. On wamts it to b

[Antony_AR]

If it's a close and often relationship and if the guy or girl are not in any other relationship then it's a no!

[ANONdudeSEA]

Yes, and I'm only answering cause for some reason it won't let me read comments unless I share an opinion.

[nigguhkayy]

Of course, but should you give it a try, even with only an optimistic outlook over a difficult path aheah? Dushit course

[kuuku]

Of course yes, they can be just friends with no strings attached, let your intentions be known from the start of the friendship.

[mirandasto98]

It can happen, it just has never happened to me. They all end up falling for me. Kinda annoying at times.

[IsaacSteel]

There's a lot of people who claim to be just friends, but it's totally feasible. My girlfriend was friends with my best friend for a long time

[AlexBlade]

As for me, I have no female friends... it is too difficult to be friends when their boyfriends ask to... you know=)

[VaIiant]

What?

[ImJust-a-RandomGuy]

Depends on how emotionaly Matute they both are. But yeah, it's possible.

[shuhads]

I'd say yes. No reason why opposite sex can't be friends.

[yourfutureboyfriend]

Yes they can... not the best friends tho but just friends

[P-dog]

Well it might start out like that but feelings grow

[BetweenMaroon]

Maybe for a while, but, eventually the guy will catch feelings. So it's eventually a no.

[alex1987xx]

Yes. They can. Though there is one you want to be more than friends with.

[a6576171]

Yes, just as long as both find each other unattractive

[intjgamer]

I doubt it. One of the two will want something more in the relationship sooner or later.