Boyfriend in jail who won't talk to me, write to me, or basically let me see him.

[missmarciano]

OK, so the update for this crazy story with the boyfriend in jail who won't talk to me, write to me, or basically let me see him.(because he thinks I lied about things). His bunky in jail who is a mutual friend of ours, calls me and lets me know what is going on. The bunky, and my boyfriends mother both are telling me, Steve is mad that I lied, but he is also calling me crazy and a STALKER! How do you stalk someone that is in jail? I think all the drugs have fried his brain. I am DEF. DONE WI TH HIM. However, I need your guys advice on this. I wrote a 3 page letter to him about a month ago, basically a pity letter, saying how I did everything for you, and your doing this, blah blah. I wish I could take it back now. BUT my question is should I just leave it alone, and not say anything, or should I write him a short letter, basically cursing him out. My friends think I should write him a short letter cursing him out, and letting him know I don't give a s* about him, and he is a pos. like make him feel stupid, or should I not write anything at all. I don't want him thinking, I'm waiting for him to call me, or anything like that. I want him to feel stupid. advice advice. lol

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

if you're "done" with him then show it by forgetting about him and not even making the slightest effort to contact him. If you lived together then put his stuff in boxes and out of sight, get your lock changed so his key (if he has one) doesn't work. you can go further such as changing your telephone number but that's up to you.

[missmarciano]

Hes in jail + h asnt tried to contact me but spends so much time calling me names to people. ha ha thanks! I am def not going to write him a letter.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

He's in jail but he's trashtalking you? a person who is still a functioning member of society whereas he, is a deadbeat convict with a significantly decreased chance of ever having a worthwile job. Forget about him, ignore anything you hear about him. you are better than him.

[carlstatlin]

Leave it be. if he does call you just hang up. don't give him the time of day if you really are done. your friends sound like idiots. take the higher ground don't listen to them.

[missmarciano]

Haha yeah that's what I was saying..but they said I look stupid and I should make sure he knows I don't give a f bout him. def. not writing him a letter

[carlstatlin]

the best way to show somebody you don't give a f*** about them is to not have anything to do with them. say nothing to them or to anyone about them. as if they don't exist.

[Anonymous]

Why would you settle for a guy who's in jail in the first place? Do you think that's what you worth a worthless convict? Wow shame on you I would be happy that he's ignoring me so I can do me

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's throwing a little tantrum. Give him his space. He's an idiot to push away that looks that good lol. Let him cool his heels in there, he's not going anywhere right?

[Thewisetao]

Maybe he has a boyfriend in jail