How do you feel about last minute cancelled plans?

[Anonymous]

Is it a relief, is it annoying, do you do this?

[ArrowheadSW]

I know a lady who would set up plans routinely, and then cancel out at the last minute. It came to the point that anything she suggested that we do, I wouldn't believe it until the time came. She's just a friend and we're not dating.

[coolbreeze]

It's bad especially if you get dressed up for nothing to go out or something and then the perst cancels. It's annoying tbh. lol.

[Asker]

Exactly. Like I am all dressed and ready for a night out and then an hour before the girls will call and either just say they are not coming or that they want to change the plans so they don't have to leave their house. Definitely annoying.

[coolbreeze]

Lol yes very annoying. Im glad I'm not the only one that has went through that so many times.

[coolbreeze]

Thank you very much for selecting my answer as the most helpful opinion.

[itsmicaelaxo]

Depends on my mood. Sometimes it's a relief cause maybe I was tired and not really feeling it. But when I was dying to go somewhere it annoys the sh*t out of me 😂

[Asker]

Same girl. I'm like always down for a good time and a lot of my female friends always end up making excuses not to come like an hour before.

[shimmeryns]

Really upset. I must have been arranging my schedule around to be fre and the thought that I could have done something productive further upset me.

[Asker]

Exactly. My so called friends love to plan and do things over social media and when it's time to show up everyone is too tired or want me to change my plans for them. Eyeroll so annoying

[CallMeDave]

That depends on the reason for it. If it's some kind of unpredictable thing that caused the cancellation, like a flat tire or a family emergency or something like that, then it wouldn't bother me and I'd just be concerned for the person that has the problem.

If it's just that they decided they'd prefer to do something else, that's quite annoying because I likely planned other things in my day around whatever we were planning to do. If that started happening frequently, I'd probably stop making plans with that person or at least not making plans at a time that would affect anything else I might be doing.

[Asker]

This is literally what always happens to me. I call and ask friends to go out a week or two in advance and the day it's a no call no show and lots of bs excuses 😠

[flower92]

I am a last minute person so I don't really like to make plans, usually I am relieved when they are cancelled but it depends, if I was excited about something and it got cancelled i would be mad

[Quidthonian]

I would get very irritated and frustrated. I like to plan, and a change means that I need to come up with an alternative.

[Asker]

Facts 💯

[CoffeeWC]

It's annoying especially when you've had to prepare a lot.

[Asker]

Same. I usually take my time to put together events and then people either don't show up or show up and try to make me change my plans it's so weird.

[analyzingall]

It is okay. Better than spur of the moment always being thrown into it.

[Lance1965]

It used to be annoying but now more times than not it is a relief.

[chuck48]

Its bullshit but will forgive it once because shit does happen

[PrettyRegular]

Not a fan. I like to know my plans early on.

[Asker]

Same. Like a week in advance and my friends still manage to cancel and make excuses.

[Paris13]

Find new Friends, Lovely!!! xx

[mistixs]

Relief

[Saarr]

It is annoying, but I can't say I never do it😅😂

[Saaab12]

Relief

[Razal]

frustrating