Its sad to say that I have many guys use it on me too. Don't feel bad.you're not alone. Many guys use this statement because one he is not attract to the girl but like her personality, two he is talking to someone else and if things doesn't work out between him and other girl then he can come back to the girl, and three he is not ready for relationship yet and really want to get to know the girl more before he can date her. Overall I think is just bs excuse for them to get off without feeling guilty for rejecting a girl. I learned that guys.doesn't need time for anything, if they find a girl attractive and want to be with her , then he wouldn't even wait or use the line on her at all. Just move on and if you still have a feeling for a guy.don't agree to be his friend because you're giving yourself a fault hope that he going to turn around and like you back.
ask them how long do they mean by "for now".
ask them also if there are stressful things they are resolving at the moment that they cannot focus on a relationship? and what kind of friendship commitment are they really intending? friends with benefits? or drinking friends? or movies and hang out like one of the guys? or you're going to be their girl therapist?
they say for now to keep you around. because if they just said to be just friends. It doesn't leave any room for keeping you in thier future they kno how girls are
Some say it to keep the option open if they ever want to be more than a friend with you. Some just say it because they want to add something else to the end of the sentence. Some say it because theyre talking in the present time, and its a natural reaction to say a state of time with something like this instead of leaving it at "i want to be friends". Other than that, he doesn't want to mess you yours and his friendship with one another.
It can mean that you are SOL as far as romance is concerned. It could also be that they don't want to commit to you right now. But I think you're SOL on this one, move on to someone who will be willing to be your S/O without any qualms.
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It means the other person likes you, thinks there may be a possibility of a nice long-term relationship, but isn't ready to do that now.
The risk to you is that you invest time being friends with the hope of something more, and that never happens.
The possible reward is that the relationship does develop into something very nice long-term.
It's an interesting situation to be in.
I used it only once (with a girl I met online and which like and we're getting to know each other), so by this I mean, that I want to be friends and get to know more each other. Also in my case it's because I have trust issues (so I want to build trust with her).
They had other options besides you and they want to keep you around to be there just in case girl. Guys rarely or never friend zone a girl they’re attracted to.
... I'm genuinely confused when they say this, I can't tell whether they're joking or serious. Either, it's uncomfortable and not heart fluttering as they maybe think it's
some guys mean that they just wanna have fun with out any real commitment for a relationship , others say that because they're not interesting in the meantime .
checking if yoy are good enough... too bad forcthese shits they are already rejected in my case 🤣🤣😂😂😂 thanks for all the effort and resources 😚😚😚😚
It means he wants you for his safety option, in case the girl (s) he really wants turn him down.
Or it means he doesn't want a relationship, but might call you at 2AM wanting sex at some point.
It means he wants to hold out a little longer in case he finds someone a little sexier but if he doesn't he'll settle.
It means that maybe they could see themselves dating you in the future. But it might not be sincere.
I dont know the context but it feels that you are just a backup for them... dont let them treat you that way and search a good person who values you.
i say it to guys when I don't wanna hurt there feelings so it kinda gives them false hope.
It means they don't want to say its forever because that would be awkward.
He doesn't like you like that. move on. Guys and girls can't be "just friends"
Ask the person (persons) that said it to you, not us. We have no idea.
They are giving u false hope. They still want u to give them attention because it strokes their ego.
That means I am not wasting my time
I think maybe it means that He likes you but doesn't want a girlfriend at the point in time.
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You’ve been friendzoned.
They want to be a romantic partner.
It means you're wasting your time
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