If this bothers you, figure out why. Is there a specific reason you must be arround these people who just simply aren't interested in maintaining a friendship? Maybe it's just cause you are human and require human interaction so you don't suffer from social isolation. Maybe you want something from them. I believe it is important to come to terms by being honest with yourself why you are seeking to maintain or find new friends. Now I don't really know what specifically makes people attracted, but I know meeting many more people improves chances of striking a common interest. Now you can't control people, but you can only monitor the invested time spent by you and others. It's a matter of trying and trying again, as it takes years to form meaningful friendships or relationships. I believe humans are biologically wired to be distrustful and adept at time and energy spent in limited relations they can hold. You will be okay when you come to terms with yourself, and expect nothing from others, otherwise you will continue to live in a stream of disappointments.
Well, start arguing with me on here and maybe it will come out. I have got into some long drawn out ones on here and it revealed some traits. I will start with, you get ghosted because deep down that is what you really want. You are a whiner and everything has to go your way and if not you rather be alone and sulk.
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Maybe you talk to much or your too clingy. Take a look at your flaws and maybe you will see what's wrong
It could be the other person
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