How to help control baby fever?

[Anonymous]

my baby fever is through the roof, and nothing seems to help. I just keep thinking about how bad I want a baby.
I work in Healthcare so most things that may work for others (diapers, blowouts, lack of sleep), I already deal with.
I have very mothering nurturing instincts. I just feel ready to start trying i turn 27 this month.

[anonChineseMale]

Okay, Just read a Vice story on Baby Fever or Baby Longing.

So the argument is that it can stem from some kind of evolutionary trait or psychological effect from the community around you such as friends and family. It can be a mixture of both.

So If you look around the people around you and see them having kids, or you are being pushed to have kids by family then psychologically you mind is taking it in and subconsciously be pushing you to feel like having a kid.

The other possible explanation is that because women have a limited time to give birth (men do too but its different). women might feel their prime time to have kids before the slow decline. Realistically Women can have babies until like age 35 or a bit older. However, the thing is that the success rate is decreased. and at some point it will be almost impossible through sex. IVF can help mitigated it and increase your chances if you didn't freeze your eggs. You will probably have a great change if you can afford to freeze eggs and inseminate them later. But that is like a huge cost.

So it can be a mix of the two. Biologically and psychologically. So looking at the age range you put up. I say you shouldn't worry too much as it will pass. I think it more of looking at your life right now and seeing where you are at and if you are happy from your stand point. if not then think about what you want, and think about how you would go about getting what you want. You have time. Don't rush into anything because of a feeling. I know it is tempting however, think about your life and the kid plus partner if he is suitable or not. Lots of things are going on so... close your eyes, take a deep breath, slow down the world around you and think about what is happening around you.

I hope that helps.

[Reaperbot666]

• consider finding a worthwhile partner to help you have a baby then. although you might not want to rush into getting pregnant. until you know they will stick around to help out.
• children to much better in life if raised in a healthy 2 parent household. however does not have to be their biological parents.
• the mostly likely reason you have baby fever. is many females are in peak fertility between 20-30. that is when she has the best chance to get pregnant, have a healthy pregnancy, have a healthy baby and be able to bounce back to her original figure or better. also best chance she'll have the stamina, energy and endurance to raise the baby.
• sure many females can get pregnant after 30. but tends to require them to be in great physical, mental and emotional shape and/or requires medical help to get pregnant / driver the baby safely.

[Reaperbot666]

typo *children do much better in life if raised in a stable and healthy 2 parent household.*

[JoyGirl]

Ummmmm... sooooo... baby fever is ok, but be wise, pls. Are you planning on getting married and then having a baby or do you just want to fuck some guy, get pregnant and be a single mum? O. o

[Asker]

you sound really judgy without knowing my personal life. Since you wanted to ask do i just want to fuck some guy before married i have fucked a guy before being married in fact the same guy and only guy I've been with.

[JoyGirl]

Awe, you are offended. Cute.

[FakeName123]

Considering changing professions to do more with children. Work in daycare and such.
Alternatively get a pet that you can nurture. Ideally a dog since it will also teach you to not overdo the mothering and remain the authority.

Those are obviously only temporary solutions. Looking for a partner that you can start a family with is naturally the only way to really get rid of it.

[jshm2]

You OK? You're not making sense. You can't be working in "healthcare" but not know babies or their fever symptoms and treatments.

[Asker]

Reread the description!! Having baby fever means you want to have a baby desperately... not that I have a baby with a fever; if I did I'd know what to do

[Jameslewisanon]

I was 27 when my son was born too, it's a good age to get started.
I think baby fever's a good thing, it's natural.
Good luck.

[chriscdi]

why dont you go for one, youd seem like youd be a good mother 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Anonymous]

That is so hot and beautiful. You are a natural woman

[In_Trance]

Spend some time at a daycare. That'll help

[Anonymous]

I don't know i have it too.

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