Is it weird to want to date someone who doesn’t have, want, or need friends? (Page 2)

[BUNroaster]

Tbh I think the main struggle is the trust, not the apps or friends. Think about this myself.

[DizzyDesii]

I trust em. I just doubt that they know how to prioritize 😂

[BUNroaster]

Ahhh could just tie him up I guess, throw away the key, phone, pager, smart watch. Let him go when you think he gets it. It is an issue I see in most men. You should be priority and it should be like you're in everything he does.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea im not tryna control him. I still want him to socialize and feel free. I hate feeling trapped. But i just want him to keep his priorities straight and well a lotta people dont

[Twenty2]

If he doesn't have any long term friends then how long do you think you'll be in his life?

[DizzyDesii]

Some people value family and girlfriend/boyfriend higher than friendships. I know i do 🤷‍♀️ I’ll drop a “friend” in a heartbeat because i told them i rather only be associates anyways

[Waldoe]

you sound selfish or insecure... maybe a blow-up Boyfriend would be easiler

[DizzyDesii]

Im not selfish. Having Friends just dont mean much to me

[Waldoe]

I have 3 friends, I am 70, you don't really have many friends, most are just acquaintances... NOT friends

[DizzyDesii]

Because most of them have backstabbed me in some way by sleeping with a boyfriend or by flaking and so on. And these were 10 year friends. I say good riddance

[Waldoe]

if they did any of that, they were NOT friends... refine the meaning of "Friend" I think you are letting too many people into your circle

[DizzyDesii]

Dude they were good people up until the last year of ending it

[Waldoe]

I am sorry, if I was a friend of yours... betrayal would NEVER be an option... never

[Skankhunt]

Nope, It’s not weird at all. A lot of people like to be alone and enjoy their freedom.

[Steve1071]

Nope, It’s not weird at all. Lots of people have no friends but have a single love interest.

[ElvenMr]

I'm kind of like that as well.

[DizzyDesii]

Okay good

[Synikal]

Like associates but not indebted to said people? Yea it's possible. I have those where I live.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i dont wanna commit to em so yea indebt is the right word

[Tim-loves-it]

It can get strange.. good chance of a clingy person to emerge..

[DizzyDesii]

As long as he’s the clinger and not me lol

[Tim-loves-it]

LOL Had one. Had to tell him to go away.

[DizzyDesii]

I mean i like it but not when they say “i can't live without you.” Or “why you lookin at brad pitt” or “are you gonna leave me one day.” 😂

[Tim-loves-it]

I gotcha, Ex wife got jealous of models in a magazine holding up an object.. ugh.

[Guido]

Don't know. I've been out of the dating game for a very long time.

[LukeMerchant]

Not at all, this explanation is quite legit.

[DizzyDesii]

Thank you

[MountAverage]

Sounds absolutely miserable.

[DizzyDesii]

Well one man’s trash is another man’s treasure 🤷‍♀️

[MountAverage]

Yeah thankfully some people pick up the trash :D

[Dchrls78104]

Not really; I could be her friend...

[DizzyDesii]

Exactly lol

[pizzalovershouse]

Usely it is a bit weird

[ALewis30]

Maybe. I've never thought about it.

[DizzyDesii]

Okayyy

[Ryfyle]

So you want a charming Serial Killer that's dtf?

[MrCreep]

I hope not I don't

[DizzyDesii]

Apparently many think so

[MrCreep]

I don't know do they test and interview them to see first?

[Anonymous]

I have no friends

[DizzyDesii]

Like i want you to still have associates of course