Is it weird to want to date someone who doesn’t have, want, or need friends? (Page 2)
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I guess you know what you are looking for 🤔 I suppose there is the idea of them being comfortable with not needing a relationship so they are less needy 🤔
I personally myself would want someone that wants and desires to be around me 😂 but thats just me and there are personalities of every kind for every type of desired relationship too 😊
I do want a relationship. I said i dont want friends. Associates are enough
I don't have many friends myself, neither does my man, but sometimes I need time with what few friends I have or, God forbid, being ALONE, just as he does.
I don't think it's healthy to ask someone to drop every other relationship just so they are overly focused on your relationship. Especially if you eventually break up, because you have taken away your partner's support network.
It's unhealthy.
I didn't ask them to drop anyone. I prefer we already be on the same page of not caring for longterm friends before having even met. I like my alone time too and i also like to socialize with other people. So its good if he does. Im just sayin i dont want someone whos up their friends asses and “needs” friendship
I dont blame you. Sometimes all of these things take away from spending time with your significant other. Also gives a sense of uncertainty of trust if they have all of these. Especially the social media.
Exaaaactly
I don't think is it, I'm the same ways. If he don't have friends then he'll spend more time with me. That's a win situation.
Yepp
That's actually a good idea, for the sake of the Relationship. People will get in the middle of it, sometimes for the sake of Jealousy.
Right
i just feel u got a lot of demands girl !
do u urself complete these demand if a guy asks the same thing? first relationship, then friends !
if u think u could, then hope u get a guy like urs,
if u don't, then well... even i think the same lol
I def only ask for what i already am
well ! let's see..
good that u think u can complete ur demands... go and find someone like that
if it goes well then that would be a great relation for u
if no! then... well... why should i care
A partner who does not have any friends is more likely to be entirely dependent on their romantic relationship for social activities. For some people, a partner like that would be a great match. For others. . . not so much.
Thats why they need associates. Associates are friends but you're not committed to staying thteir friend. Seee.
I don't think finding a friend is something you can control. It is fine to want to date someone with no friends but you can't stop them from making one. In 20 years time when you are out of the picture and that friend remains then their life would be better for it. Also consider if they told you you couldn't make any friends whilst in a relationship with them.
I didn't say i’d stop them. I just meant before we even date. And i dont want friends because i dont like to commit to anything outside of a relationship. Associates are nice and noncommitted
I know what you mean about not having or wanting friends, I'm the same but you seem to say that you want someone with no friends (fine) but don't want them to make a friend whilst in a relationship with you (not fine).
Because it makes no sense to need new friends once married and stuff. Thats Hs stuff
I don't think it is.. in the end.. It's about how well do you get along with him. Tbh we don't find genuine friendships these days.. More friends more troubles..
Exactly
I myself don't have friends and if I was in a relationship, I wouldn't post on social media everything that goes on in my life. Some things I like to keep private to myself as I would like for what happens between me and the girl to remain between us.
Im not a private person 😂 im pretty out there
Damn you're wild.
Well it means that he is very secure with himself and doesn't need or want friends of the same sex I was like that I was touring and it was always the same artists and musicians on the plane or tour bus but was differentiated by who road in the limousines at the site of the next Concert! I was always in the best limo well respected amount all the Stars, I was looking for girls!
Lmao
I am a social butterfly. Some how I, attract friends all the time. Lol. I do not have antisocial media. So, I get that. It's not weird at all actually. But, trust me. You want you man to meet new guy friends. Or and maybe females who are in relationships. Because that guy can get really clingy. Also you will want space. Trust me on that one. Lol
Lol you’re somewhat right. I had a clingy ex and felt trapped. My aquarius side dont wanna be trapped but my pisces side do 😂
Lol.
I only agree SoMe should be a low priority. But meeting new people is awesome, and if you connect and become friends it is even more amazing. Life is long. Can have many good friends through life. I myself naturally got a new close friend like every 3-5 year through my life. Besides it is also nice to hang out with a SO and friends. No need to always choose one over the other.
I would love to date a girl who doesn't have friends or dont need them
Exaaaactly
My ex was like that. People are usually self sufficient
I need to meet those types
@DizzyDesii waves.. That would be me...
Hahaha
Not having friends is pretty harmful to a relationship in my experience. People can get clingy and controlling really easily without anyone to spend time with outside the relationship. Had that happen before.
I got associates. But im sayin i can't be loyal to friends like i am in a relationship. So i rather have associates but no friends
Nope. That's probably called controlling needy clingy on other end. I don't like to share. What mine is mine and and whats yours is mine too. I want all in exchange of nothing. And yes it can called true love. Unconditional love and such too. Unicorns 🦄 are real, aren't they? I will find one some day and have it as my pet.
You went far with that one
I am sorry dear.
The point is you are looking for truly unconditional love. Which either doesn't exist, impossible to find or extremely difficult to find.
You know. I would want that perfect partner too. And they just don't exist. It's give and take.
They do tho
Well in that case lucky you
A little bit of a red flag to me that the person doesn't value human connections. But exceptions always, for example new in town, went through recent fall out w friends not his fault etc
I love connections with my family and with whoeverr im dating. I stopped valuing “friendships” after HS. I still love to socialize but im not gonna commit to being friends when i could care less about hanging out with them and so on
Until now I thought I was the only one to think this way I don't see it weird at all.
Thank lawd 🙌
Oh girl than you would like me for sure I'm the asshole who always stay silent n most of the time alone no friends I don't like drama and headache by choice. I'm fuckboy. I'm player.
But I doubt I like you.
you're an ahole/player/fckboy. I doubt i’d like you