My guy friend calls me" Snow White"?

[Anonymous]

he was my friend which I rejected his "more than friendship" request once but we stayed in friendship zone and he could easily deal with it. but he calls me snow white times to times...should I oppose it and asked him to stop?

we got so close and I'm scared that I'm sending mix signals to him that he started flirting like this... what's your opinion?

[originalmountaindew]

Just say "If I'm Snow White, what are you"

I mean I think its just a joke, nothing else. If a guy calls me Snow White I'd probably say something back in a joking manner. Just for fun. I don't think you'd be sending him mixed signals...

Then again, some people say (behind my back) that I'm too flirty so go with what works for you.

[Asker]

haha, lool :D

then he would probably have options between"Dwarve" or the " prince"

i would go for the prince for sure if I were him :D

[Shaun]

I think you're a mean selfish girl and you should gut this guy loose.

[Asker]

come one... you don't know me to judge me by this harsh talk, you don't even know my reasons, right?

[Shaun]

Does he genuinely like you, or is he a player? If he's puppy dogging you, I stand by my comment. If he's a player, well we know he wouldn't be sticking around without sex.

[Asker]

no he is such a nice guy, maybe the nicest guy I have ever met. but the point is I don't have good enough condition for starting a relationship with him. so as a guy, you prefer to start a relationship and get hurt or the girl frankly tells you that she is not ready yet becoz of her conditions(not becoz of u! ) and don't try to play with your emotions?

[Shaun]

He's holding out hope that you'll come around. You are mean for not cutting him loose and letting him get on with his life.

[Asker]

i actually settled things down for him. and I told him frankly that even if we remain friends, that doesn't mean anything would be changed in the future. so asked him to choose if he wants to continue in the friendship road or cut the path and go his way. he chose to stay... I couldn't force him to go, could i?

[Shaun]

lol@couldn't force him to go.

Get real, what are you getting out of this 'friendship' and what is he getting out of the 'friendship'?

[Asker]

lool, I have recently moved to this city, so I'm really glad of having him as my friend. and I don't know what he wants to get out of this friendship! but based on my duty I was so frank and direct with him, told him what ever I've got and freed him for any decision. it was all I could do. I didn't want to play with his emotions, and I was ready to break up with him! but he chose to stay, and he is a big boy, so I don't think it was required that I decide instead of him !

[Shaun]

And there's the selfish part.

[Asker]

can I ask how old are u?!

[Shaun]

It says right in my profile.

[Asker]

lol, I think you have private profile, don't u? :D

[Shaun]

Old enough to be your father.

[Asker]

oo okk, good, so I can trust your experince :)

do you think a guy in his 20's still needs some1 else to decides what is good or bad for him?!

[Shaun]

I think some people haven't learned this lesson yet and some people take advantage of the situation. That's what I see you doing, taking advantage of his naivete.

[Asker]

i was naive too. I explained my situations and give the right to choose his way. he said we will remain friends as long as we both meet some1 else and separate our ways. I respect every person's decisions. even if he decided to break up with me I would respect and understand him. I believe the best way of dealing in this situations is to be frank and honest, which I was. but I think guys always complain about girls playing with them and emotions

[Asker]

they are always looking for some1 who trust them and their decisions and logics and power. I didn't know they would even complain about why I gave him freedom to choose and why I didn't decide over his decision or force him to go! its interesting!