How do I tolerate my pig of a niece?

[Anonymous]

I am currently living at my aunt's house with my niece staying over. Her appetite gives me nightmares. Where my niece lives she doesn't get good food to eat. That's why when she comes here to eat, she hogs on whatever she gets. She is just 13 and fat. Let me give some examples:
1. When I was new here and totally unaware of her eating capacity, she wanted to have Nutella , so I took the biggest jar for her. To my shock, full jar over in a day! I was having ice-cream next day and wanted Nutella with it. ALL OVER. IN ONE DAY.
2. I got a 6 pack of noodles. She finished all of it in TWO HOURS.
She can finish a full family pack of ice-cream in ONE SITTING.
3. Her appetite is HUGE, so I just stopped purchasing such foods after seeing how much she eats when she is here. I don't order in when she is here. The problem arises with me is that.. I like eating healthy in my evening snack, something hot and something loaded with veggies. I can't make it here COS OF HER EATING CAPACITY, it is really scary and very frustrating. I don't enjoy eating snacks like chips biscuits so much, but because of her being here I have no option but to eat that. Ohh, they also finish pretty fast than usual when she is here. I purposely cook slowly so that she eats something to satiate her hunger BUT NO!! She will keep coming in and out and keep asking me "Are you done?" So instead of my usual 3 meals a day, I am living only on 2 meals a day. She makes faces at her aunt when I want to take something and my mum makes faces at me to give my niece the food because it is HER HOUSE. Like my b*tch of a niece already snacks and drinks juice and stuff all day BUT can't let me eat enough lunch or dinner? The problem is my health? How do I keep myself healthy and sane in this scenario and still ensure I eat enough and healthy? Her uncle commented on her eating capacity, she cried a lot. After that day, she was like "I can't eat so much" but eats in the kitchen. I am irritated by her acting.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I gotta be honest, if my niece was eating like that I'd be more concerned about her being dead in a couple of years than how much it put me out.

[Asker]

I don't care about her really, she is a manner less spoilt dumb girl

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yeah but kids who are like that are only like it because they have learned it from their parents. Maybe you are angry with the wrong person (s) ?

[Asker]

no. she is an exact junior copy of her mom. who is my cousin sister. Her mom is fat like an elephant but thinks she is curvy, it is just disgusting to look at.. her flabby hands, flabby stomach rolls and etc.. so she always tries to put me down for myself. I am very happy with my body proportions and wouldn't trade it for anything if it were possible. She says things like, take my *niece's boobs / ass , u need it. So I was like.. nahh I'm very happy with my body.
My aunt *cousin sister's mom is a big time bitch, she cut the bangs of my hair.. almost feels like she did it on purpose as my niece kept saying she wanted long hair. I ended up with very weird looking spikes at the front. As a result, I cut my long hair to a pixie to matchh the look. I am desperately trying to grow my hair long. She and eveyone is aware of it. So my asshole cousin sister tells me, not just hair even your body should be like a Punjabi. Just for context, Punjabis usually have long hair and are fat.
So now imagine her junior version!! My niece is a nightmare to be with!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Ugh. I feel drained just reading what you have to go through, so I can only commiserate with what you are ACTUALLY going through there.

[Asker]

hahhahahaha

[Asker]

but thank you for taking the time out to read, respond and actually help!!

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm not sure what help I provided, but you're welcome.

[boggboss]

And nothing has been said to her or your ant just by food and keep it hidden where your sleeping

[Asker]

She sleeps near my bed and the night light is on :( She will hear me eating :(

[boggboss]

I'm not saying eat at night just hide food u buy speak to her and tell her to stop eating out your food then speak to your ant

[boggboss]

Aunt

[Asker]

She does this fake acting of "I can't eat so much" then hides and eats like a pig in the kitchen or the pantry. Like why lie and fake when everyone knows the truth!! Its really annoying me, she is a useless girl , I can't say anything to her and her aunt is also an idiot, she is like "I will spoill *my niece as much as I can" ... still, Thank you for hearing me out and helping me out! I will stock it in my bag

[Browneye57]

We don't need any examples, and no one gives a shit. Just ignore her.

[TallAnon]

Deal with it, she's punishing herself enough. She's basically commiting slow suicide both physically and mentally.

[jwatson4000]

You're sick. Cast out your own demons first before judging her. Girls agree suppose to guard each other's back... not stab it... check yourself please