Do you think that maybe it would be a bad idea to continue to be her friend (since she posted this is this like a friendship red flag)?

[pink_and_inlove]

I’m not sure if she was talking about me she has posted about me and said that she considers me a friend but I’ve asked her to hang out like 3 times and she canceled every time so I kinda just gave up she still texts me sometimes though. She’s the person that I had most faith would become my best friend but I found out that she’s even more anti social than me even though we’re both extremely shy 😂 because at least I’d like to hang out. I don’t want to ask to hang out again because I don’t want to feel sad. Just wanted a friend. I’ve talked about her to my mom too and made up a story of how we met because she can’t know that we met online. I wanted a bestie and I really wanted to meet her cats 🥺 I don’t think that that’ll happen though. I can’t force some one to hang out with me. Just kind of wanted to make a best friend so that my boyfriend wouldn’t continue to be all that I have.

[AmandaYVR]

I don't think that post is too serious. People are moody, and they often vent online and there's a record of it, unlike in conversation with just one person. Don't base much off of that post.

But if you've been making effort and reaching out to her; and especially have suggested getting together three times, sounds like she's not reciprocating. It's up to you, depending on how much you like her, but seems like you've done enough and it's her turn.

She does sound very grumpy and unappreciative. Maybe she'd be more of a headache than a positive in your life, overall.

[pink_and_inlove]

I texted her as a reply to her story “Does this mean that you don’t want to be anyone’s friend?” Was this a bad text to send?

[AmandaYVR]

Eh. It's an honest and valid question.
It might put her on the defensive a bit; but it also shows her how her statements come off. Maybe she'll check herself now, which is a good thing.

[pink_and_inlove]

She texted me back saying “ that’s not what it means it means that I know who to surround myself with people who uplift me & speak positivity That’s why I said I only have a few people I like lmao “ and I just said oh ok

[AmandaYVR]

Hmm. Ok, could be true.
So I guess now wait and see if she reaches out to more or not. Ball's in her court.

[Lliam]

I doubt if she had you in mind when she wrote that.
It sounds like you had good conversations in the past (when she was in a good mood) and there's something about her that you like. So there's no reason to stop liking her.

You've made an effort to get together and become closer. She doesn't seem capable. She seems to be in a weird mental place right now. She may be depressed or have other issues.

I wouldn't invest much in the hope of a close friendship her. You can still be yourself and be friendly. You don't have to withhold from her. Just don't hold out hopes for a close friendship. Leave it up to her.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

My opinion is to love her from afar means don't be overly friendly or try asking her to hang out just the little bit she wrote would give me the answer she doesn't want to be anyone's friend sad to say but people mentally ill or have issues are best to stay away from them :) Best wishes on this

[pink_and_inlove]

Thank u

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@pink_and_inlove You're Welcome

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks For MHO :)

[ZackBan]

Childish attention seeking behavior, never take what people tweet seriously people look at twitter and think "how can I be b! tch today?"
If you don't like her company or feel like she doesn't wanna be your friend don't try hard for her there are literally billions of humans in the world you'll meet more of them if you tried. But if she is nice and friendly don't factor this tweet into her personality

[Andres77]

Make with someone already in your life.
They're better known.
You're already connected via family or school or something... church?
I just think it's a better first step then a total stranger

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think that post was about you. It had nothing to do with you.

[TallAnon]

Doesn't seem targeted, more of a "I feel bad" post.

[DaveToo]

Ah, to be 56 years younger.

[pink_and_inlove]

Why would you want to be younger?

[DaveToo]

Through the many years that I have lived, I've always had female friends. Most were not lovers, just people that thought like me and enjoyed each other's company in a non-sexual way. I think I would have liked being your friend.

[pink_and_inlove]

Aw thank you. I don't know why it’s so hard to make friends now I mean I’ve tried bumble friends twice now

[DaveToo]

Well, obviously, unless you live in some part of Central New York, we can't meet in person but I do pretty well as a pen pal.

[wonderfulstation404]

I’m not a girl but i think you’re just thinking too much

[Abdulwahh]

Your choice dont post people like this

[LegendaryIcon]

I do think so