Is it acceptable to befriend a girl who has a boyfriend? (Page 2)

[Kingofkings1992]

Yes, it’s perfectly fine. There’s no rule book on who you can and can’t be friends with.

[Sundaiee]

I don't know cause I’m asking the same question 🙋‍♀️ lol

[Flower7]

It’s not a good idea.

[Cherry234]

Yes, of course. Just don't get too close to her.

[Cherry234]

As long as you don't have bad intentions (like trying to steal her from her boyfriend) then you're good.

[leighbee]

Not really tbh but whatever

[Anonymous]

Yes its ok. So when the boyfriend does something stupid you can be first inline for a pity fck.

[Anonymous]

If you are just a friend, I think it’s okay.
If you trying to sneak in, no.

[Kaneki05]

That's why it's called friendship so yes.

[r2cute]

its fine as long as ur just friends

[SnakeBoop]

sure, so long as its for friendship only

[luvstoned4him]

nothing wrong with being friends

[ohshee]

Turn it sround lets say its your girlfriend

[lightbulb27]

in some scenarios ok. in general, probably not.

[spartan55]

Would like it if some dude did that to you?

[yug_a_tsuj]

Depends on your intentions with her

[jshm2]

The keyword is "befriend" not "steal" kiddo

[RoseJ123]

Sure if she is just a friend.

[sirderpsalot123]

Depends on your intentions

[Iron_Man]

He’s gonna not like that at all

[888theGreat]

I don;t , asking for trouble

[Deserter]

If you're honest with yourself

[VaguelyAsianLisbeth]

yes just don't flirt

[dustybiker]

Unwise.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes.

[globetrotter22]

No offense but i am really disappointed that women 30 and over on here are saying “it’s fine”. I can see teen girls or women in their early 20s saying this. But honestly more experienced women telling his guy to torture himself just smdh.

We both know that the very fact he even asked this question means he’s interested in her. No way this will end well for him. He will either be rightfully friendzoned OR if something does happen they are both scumbags. Nothing good will come of this.

He can stay friendly with her for sure. Nothing wrong with saying hi to her and engaging in small talk. But actual hanging out is not a good idea.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@globetrotter22 I stand by my answer. It’s the same answer I would’ve given at 18.

[globetrotter22]

That’s because you haven’t learned much since 18.

I occasionally see young women ask questions on here when they are getting hurt or possibly her hurt in dating situations because of their choices. I don’t tell them to what would please the guy. I tell them to make decisions that would help them out in the long run. I don’t see it as a “my team vs your team” when it comes to genders.

But you should know by now he has almost nothing to gain from this except disappointment and frustration. But you instead you are taking the other girls side thinking “oh i love having platonic friendzone guy friends and this girl should too”’. That’s selfish.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@globetrotter22 but I do!

[globetrotter22]

You do about what?

[Gwenhwyfar]

@globetrotter22 I do love having platonic male friends

[globetrotter22]

Of course you do as do most women. I don’t mind having platonic female friends as long as I am not attracted to them.

But the truth is those “friendships” almost always benefit the female more than the male and you know it. Sometimes this “friendship” is huge liability to the male.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@globetrotter22 that’s not always true

[globetrotter22]

It has been from my experience.

You know you can be friends with anybody. You can be friends with other women. You can be friends with gay men. You can be friends with guys who obviously have no physical interest in you. You can be friends with your dog.

But why is so many women keep insisting they can be “platonic friends with” a man who they know for fact likes them? The ugly truth is 1) you like the attention 2) you have emotional leverage on him. You know he will more likely do nice things for you because he’s interested vs your friends who aren’t.

Do you have any idea how this makes the guy feel? In the long run he will end up hating himself for being so weak to go along with it. That’s actually worse then him hating you. It will be a major regret in his life.

So at the end of the day is it really worth doing that to him? Sure as feminists say “well you put yourself in the friendzone” by why can’t women show some class and be honest with him (preferably early). Some do but most don’t. It’s very selfish.

[wittymilf]

I think the uptight boy doesn’t understand the difference between friendship and attempting to steal
Another guys girl… kids these days 😂

[Gwenhwyfar]

@wittymilf 😂😂😂

[globetrotter22]

I do know the difference. Anyways it was nice chatting. Hope you ladies have a nice day. :)

[wittymilf]

@globetrotter22 … you tryna make friends with me🤔. I’m married you know 😊.
But I hope you have a good day too!

[globetrotter22]

@wittymilf @gwenhwyfar you both know exactly what I am talking about but want to duck the topic because is the ugly truth. But anyway have a nice day.

[wittymilf]

@globetrotter22 no you :)

[forceleration]

@wittymilf... will u be my bestfriend?

[jordell00]

No it is not. The girl will assume you are jealous

[Wester1967]

Why be trashy?

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Yeah, why?

[jahaims]

Yeah

[NightCrawls]

Fuck no

[In_Trance]

what for?

[JohnK123]

Yes ofc

[SecretGardenBlood65]

Why not

[blueazure]

It's okay

[Vivaldi]

No it ain't

[cherries13]

Sure, why not?

[lycanthrope3]

Yess

[globetrotter22]

You know he wants to be more than friends. If he wasn’t attracted to her he would never ask this. Bad idea.