So I'll never stop being my father's baby (I'm already 25 years old)?

[Anonymous]

I'm an only child and just turned 25 on April. Even though I've moved out, my father still views me on his baby. Sometimes even says ''my baby''. So I'll never stop being his baby?

He only has 1 enemy (he's one of the calmest man ever but whoever does me wrong.. he hates you forever): my ex boyfriend. He wasted 4 years of my time with false hope, lying about everything; another one that fakes future. He moved out to another state and very far away. He father said he's lucky the distance is what's saving him. He views him as the one that stabbed him deep in his heart by hurting his baby.

If my father were in a locked room alone with him for 1-5 minutes, I imagine no words exchanged... just him immediately charging towards him, going for the kill, wanting to beat the living hell out of him.

[Jamie05rhs]

Completely understandable! I would feel the same way if I was your dad!

[Asker]

It's interesting. Even thought I was hurt, the offended party.. he was a lot more hurt than I was. It's my emotional pain and distress but it's like they had done it to him 100x. It's like his world was destroyed when I got hurt.
He said I'll understand it better when I become a mother and someone hurts my child... that I'll have the same hurt and rage towards the person like he has towards my ex boyfriend.

[Jamie05rhs]

If you mess with anyone's child, they're going to be personally offended. That's just the love of a parent.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Wise4myage]

You need anger management.

[Asker]

Why me? I'm not the one that's that angry with him. I've blocked my ex boyfriend and simply don't want to hear from him again. My father however, was super hurt and angry.

[driven159]

that is the way a father can be very protective

[Asker]

yeah he got more hurt over what happened to me than I was. Someone hurting me is like someone destroying his world and stabbing him over and over.

[driven159]

yes because you will be his baby always

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Asker]

Interesting