and mind her own business or she is right in thinking what she thinks about him?
My brother has a very strong temper and character and stands up for what he decides. If he wants to say somethign he said it period and he does not mind who gets mad int he process because that is the way he is and noone has to meddle in his business cause he does not meddle in other people business., he is authentic in that way and if someone does not like the way he is, my brotehr give a ratz about it and he does not give a sh$$t if that person either a relative or a friend gets mad at him forever.
The thing is this in 2 weeks is Mothers Day in my country and a female cousin is planning to celebrate it with a lunch in a Spanish restaurant. This female country took my mom, my older sister my brother and I to join her and her family for this lunch. This cousin always always take us into account when she or her family organizes or plans social get togethers, because forthis female cousin she consider us her closest relatives she and her family has. We have other relatives of course, but we dont plan gatherings with the other as much as with this relative, beacuse we are not that close to the others. Whenthis female cousin organizes somethign she only invites us,. she does not invite others for the same reason, she cares for us and we are closer to her than other relatives. You know how each person is different in this world, each person has their own personality and character, we are not alike. So this cousin is planning this Mothers day lunc and took us into account. The thing is that this cousin today tol dme she need to confirm how many in my house are going to the restaurant, i mean even if the lunch is in 15 days. I told her my mom and I will go. Then she asked me about my brother. Wel my brother is a difficult person so even if at this mometn he says he won't go he could change his mind next week but my brother always tell me that he can confrim if he can go...
I told my cousin he said no. My cousin all curious asked me why my brother won't go. I did not respond her the reason, but she did want to know. I mean like I said my cousin needed to confirm 15 days in advance how many people are going to the restaurant. My brother told me that he dos not know if he will go and besides is too early to confirm
My cousin told me in private that how come my brother is not going cause it is Mothers Day for God sake, that my brother is a bad son and she hoped he won't regret it in the future. I mean if my brother does not want to celebrate I think people need to respect his decision and stop criticizing and meddle but my family loves to criticize.
