How do I deal with catching feelings for a girl in my friend group?

[Anonymous]

This summer I have really made a point to simply put myself out there for the first time since I moved away. It has been fun to make friends. In the friend group I meet with often at the pool and one girl in particular has me feeling some butterflies. She and I are on the level of meeting at the common area everyday since we work from home, having lunch together, and talking at parties with our firend group. I am not shy around her or "crushing" overly bad yet, but I can't help but think she will know and I will eventually ruin the friend group for myself.

[Guy13]

If it has been a week and you have not asked her formally out then you are pretty close to missing gay friend chair. Get on a date outside of Convenience. Convenience meeting ends in friendship... Make sense?

[Avicenna]

It wouldn't, if you handle it correctly. If you like her, ask her out

[In_Trance]

Aren't you a little old for this?