Ah, okay. Yes, I would definitely want children. There are plenty of people out there who don't have any and aren't interested in having any either. But why wouldn't I want children? Children are wonderful creatures, and they bring joy into everyone's lives.
Well very simple answer. I can hear little jerico (mexican boy) screaming a good 11 meters away from me. Also seeing as I have seen the facts of having children and can see my future with them, one of us are both of us (me and kid) are going to die. Homicide or suicide.
Also I like sleeping in my underwear and not finding discharge or finding little shelly screaming, crying or jumping on my bed because she wants to go to chuck e cheese, right now.
I donāt want kids and I never have. Actually as Iāve got older Iāve felt like I want them less and less. Iām not very āchild friendlyā and feel quite awkward around babies and toddlers - and I cringe with annoyance the moment I hear a baby or child crying or screaming! Each to their own, obviously itās a natural thing, but for me itās always been a massive āno thanksā.
Never did and surely don't now that I'm older. I was always pretty jealous of my time, and especially during the years of being in a club band AND having a day job... I just was never willing to commit to sacrificing my priorities... existance... was always just a puzzle piece that wasn't gonna fit.
Used to be strictly against it. But now I'm ok with it if it happens. I didn't want kids because it defo is expensive and thats a lot of money which can be invested elsewhere. But then again, im a product of my parents and they could say the same but they don't have regrets lol. I've also observed my friends who have kids and despite that they are enjoying life and have a very healthy balance.
I always find it amusing when people judge kids as if they probably weren't doing the same thing when they were that age.. If you train them right, they'll be fine.. I also don't like how people paint kids as an annoyance or inconvenience.. If you are too selfish to want any, just say that.. Not that you need to have kids, but I never liked those reasonings, shows me we live in a nihilistic, self centered society.. As for me.. I want kids one day.. Once, I'm married and stable..
I always wanted children but I never felt I was ready to be a father. I did therapy when I was younger. When I matured I did date a lot of women but most of them already had children. My friends told me if you marry a woman who has children all of your money is going to go raising them.
Plus, the women I dated didn't seem very mature to me. I still want children but I've never met a woman to have them with. And have you seen people today? They are so toxic and entitled.
I find my neighbours kids extremely annoying as they cry and whine all fucking day and the parents never tell them to stop crying. Iām trying to relax in my pool and hear whining and wailing. I usually yell āeverything ok over there Iāve been hearing crying for over an hour?ā
I find the āreasoningā behind people who wouldnāt have wanted kids and didnāt get an abortion or still had them regardless is the false ideal that I always hear, ā oh kids are so rewardingā āthey saved meā āmy little angelā ok Shannon, your little angel just puked on the table and smeared shit all over the wall and the carpet, if you can barely handle an extremely annoying dog or pet, donāt even consider my fellow kid free people 😎
Being happy together? Living your life to the fullest and experiencing things that makes life great with out the worry of the if they babysitter is ok or if the house is destroyed or all the money you donāt have to spend on anyone else but yourself and your partner my guy seriously your looking at relationships all wrong if you think life has a set script of date, marry, spawn, die. š¤¦āāļø
Once again kids DONT bring meaning to your life, trying to convince people that their lives are pointless and or donāt have meaning simply because they didnāt burden themselves with the responsibility of reproducing is ignorant and down right cruel especially in an age like today were violence is on the rise, disease, hunger, fascism, racism, sexism, homelessness all on the rise, bringing a child into a world full of pain and hate is worse
I didn't want kids because I dont think my genetics are worth passing down and I rather use my time to earn more money. I dont want to be stuck at home raising crotch goblins all day for some man.
@rebeliouse not sure, I figured I'd get myself a home and help my family out. I've considered having pets but I dont think I would be able to care for them properly if I'm working all day. Plus, it's better to spend money on the existing people who need it rather than creating more people who also need it.
women from my generation are just not made to have children with, I can write a book on why and the younger generations aren't getting any better. which either way I'm not Jason Statham, not gonna get with a chick who's young enough to be my daughter.
I donāt want kids because in order to have your own you have to have sex and Iām voluntarily celibate. I think the only way Iād ever have kids is if I adopt.
Also I can barely take care of myself. I canāt even keep a house plant alive 😂😅 And I donāt see myself ever having a partner to help take care of a child with either.
I can only speak to how I feel now. Right now kids are not a priority. It would be wrong to bring people into this world that I need to be responsible for and look after. I just donāt have the emotional wherewithal to do it right now. Beyond that thereās the issue of ecological equilibrium on the planet and the balance of having a species that is throwing that out of whack. I mean humans are capable of doing so much good and yet we have so many problems. So itās a big no for me right now.
The reason my girlfriend and I are as well adjusted is due to our parents. Our issues are genetic, we will pass them down. Neither of us feel confident we'll be as good for people like ugh s as our parents were.
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Ah, okay. Yes, I would definitely want children. There are plenty of people out there who don't have any and aren't interested in having any either. But why wouldn't I want children? Children are wonderful creatures, and they bring joy into everyone's lives.
My ex thought like that until she accidentally got pregnant. We ended up having three great kids.
Wow š¤£ this happened with my aunt now she has 2 kids
There you go- you never know...
Well very simple answer. I can hear little jerico (mexican boy) screaming a good 11 meters away from me. Also seeing as I have seen the facts of having children and can see my future with them, one of us are both of us (me and kid) are going to die. Homicide or suicide.
Also I like sleeping in my underwear and not finding discharge or finding little shelly screaming, crying or jumping on my bed because she wants to go to chuck e cheese, right now.
That's very descriptive
I donāt want kids and I never have. Actually as Iāve got older Iāve felt like I want them less and less. Iām not very āchild friendlyā and feel quite awkward around babies and toddlers - and I cringe with annoyance the moment I hear a baby or child crying or screaming! Each to their own, obviously itās a natural thing, but for me itās always been a massive āno thanksā.
Never did and surely don't now that I'm older.
I was always pretty jealous of my time, and especially during the years of being in a club band AND having a day job... I just was never willing to commit to sacrificing my priorities... existance... was always just a puzzle piece that wasn't gonna fit.
Used to be strictly against it. But now I'm ok with it if it happens. I didn't want kids because it defo is expensive and thats a lot of money which can be invested elsewhere. But then again, im a product of my parents and they could say the same but they don't have regrets lol. I've also observed my friends who have kids and despite that they are enjoying life and have a very healthy balance.
I always find it amusing when people judge kids as if they probably weren't doing the same thing when they were that age.. If you train them right, they'll be fine.. I also don't like how people paint kids as an annoyance or inconvenience.. If you are too selfish to want any, just say that.. Not that you need to have kids, but I never liked those reasonings, shows me we live in a nihilistic, self centered society.. As for me.. I want kids one day.. Once, I'm married and stable..
I always wanted children but I never felt I was ready to be a father. I did therapy when I was younger. When I matured I did date a lot of women but most of them already had children. My friends told me if you marry a woman who has children all of your money is going to go raising them.
Plus, the women I dated didn't seem very mature to me. I still want children but I've never met a woman to have them with. And have you seen people today? They are so toxic and entitled.
I find my neighbours kids extremely annoying as they cry and whine all fucking day and the parents never tell them to stop crying. Iām trying to relax in my pool and hear whining and wailing. I usually yell āeverything ok over there Iāve been hearing crying for over an hour?ā
Never did and thankfully no longer can. There is 0 positives to having them and long term detriments and even a risk of death or permanent damage.
Iād much rather live my life and be able to do things without the burden of children.
Also, Iām broke and kids annoy me tbh.
@rebeliouse I meant broke financially lmao
I want kids. I just don't want a degenerate mother for them to turn them into whores and faggots.
Why do you want them?
I find the āreasoningā behind people who wouldnāt have wanted kids and didnāt get an abortion or still had them regardless is the false ideal that I always hear, ā oh kids are so rewardingā āthey saved meā āmy little angelā ok Shannon, your little angel just puked on the table and smeared shit all over the wall and the carpet, if you can barely handle an extremely annoying dog or pet, donāt even consider my fellow kid free people 😎
Being happy together? Living your life to the fullest and experiencing things that makes life great with out the worry of the if they babysitter is ok or if the house is destroyed or all the money you donāt have to spend on anyone else but yourself and your partner my guy seriously your looking at relationships all wrong if you think life has a set script of date, marry, spawn, die. š¤¦āāļø
Once again kids DONT bring meaning to your life, trying to convince people that their lives are pointless and or donāt have meaning simply because they didnāt burden themselves with the responsibility of reproducing is ignorant and down right cruel especially in an age like today were violence is on the rise, disease, hunger, fascism, racism, sexism, homelessness all on the rise, bringing a child into a world full of pain and hate is worse
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I don't have children and I certainly do not want them! They're loud, smelly and obnoxious. They're also very expensive.
Do you have a dog?
@Aakash_Hangargi Nope.
I didn't want kids because I dont think my genetics are worth passing down and I rather use my time to earn more money. I dont want to be stuck at home raising crotch goblins all day for some man.
what u gonna do with all the money?
@rebeliouse not sure, I figured I'd get myself a home and help my family out. I've considered having pets but I dont think I would be able to care for them properly if I'm working all day. Plus, it's better to spend money on the existing people who need it rather than creating more people who also need it.
I dont!
women from my generation are just not made to have children with, I can write a book on why and the younger generations aren't getting any better. which either way I'm not Jason Statham, not gonna get with a chick who's young enough to be my daughter.
also lets not forget how expensive they are
I donāt want kids because in order to have your own you have to have sex and Iām voluntarily celibate. I think the only way Iād ever have kids is if I adopt.
Also I can barely take care of myself. I canāt even keep a house plant alive 😂😅 And I donāt see myself ever having a partner to help take care of a child with either.
Plus I have Touretteās syndrome and I want the Touretteās being passed down to stop with me.
I can only speak to how I feel now. Right now kids are not a priority. It would be wrong to bring people into this world that I need to be responsible for and look after. I just donāt have the emotional wherewithal to do it right now. Beyond that thereās the issue of ecological equilibrium on the planet and the balance of having a species that is throwing that out of whack. I mean humans are capable of doing so much good and yet we have so many problems. So itās a big no for me right now.
I'd rather adopt, world is already over-populated as it is and many orphanages are already full of them praying for a good home
We only have overpopulation due to our modern medicine and vaccines. If that disappears then oh boy people would drop like flies.
The reason my girlfriend and I are as well adjusted is due to our parents. Our issues are genetic, we will pass them down. Neither of us feel confident we'll be as good for people like ugh s as our parents were.