Is it appropriate for a mother to see her teenage son naked?

[Anonymous]

My mom is always barging into my room or the bathroom without knocking first and whenever I get mad her for it she says

“I changed your diapers I’ve you naked thousands of times”

like yeah because you needed to because I was a baby I’m a young adult know I can take care of myself you don’t need to see me like this. How hard is it to knock before opening a door 😤

[AviatorTom]

Your mother should respect your privacy, but there's really nothing wrong with a mother seeing her teenage son naked. It's unlikely that your mother is going to change her barging into rooms, maybe you can be a bit more selective and cover up more.

Or, you could talk with your father and ask him to talk with her about respecting your privacy more... maybe she can just knock before entering.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for the mho, whoever you are

[coolbreeze]

It's weird and inappropriate because it invades your privacy.

[Apple36]

Your mother barging in is not appropriate. You have the right to privacies. Mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and other adult females are good about barging in. They have this thinking that females do not have to give respect to minors, boys, and girls. Another common thing mothers do is barge into their child's room and bathroom with another female with them. It is shocking for the mothers and other women who have this thinking they can do as they please. These females who do this are more likely child abusers.

A mother who has an honest, open relationship with their child will find their child very open with them. The question is it OK for a mother to see her son naked? Let's put in a line here on this. A nudist family involves the parents; children see each other naked all the time. If their son or daughter is in the bedroom or bathroom with the door closed, does that mean that because the parent sees them naked in the common areas of the home, allow me to barge into the room? The answer is no. One of the biggest questions that people ask about naturism is that people who practice it have modesty rules for others. A trustworthy nudist person does.

Most of the time in my family home, we knock on the door to enter. Most of the time, the answer is yes. Now, the parent does not hear a response that they entered. My family is nudist. People in the home may have their clothes on or be naked, meaning they need respect for self-space. When you barge in on someone, it means you have no respect. Your attitude is I do as I please. That type of behavior destroys trust, honesty, bonding, and love. It puts walls between you and that person. It causes stress, anxiety, anger, and hate. When children start to lock their bedroom door or bathroom doors because others in the family tell them their relationship is over. Families who have a powerful bonding love for each other never lock doors. Their door is closed, and with a high level of respect, they knock. The next step will be child protection service. Children can call them.

Some other comments stated that the boy is in front of his mother, and if she does not stop, he goes to his father. One problem with most men is that they favor their wives over their children, which means he does nothing about it. This is not a good relationship in the family, and it results in child abuse. Then, his father caused his child not to bond with him, and then walls developed in their relationship. It is so shocking that so many fathers do not do anything about their children when it comes to females. In American culture, there is this thinking that many females can do as they please. Well, they are entirely wrong.

For mothers who see their son naked as a child, preteen, or teen, it is healthy and normal. It concerns trust, respect, honesty, loyalty, faithfulness, and love. It is best on the relationship the mother has with her son. The attitude he will have about his mother, sister (s), or other females. That is based on how the male child is treated by his mother, sister (s), and other females.

Watching your child's body grow and mature is healthy. Seeing his genitals grow and develop. Your mother can see her son naked, but it is on his terms, not your mother's. They have rights also, and the mother needs to respect those rights,

[Xoxocutekitty]

How much time are you wasting in your room naked?

She's paying bills, keeping the house running, probably feeding you, is she barging into your room to ask you to pitch in?

Sure knocking isn't hard, but if you pulled your weight a bit more, she would probably be a lot less confrontational and entitled to your time.

[Asker]

I’m only naked in my room if I’m changing and only naked in the bathroom when I’m going into the shower I don’t lounge around my room nude all day that would be really weird

[Apple36]

Being nude in your room is not weird.

[Apple36]

Yes, but that does ot justify her behavior in what she dos.

[josephinelcajon]

I grew up nudist and doors were never closed. My single mom and I saw each other doing everything. She is right about seeing you already. Are you uncomfortable being seen naked? message me.

[Jessica405]

It depends on your attitude, and also that of your family. For a naturist family, like mine, nudity is not an issue.

[Mikeybear]

@Jessica405 @Xoxocutekitty My mother used to randomly do this when I was younger, I guess when she had the urge to see penis. I felt kind of bad, as it was kind of obvious.

For naturist families, it is a bit different, but, for the rest of them, it is about a level of comfort. Xoxocutekitty, you make a good point. Once I lived with at a woman's place, and part of our agreement was that I would give lap dances to her and her clientele. I know this is not like that, but you should see it both ways.

[Apple36]

Nudists families also have rules of respecting others self-space. There are mothers who get this thing in their head that they can do as they please. That type of behavior destroys trust, respect, loyal and it removes the bonding of each other.

[Rockstarrrrr]

She's a line stepper lol.. Stand your ground and tell her you're a big boy now and it's inappropriate and even if you don't think so you're gonna do it because I asked

[Drumlin2001]

Would seem a little inappropriate

[Apple36]

Now, if her husband did that to a boy or a girl, the mother would have a dama with it. It's funny how we females have double rules when we do things.

[Anonymous]

She should knock first. It sounds a little weird.

[Apple36]

Let's consider something: he could have had a friend in the room, and if his mother had, that would have ended her son's relationship with his friend.

[driven159]

sounds like a controlling mother

[Apple36]

Agree

[In_Trance]

lock the fkn door ffs