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I feel like people don’t really like me for me. I think people like me for my life experiences?

I’ve come to realize people in my life like to live through me. But when I look at our relationships (friends and family) they don’t really like me for simple things like my music taste or favorite movies, they kinda judge me for it or don’t even act like they care. I like learning about people. But if I don’t talk about some traumatic event or drama in my life ( which it constantly freaking happens) they don’t really care… like my best friend lived through majority of my relationships and I made the mistake (I’m a people pleaser and im at fault for this) for letting her opinions dictate what I did with them. Approval is w problem of mine but now that im learning to try not to care im seeing major problems

I feel like people don’t really like me for me. I think people like me for my life experiences?
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