Are you in favor of women/wives belong in the kitchen and household cooking and cleaning and overall just doing household duties, why, why not?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I favor the philosophy of women/wives soly belong in the household doing household duties.

I don't favor the philosophy of women/wives belong in the household and doing household duties.

Other opinion.

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+1 y

Women belong in the kitchen is humiliating and disrespectful as hell to women.

I find those votes interesting so far. Over 50% of men support women in the household doing household duties and women over 60% saying screw that. LOL

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I think it should be encouraged and be the norm. Many women I think would do better if they took care of the house and stayed with the children instead working some boring job all day. However, I don't think every woman is bulit for that and I think they should also have a choice. Children will probably need someone at home though, childcare is an expensive burden and so is the household.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You think being home all day is productive?

[letuswaltzforthedead]

If you're keeping the home in order and caring for the children, definitely. It's not a job but it is productive and important too.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I think its productive and very important too.

Ideally, I wouldn't have a problem with that but My woman just can't stay home all day cooking and cleaning.

I plan to marry a wife, not a servant and butler.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

That's fair, especially considering how expensive things are becoming, having a stay at home partner is probably not an option for a lot of people.
For you, would you prefer your wife also work full time or part time or it doesn't matter as long as she's working too?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Lord willing if my finances get to a place I'm comfortable then she will have to at least volunteer 3 to 4 hours a day a local YMCA or doing some local volunteering 4 or 5 days a week.

She has to give back to the community somehow.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

*at a local YMCA

[Anonymous]

Only if that's what she chooses. I believe marriages should be partnerships in every sense of the word. I think it's a guys RESPONSIBILITY to be as equals in all household chores. I mean I have roofed several houses. And capable of doing that. Maybe she feels she can match or outlook me, cool if not I can do that. But while I'm no master chef I have gotten many compliments for my culinary prowess lol. I guess what I'm saying is I bring my skill set and she brings hers and if we love eachother and care about eachother will both give our best for the good of the partnership. We'll find a way to make it work.

[raven6933]

Apparently some "men" are threatened by a independent woman. They think if they keep her home then they won't loose her. Little do they know that's the fastest way for them to leave. Women didn't sign up to be their mothers, slaves or maids. There aren't too many men with jobs that can maintain a home to where she doesn't have to work. When the get bored, neglected or abused they will bail.

[anon1903]

It's her choice. Let's not make that decision for her, because "philosophy".

[addie14]

As a woman I feel like yes men should work we cook and clean because that is fair but we also should work to and cooking and cleaning and running kids around puts stress on Moms and that cancels out but they shouldn't only be their for cooking cleaning and $ex

[MelvinGeek]

If we're planning on having children, then yes. 100% house wife.

Otherwise, she can do what she wants and become a CEO or whatever if it makes her happy... but she doesn't have to. I'd still prefer that she stay at home where it's safe.

[AviatorTom]

It's perfectly okay for a woman to be a homemaker, doing household duties, and many women prefer that. It's also okay for a woman to have a career and share household duties with their partner.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Why you have to use that word partner?

[AviatorTom]

Some M-F couples choose not to get married, so using the word spouse, husband or wife is not appropriate for all situations.

[Christsdisciple15]

It’s not just women it’s a basic skill for literally anybody.. . I’m not even an expert cook and I’m kinda lazy but I at least can make a few meals that taste good and can practice good hygiene

[Avicenna]

It’s not realistic economically for the overwhelming majority of people.

[Part2603]

Lol, I'd love to hear you pretend how attracted you are to blue haired pink feminists who insist that you do exactly half of the housework.

[IceCreamSandwich]

No I don't think like that. If I end up in that type of relationship it will be by chance, not by intention.

[msc545]

She needs to have a real job. It takes two incomes to live well. I can hire someone to cook and clean.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Definitely does. Here in this country the medium income for 2022 is just $44,000 a year, before taxes.

More than half of that will just go to rent or mortgage alone, not counting all the other expenses and retirement fund.

[msc545]

I would not live with someone who wasn't a professional and college-educated. Too boring otherwise.

[SmokinAces2000]

No, I’ve never heard a good argument as to why women “belong” in the kitchen

[TacosRAwesome]

I favour that each couple decides what would work best for them and decide accordingly.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Those are things I’d rather not do myself so I could absolutely appreciate it. Granted it’s not a requirement, or even an expectation for that matter at this point

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Some guys will be like, “Pfft, I don’t need no woman to help me clean the bathroom”.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I've been curious what does Pfft mean?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It’s a sound you make implying you don’t care about something or see it as insignificant.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Ok thanks

[Dinosaursandanime65]

RHAOU

[Mart10]

It's completely their choice. I don't mind if they decide to stay home or work.

[AsaKyo]

That would be a dream for me

[Cheerfull009]

I like such housewife