How can I get the image of my fathers death out of my head?

[Anonymous]

my father died 6 years ago from cancer in florida i never went down to see him before he died..

when i think about my father i get a image of him in a hospital bed white as ghost dying from cancer thinking why i was not with her in the last mins of his life.

[jennifer_bloom]

Your father knows you loved him and if you did not arrive in his hospital, it was because of reasons you could not control, you don’t need to punish yourself for that. Like when I used to step on my dogs toes while he was alive, he never got mad at me because he knew it was an accident and I wasn’t trying to intentionally hurt him. Your dad knows you loved him and you meant well.

[Guy13]

Go see a psychologist and see if he/she has strategies for this.