Is she here to distract me?

[cth2188]

I have a Youtube channe, I was lead too get off my channel last week, and upon getting off my channel I have a friend who won't stop telling me about the drama on YouTube. I won't be back on YouTube until next year maybe if I'm lead too. Right now, my channel is temporarily shut down, but I've noticed everytime I'm focusing on something else like things I'm into in my private groups she's cock blocking me with unnecessary stress and drama about others on YouTube. I've told her nicely that I'm on another path right now and focusing on a different outlook to some important things in my life. Last night, I had to tell her to contact me when she needs me for something important because I give spiritual advice when needed sometimes. I'm going through a lot of shifting and changing right now spiritually. This is my quiet and healing time... what she's talking about is irrelevant to things I'm focusing on. I've had to cut off a lot of people recently who don't align with my beliefs including family/friends... I don't know why the people in my life are here because we have nothing in common nor do any of these people care what my interests / beliefs are. The folks I align with are into what I'm into 💯 This friend who is also my mod for my channel seemingly has nothing in comment with me.. I hate to cut her off , but it seems to be drama field with her and what she's talking about. I want to be clear she's my mod for ny YouTube channel and supports the channel. I gave her my number along with a few other mods during a support time when I was off YouTube a month ago for legal stuff I was dealing with.

What to do?

[Wise4myage]

You need to just block her and move on with your life and focus on what's important to you.

[cth2188]

She's still my mod for the channel and there's a possibility I'll be coming back to YouTube next year. I did put this boundary up. Hoping she'll respect that, but if not I don't know I may have to cut her off.

[Wise4myage]

Couldn't you get a new moderator?

[cth2188]

She supports my channel and no I vet every mod a month before they become my mod. They have to be supportive and active on the channel. There is a boundary up now. I'm not expecting her to be in what I'm into as in I don't bring my personal or private life to YouTube.

[Zolly99999]

Yes by the sound of it.. she sounds like a drama queen

[cth2188]

Ikr... it feels good without her messaging me

[Zolly99999]

Then either tell her politely you need space or Block her all together

[cth2188]

I did last night going to see how she responds right now

[Zolly99999]

I hope it works our for you

[cth2188]

Thanks so far no response!!! She's backed off.. mentally I can't deal with the stress ! 😩

[Zolly99999]

I don't blame you. Our time is valuable and we shouldn't waste it on idiots

[cth2188]

Life is too short for it... I don't deal with drama or stress the times we're in I'd critical.. too many people are caught up in the wrong things