I usually hear people either saying they are not financially ready to have children or people complaining about poorer parents having children (in the case of multiple children).
How important do you think money is to have a happy family? Why? Is it important to have enough money to go on family trips (to Disney and stuff) once or more a year? Or is being able to financially provide for your kids enjoy? (feed, cloth, shelter, maybe gifts like toys, etc)
Money and mentally ready. If you ask me
Money Is a big factor cause you will destroy that child if you raise them in poverty and high chance they can become a degenerate and no way that will remain a two parent household because the arguments will. always be about money.
Mentally ready is one too because you need to be ready to wake up, and feed the baby, change the kid, keep up with the child growing kindergarten to 6th grade school clothes, teaching life lessons, keeping up with schedules, making sure your life choices don't affect your child, and then teenage years where your kid really needs you to be that parent, and when they're learning to become slightly dependant but can't do everything them selves yet
Learning more about themselves and society and trends and then through adulthood to make sure you keep them standing up & helping them through all their shortcomings and downfalls if they ever become sick or just bump their head in life, Being a parent is forever it never stops even if they find a S/O it never stops.
All that while also maintaining your own life and a lot of people check out and don't deserve to be parents because these kids they made never asked to be in this world.
It doesn't take nearly as much money to raise a kid as people think. Many people spend more on Starbucks and their smartphones than it takes to raise a kid normally. Plus if they didn't have overly expensive vehicles they would save a lot of money too. $300 per month per child can comfortably raise a kid including clothing them, feeding them, and giving them presents for Christmas and their birthday.
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You already know this answer, and I’m impressed you know it at 18. Not sure when I discovered it. 🤔 Maybe in this similar range/window, but I think you have me beat by a year, or so.😄
Definitely- not a lot of individuals of your age frame, would consider this stuff or know it.
I don’t like to idolize money- 👐 it’s not in my character,
BUT
it is super essential in these types of societies, and it’s for the sole purpose of SUPPORTING ☝️ one’s children.
People may define/ debate the idea and roles of parents in every which way-
but I say, it’s really just a need and requirement, that the parents just SUPPORT their kids.
Supporting them in basic essentials, via currency, and supporting their kids’ abilities to create a living by themselves, by ensuring and supporting they ‘qualify’ for some “basic tasks” in society-
like driver's licensing; etc.
as well as them finding a means of their own income, so one day, they can support themselves. (A means of income, through passions and natural skills). ⚽️ 👨🏭
Sure they can have fun times, but our families are not our entertainers! 🧞♂️👯♀️😱
Lol they aren’t required to paint an “all in the family,” or I don't know “good times” picture for us, or something like “family ties” idek (classic ‘family’ shows).
They must support their kids in all aspects, until the kids can do it themselves.
If we had no ‘baby walkers,’ they would physically support their toddlers, who were taking their first steps, UNTIL they could do so themselves. People have created walkers though, and the parents can choose them, but still would need to have financial support to just purchase them and then support their tods that way, even if they’re not doing so directly.
Support, support, support.
Otherwise, a child will have to fend for themselves, learn on their own, and take on the “uphill battle” of supporting themselves, in a fast-paced, monetized world (literally), from an almost ‘nothing-to-start-with’ background/ origin.
Support is essential.
Life forms 🧫🔭🧪 need some sort of support. In order to thrive and grow.
You have to be able to support the children. Kids are extremely expensive to raise. I think a lot of people vastly underestimate just how expensive it is.
Money is just a reality in the world. Or at least it is for most people. A moneyless society can exist, and do exist, but that's definitely not for everyone. You can live completely off the grid for example.
In normal society, there is some minimum amount of money needed to raise a kid. I don't know what amount that is, but it's a lot. Just to meet the bare minimum is a lot.
I also think it's a really good idea to have a good start on saving before having kids. Because saving money after having kids will be so much more difficult. It's always far better to start saving at a young wage than wait. So getting as much as possible put away before having kids is a good idea.
So yes, it's one of the most important requirements. No, you don't have to go to Disneyland once a year. But ideally you should have more than the bare minimum.
I find it also important, besides other stuff like love, trust, location regarding economics, safety, stability, politics etc (like I would never ever pop out a child in a second or third world country)
Why? Cause money is important in life, I ain't raising my kids under a bridge. I want them to have a nice decent house (doesn't have to be a villa or whatever), I want them to have food on the daily, I want them to have clothes and a good future, I want them to have the luxury to go to I don't know football or piano lessons if they want to... etc and how do I get that? With money lol
u one of them... most important things, yes... definitely so
definitely top five, and perhaps top three... but more than just the money, it is financial stability and security that comes with affordability... and that is because when you lack these things in a household, not only you will lack or struggle with the most basic requirements that have to be provided for a family but also... it is going to bring all kinds of stress, tension, anxiety and all kinds of bad moods, vibes and trouble as well
so yes, financial stability should be a must
It probably the most important, but I'd say having parents who love each other and get along great is higher.
One should be able to afford and take care of your own children, without relying on others. I know far too many that plan their families and plan to be on housing and/or SNAP and use religious charities for free stuff.
Why would anyone plan their families that way? Using others for their own personal choices, of course any one of those sources could be pulled out from them at any time and then what would they do?
I think it's extremely important. Not in terms of family trips but not having enough for certain things can cause tensions and resentments which can affect kids. You don't need to go to disney to have a family holiday, there are plenty of other places and things to do that are cheaper. But just having enough to live in the right place, have savings or a back up plan, be able to afford the essentials, that's all important, especially nowadays
there are always people who can't afford to have kids but do which places a huge burden on both the parent and child because really? you need to work hard for your children and you can't have a low pay job when raising like 5 kids, you can still be happy sure but there's so much risk
Money ia THE most important requirement for anything. People say money cannot get you everything. While that is true, it is also true that literally everything can be purchased with money. 99.9999% of things can be bought.
Lets just say. Being comfortable is what you should strive for in terms of money for a family.
I cannot agree with those people who want to get financially stable before starting a family. Money comes and goes. When money comes, we feel good. When money goes, we don't feel good. So I don't like considering money as the factor here.
I would rather say, it is you who is not ready for a kid mentally. You automatically make arrangements for kids once they are there. You cannot wait for enough money to be collected lol!
Don't go to Disney first of all, you are financing the destruction of America. Secondly, I grew up with a single mother and a brother and we survived. The powers that are interested in population control on a global scale want you to be convinced that all the financial problems THEY ARE CAUSING make affording a family impossible for today's young people. It isn't. My first daughter was born when I was making 10$ an hour. Now we own our house have two vehicles and a second child. I had to hustle a lot to make that happen, and sacrifices were necessary aong the way, buthow badly you want it is going to determine how hard you will fight for it. Do you want a legacy and your genes to survive or not?
s Yes, I absolutely think it is. I wouldn't have a child if I knew that I was financially unstable.
You need to provide basic things so the child can survive and have a normal childhood. By basic I mean food, shelter, school, healthcare, clothes and shoes.
If you don't have money, then you two will suffer.
If you wait until everything is perfect to have children, no one would be having children. I was much better off financially when my three kids were born, compared to now. Fortunately, they’re all adults now with advanced degrees in the sciences. I’m waiting to retire so they can support their mother and I!
No but you need to have a steady job, structure and maturity. If one waited until they had enough money for a family they would never have it. If you’re in love with someone that loves you and you can’t be apart after having gone through the easy part of a relationship then you’re ready for a family
Depends on where you live. Some people live without money and are happy. Because they have everything (imagine people grow their own food...) though not in the kaus Schwab "own nothing and be happy" way.
Not very important. Love is most important.
As long as you can make enough to feed and support your family it's all good.
But i know plent of well off family's that are miserable.
I'd say that you need to have the basics covered but that you shouldn't wait for the perfect moment because they'll always be something to wait on and eventually the chance to have a family will pass by.
Money or resources. They are not the same thing. Yes, it is important, but this also doesn't mean "only rich people should have kids." Being a decent and committed parent is far more important than money. But I'd say money is #2 in importance.
I think one should be prepared financially for the commitment they are taking on. If you can't afford a child or more children then one has no business in having more kids.
I think you need to enough income that you'll still be able to bank or invest money each month towards their education. It's one of, but certainly not the MOST important consideration.
Unless u r planning to live in the streets so yeah it it important
Character supercedes money. This is mistake young women routinely make. Money comes and goes but character is permanent.
Money is important to live. Kids are so expensive. So yes. I'm not sure why anyone would say no. You have no money, don't have kids!
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