Is it ok to treat people the same way they’ve treated me?

[Anonymous]

I feel like it’s all good if they treat me anyway and I can’t really say much because they’re “joking”. But I guarantee if I say the same stuff or worse to them I’d be seen as a jerk. Like being a nice guy is getting hard nowadays because no one respects me no matter how hard I try. Like I don’t get what I’m doing wrong. I feel like now it makes sense to treat people the same way and show them how they’ve been treating me

[Guy13]

It is better to be gracious and possess the higher moral ground even if people think you are stupid for doing it.

[Asker]

Like I’ve been trying to smile through all their insults or whatever they do. Or I just don’t give attention but this stuff has been going on since I moved to my new house 8 years ago. But I get your point my grandma told me that “all people want is a reaction and don’t give them it. Just let it go through one ear and out the other”

[Anonymous]

2 Wrong don't make a Right.

Nobody seems to understand what that means... Which why they don't take the advice.

[Asker]

True it just feels like if I did it back to them they’d learn and realize how they’ve been treating me

[Opinion Owner]

Once again 2 wrongs don't make a right. You have truly understand what that means and why it doesn't make a right. Without that knowledge it will appear that the right thing to do is to teach them a lesson.

[Anonymous]

It’s ok to be a nice guy with bad boy streaks.

[gorydetails]

What is your problem with how people treat you?

[Asker]

Yeah it’s getting so frustrating

[gorydetails]

You mean like asking you to elaborate and you don't?

[DreamGlow]

Definitely yes

[La_isla_bonita23]

Definitely yes