Is it mean to tell someone that someone else doesn't like them (as a person in general)?

[Bethany22]

Someone I know has a circle of acquaintances that get together to play games. Every time they meet, however, he loses people that were there before (he's the organiser). I think he secretly wonders why he can't maintain the same circle of acquaintances, rather than having new ones join each time. Should I tell him that one person (my friend) stopped joining the group because he thinks that guy is arrogant? Or would that be mean of me to ruffle feathers?

[Rosexøxø]

Lol if he’s truly arrogant he won’t really worry.

Arrogant and cockiness- won’t care

And arrogant-elusiveness- won’t care:( ignorance is bliss).

Besides, maybe he likes having new people around all the time. It might make him feel like he’s well-liked, or a well-rounded person, 🌎 to be surrounded by/ accompanied by a variety of ‘cool and interesting’ people.

You-thinking-he’s-thinking-something-in SECRET, doesn’t sound like a good stepping stone to act/ walk on. 😂 👀👍

If he’s a close friend to you or he conveys (to you nearby you), verbally, that he doesn’t “understand” why people never “stick around” him, then I’d see THAT as a perfect opportunity to mention, what you had observed this time around.

*** Only offer self-improvement tips, to those who seem progressive, or actually want to self-improve, 👐 otherwise they will be offended, and some may even potentially- REGRESS as a person.

[melanieeeB]

I wouldn't get involved, that will just start drama and it's not your business if the two of them like each other or not

[snackthatsmilesback]

If u wanna tell them so they can maybe improve self, I'd say like "someone said this is why they left." And not much more. That way u don't say this person doesn't like u, and don't tell them who it is, they just know oh here's a possible reason. It's indirect so u don't have to agree. They can take it or leave it, the person isn't here anymore. Seems like least bad way to tell it to me nyway

[LickwidSkie]

From what you're saying It sounds like his behavior drives away a lot of people away and maybe he doesn't realize why. I think it might be a good idea to talk to him about it. Sometimes people don't see their flaws but work towards fixing them after someone points them out. Then again he could be the type to just get mad and/or be unwilling to accept criticism. Only one way to find out...

[Coden7]

I had a friend like that. They would never believe that it was them, and only other peoples fault.

[peedy]

If I dont like someone I tell them myself I don't have a 3rd person go do it
Its not mean it is also not your place to do so e

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would tell them, but in a polite manner, that it doesn't hurt their feelings.

[virgincountryboy]

Hey beautiful what up how are you doing I was wondering if that we could talk and get to know each other better and everything if you don't mind

[Stoner710]

Sure you should tell them anyway life isn’t about feeling it’s about facts

[pizzalovershouse]

Only if they are not as nean as they seem

[Jennz6]

Don’t say anything

[LemiaOfThunder]

good luck