Is it normal for my GaG friend to resent me for never choosing her as MHO?

[Anonymous]

We were close friends, I invited her to my questions, and I chose the answers of others as MHO. After a while, she started talking to me less and no longer answers my questions. Is it normal to be offended by this?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Are you sure that's the reason?
No, it's not normal for people to care so much about who gets MHO. It's worth as much as a thumbs up, in my opinion. I mean, maybe a bit more, because you give the person feedback that they helped you and gave you the advice needed. But it's good of you that you're not biased because they're friends. "friends", actual ones shouldn't make a big deal out of this.

[Asker]

I didn't ask why, but I'm sure it is. She doesn't care about Xper or MHO, but I think she though I'm ignoring her because in my question she and 2 other people shared opinions and I chose the other two people as MHO, not her. I did it a few time. Do you think it’s rude?

[Ms_Facesitter]

I think it's all pretty childish. If you think it's worth it... talk to her. DM's there.

[Bee-Hatch]

Short answer - no

Long answer- This kind of thing only matters when you believe it matters. In reality it's empty and worthless as it goes. Unfortunately there are people who get caught up in it all and start to believe this site actually matters. And for them there's a delusion that that kind of thing is important, it can result in some butt hurt if you aren't awarding some meaningless award.

[talka20]

Did u ask her the reason? And she said its bec of not giving her mho? Or u think thats probably the reason?

[Marked_Man]

Why would anybody care about MHO points or xper? I'm just here for the hilarious questions that pop up.

[Asker]

She doesn't care about xper but I guess she thought i didn't take her seriously because i never picked her as mho 🤨

[Anonymous]

Yeah sounds normal. If she’s 12.

[EaterPeter]

No 👎