May sound stupid. Was friends for a long time then had a fallout when it was covid and haven't talked as much as we used to or spend time together. She chose other friends in our group over me and made as if our friendship never existed. Everyone sees me as the bad buy because she told lies about me etc. Also used me just to get things. She also lied about a lot of stuff and was secretive. She always criticized me for everything that I have but most of my stuff are items that I have had over the years. I rarely got new things where she had something new almost every week. I admit that I probably wasn't the easiest person to deal with but I did see her as a best friend for years to come but I don't think that she saw me that way. I was the one that mostly did everything for everyone in the group. I also try to help where I could but she took advantage of that. She doesn't remember the things I did for her, only the things I didn't do. Our birthdays are also a few days apart. I am afraid if I do send a message that she won't wish me happy birthday just to get back at me or something. Would appreciate any advice and opinions on what to do.
Should I still send a happy birthday message to my ex best friend? Am afraid if I do then she won't wish me happy birthday?
