It is not a dumb question. Though I have no idea what happened between you two, I think it is sweet of you to still think of wishing her happy birthday. Whether or not you should text her will really depend on the severity of your fight with her so that she will not misconstrue the well wishes.
You've only been in a fight for a week. It'll most likely blow over. And if it does, you're going to want to have wished her happy birthday. I'd do it because if you become friends again and you don't wish her a happy birthday then you will regret it
Let sleeping dogs lie in the Cozy Corner if You like the Way things are Here, dear.
However, If you are Missing her, Want to be Friends Again, Let her Know…. She still has a Friend. xx
It’s her birthday. Sending a text is literally the least you could do to greet someone on their day. Who knows, maybe you two will begin to talk again if she hears from you?
Are you guys squabbling over something meaningful?
Or are you both destroying friendship over something meaningless?
If meaningless, say happy birthday and also write why there is a point to repair your friendship... Stubbornness isn't a positive thing at times like these 😬
Yes you should. Just keep it simple/nothing more than "happy birthday" and keep it special by only doing the same thing for Christmas... it keeps the communication channels open for possible future reconciliation.
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Say it if you care about her still, when y'all are older and if you're still friends you'll laugh about it but even a simple thing like happy birthday might make her think of you
Yeah just short and sweet wish her a good day these things tend to pass and if you ignore her birthday it can make it drag on its just a sweet thing to do
Assuming you want to reconcile then yes. Break the ice. Good friends are difficult to find so whatever the fight was about, put it behind you and make it up
Do it and don't expect anything back. If she responds back with a bad text ignore it. You reached out and showed her that you cared
Of course you can try... It's always positive to make a first move and you will feel better :) go for it!
Be nice to people if they are not. Do not expect, you will be the same best friends but maybe a little step for it.
Absolutely, the "Best Friends" title is earned & whether she likes it or not you could still be her best friend. 😉 -be the better person & wish her the best. . . .
If you feel the friendship is worth fighting for, then go ahead and wish her a happy birthday. Her response will be a good indicator of where her head is at regarding the friendship.
Stop being silly and say Happy Birthday already
You had a fight fair enough, but it's their birthday. You don't have to have a conversation but a simple happy birthday would be nice
I would say happy birthday. Let's say that you didn't text her Happy Birthday, then she might have another argument to fight over. Good luck with everything :) Friendships can be difficult some times.
Say happy birthday. Why not? Might show that you still care about her?
Why not just apologize and bite the bullet. Unless she did something really wrong what's the point of throwing a friendship over a petty squabble.
It depends if you wanna keep your relationship with her. If you wanna stay in the fight, then don't.
Just be the bigger person and wish her a happy birthday!
Sure do it, it might help fix things between you two by starting up a convo about everything you
You could say that despite your recent issues, you genuinely wish her a happy birthday.
What better way to extend an olive branch than to greet her?
I wouldn't. But I also hold grudges and things like these.
Your intention is to be nice right? So who cares how she reacts. What matters is why you're texting her and not if she's going to appreciate it
Well in my opinion, it all depends on how things broke off, like if you agreed to just be friends then id say yes go right a head, but if it wasn't a clean cut break up id say maybe avoid it because you won't want to give the wrong vibe
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