Should I still wish my ex best friend happy birthday?

[Anonymous]

Ok this might be a dumb question but... me and my (ex) best friend Are in a fight, we don’t talk anymore and at school we don’t look at each other. This drama started like a week ago. But today’s her birthday. Is it weird if I still text her happy birthday? Or should I just say nothing?

[HANAZAWA]

It is not a dumb question. Though I have no idea what happened between you two, I think it is sweet of you to still think of wishing her happy birthday. Whether or not you should text her will really depend on the severity of your fight with her so that she will not misconstrue the well wishes.

[LittleRedKat]

You've only been in a fight for a week. It'll most likely blow over. And if it does, you're going to want to have wished her happy birthday. I'd do it because if you become friends again and you don't wish her a happy birthday then you will regret it

[Paris13]

Let sleeping dogs lie in the Cozy Corner if You like the Way things are Here, dear.
However, If you are Missing her, Want to be Friends Again, Let her Know…. She still has a Friend. xx

[Paris13]

Not dumb at all. xx

[Leimarie]

It’s her birthday. Sending a text is literally the least you could do to greet someone on their day. Who knows, maybe you two will begin to talk again if she hears from you?

[Leimarie]

No. If you want, you may talk to me here in public or not at all.

[gaganrules8]

Ok i need a help

[gaganrules8]

U being a girl can help me out little

[Leimarie]

Ah ok. No thank you. Please find someone else to help you.

[Drifter83UK]

Are you guys squabbling over something meaningful?
Or are you both destroying friendship over something meaningless?

If meaningless, say happy birthday and also write why there is a point to repair your friendship... Stubbornness isn't a positive thing at times like these 😬

[LeeVonWhite]

Yes you should. Just keep it simple/nothing more than "happy birthday" and keep it special by only doing the same thing for Christmas... it keeps the communication channels open for possible future reconciliation.

[Zilkk]

Say it if you care about her still, when y'all are older and if you're still friends you'll laugh about it but even a simple thing like happy birthday might make her think of you

[unicorn1978]

Yeah just short and sweet wish her a good day these things tend to pass and if you ignore her birthday it can make it drag on its just a sweet thing to do

[Drumlin2001]

Assuming you want to reconcile then yes. Break the ice. Good friends are difficult to find so whatever the fight was about, put it behind you and make it up

[Jjpayne]

Do it and don't expect anything back. If she responds back with a bad text ignore it. You reached out and showed her that you cared

[MonaLee]

Of course you can try... It's always positive to make a first move and you will feel better :) go for it!

[findingdreamland-1]

Be nice to people if they are not. Do not expect, you will be the same best friends but maybe a little step for it.

[soccerking]

Absolutely, the "Best Friends" title is earned & whether she likes it or not you could still be her best friend. 😉 -be the better person & wish her the best. . . .

[TallJamaican1991]

If you feel the friendship is worth fighting for, then go ahead and wish her a happy birthday. Her response will be a good indicator of where her head is at regarding the friendship.

[gclark2708]

Stop being silly and say Happy Birthday already

You had a fight fair enough, but it's their birthday. You don't have to have a conversation but a simple happy birthday would be nice

[romael]

I would say happy birthday. Let's say that you didn't text her Happy Birthday, then she might have another argument to fight over. Good luck with everything :) Friendships can be difficult some times.

[alybuck1799]

Say happy birthday. Why not? Might show that you still care about her?

[Caaarl]

Why not just apologize and bite the bullet. Unless she did something really wrong what's the point of throwing a friendship over a petty squabble.

[whyisitso]

It depends if you wanna keep your relationship with her. If you wanna stay in the fight, then don't.

[notflyingbird]

Just be the bigger person and wish her a happy birthday!

[daisy56]

Sure do it, it might help fix things between you two by starting up a convo about everything you

[daisy56]

Didn’t mean the you at the end wtf

[JBaur]

You could say that despite your recent issues, you genuinely wish her a happy birthday.

[Claire136]

What better way to extend an olive branch than to greet her?

[Jemini_Crocket]

I wouldn't. But I also hold grudges and things like these.

[xZoeyx]

Your intention is to be nice right? So who cares how she reacts. What matters is why you're texting her and not if she's going to appreciate it

[missingthatpiece]

Well in my opinion, it all depends on how things broke off, like if you agreed to just be friends then id say yes go right a head, but if it wasn't a clean cut break up id say maybe avoid it because you won't want to give the wrong vibe

[Madobe048]

If u do text her it could end your argument and prove that u are a good friend for remembering but if you dont you would probably be seen as stubborn or she could think you forgot and get upset. I would recommend wishing her a happy bday

[CaffeinatedCactus]

Do it. she's still your friend even if you're fighting.

[AbdKilani]

You should never miss wishing people a happy birthday
So go ahead

[Anonymous]

Even though he gets lots of wishes from his friends and family in all that wishes he will wait for your wishes

[Anonymous]

Well she is your bestie. So you will end up in good terms sooner or later. Wish her a happy birthday. Be a bigger person :)

[t3hhottdawg]

Depends, I you wanna fully end the friendship don't say Happy Birthday. If you still have hope of being friends again say it.

[SamXIII]

Yes because that's one year closer to her death so you should celebrate that.

[whyisitso]

I like your way of thinking 😂😂

[SamXIII]

Haha thank you 😂❤

[CINDY16]

I would do it and if she doesn't respond back then yeah...

[fierypoos]

Yeah you might as well try and put everything behind you and see what happens

[things_krypto]

Yes, I know I would wnt that and it would mean a lot

[ryryryan]

If you still want that friendship, yes wish her the best!!!

[venelopeduck]

Depends on whether you want to patch things up, it sounds like you still wish them well

[Leo3572]

Only when you are still together. Might break the ice :)

[britpop]

If you value the friendship and want to try to repair it then yes

[Skagish]

You should only if you think you can save relationship

[Jalaco]

If you want to make up, yes. If not, then does it matter?

[sidvt]

Just do it if u want but be prepared for negative response

[BOUNTYGUY9]

yes you should things will get better as you both get older

[Zeno123]

It's fine to say happy birthday, even if your in an argument, you never know it might make you friends again

[Andres1008]

If is a stupid think, you should say her, but if is a thing so hard... Well, you have to choose what do.

[Ham90]

I don't see any reason why we should text our exes back if it s not for dating

[Migen10]

I dont think you should to be honest if you fight there is no point of telling him happy birthday

[the_sinner]

If you think you can handle the drama (if there's any) after you wish her then maybe you can try.

[Justin2307]

You don't hurt anyone by texting her, right? So why dont you try

[amansubs98]

Yeah... should let the person know you are cool with it.

[Skullpool]

Look.. is it more important the "drama" or your friendship?
I'll choose for you. Write her

[MusicLover1989]

Ya sure , if u don't have any questions in Ur mind before sending him a message

[Ruben2937]

U should if want to make ur relationship better as friends

[Archangelo]

Call her and wish her. Soon you will realize life had bigger probs

[xBubblegumQueenx]

I would say no since I'm stubborn as hell lol but just choose what you feel is the right thing

[Aaadict]

Of course you should it's only natural for friends to have arguments

[Julionce28]

No, because it's a dumb thing and you will never forget him

[Anonymous]

By asking here I would guess u want to and you are just seeking an aproval. Hence you should.

[Walkerrose]

Wish her! Be yourself!

[Nikki6969s]

That’s desperate and boring

[Nikki6969s]

I thought it was an ex my bad yeah text her

[Paradoxicfox]

Sure! Dont burn bridges

[jason_1233]

No. Just respect yourself and your selfworth

[jason_1233]

You could try to fix the problem in the friendship or just forget about it

[390Pendolino]

If you feel comfortable doing so, go ahead.

[SleepingSnorlax]

Grow up a d text her
Harsh but the simple truth

[Deathraider]

Why not? You guys could still be friends.