I have until June 10 to be moved out of my current home and my realtor knows that , but my family keeps pressuring me with this move. All my things are packed and they keep going and going on about it. They're also upset because I'm going no contact with them after we move. I don't want my family included in my move pretax to location and etc.. They're toxic , dysfunctional, and abusive behavior is why I'm going no contact... I have everything set up for me moving as the person I hired to move me and I have until tomorrow or Saturday morning at the latest to be moved. How to get them to stop nagging me?
How to get my family to stop pressuring me with this move?
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Sounds like they mutually want you away from them. Don’t know the whole story but sounds about like that. Nothing you can’t do , the 10th is literally in two days
I am ready to get away from them they're abusive and toxic- they're the problem for me
They won't have to worry because after the 10th theyll. never here or see from me or my kids again if I don't get legal for their abuse they caused on me and my family
I've explained how abusive they are - the create drama and chaos... I'm going no contact with them in a few days
Just hang on and maybe do things away from the house for two days
This is the result of abusive people discarding their victimns... They're in for a rude awakening legally after we move.
I'm not going anywhere to please them and have enough to deal with - with us moving
That sounds about like the drama is pleasurable to you but to each it’s own.
I'm just ignoring them they create drama because this who they are
Ignorning them gives me pleasure - it takes two to argue and I don't say anything to them - me leaving won't change the fact I won't be moving until tomm or Saturday clearly they have mo control over that as bad as they want too
They'll create drama whether I'm here or not ! Whether I'm saying anything or not , but this is the result of mental unhinged people who are messed up mentally
Welll if they don’t have a good relationship with you- regardless of who is at fault I can see why they mutually want that. You can’t have much stuff at their house to the point where the move takes 2 days. Just keep yourself busy away from them and when you want to move everything - do it quickly
No ! Like they're upset because I don't want contact with them , but I'm the bad guy no they're fucked up mentally ! So let's abuse Chloe and blame Chloe because I'm an abuser , but get mad because I am going no contact and start crying! Hopefully my family can get mental health services after we leave !
I don’t know your situation I am just going off of exactly what can be done to ease what your parents are doing. Good luck.
No they're abusers and this is what abusers do - no contact emergency wise, no visitation , no cards , no grandchildren visits, no texting , no phone calls - this is where this is going
No good luck needed - they need help !
Unless you understand narcissistic abuse and mental health you're not going to understand!
I went through an abusive relationship with my ex. I did for me what brought me peace. Don’t use situations like those to one up people please.
I don't care about my family that was an ex this is family sorry you went through that men come and go , but I can't get a new family - they will be cut for good
Again, using your own situation to deter what I’ve been through is lame. You don’t know my family situation either. Last time I’m commenting, people that actually want peace do things for themselves that deter them away from drama. It’s you either like drama or you like peace. That decision is up to you
Neither do you leaving womt change who they are when we're leaving in 2 days possibly 1 day. Me leaving will be forever this is not a temporary thing
I'm choosing peace in 2 days why I'm moving - I'm not here to satisfy my family 💯 they stay in their lane and I'm in mines until we leave
I ignore my family
cutting contact with them after moving might teach them a lesson
This isn't a teachable lesson they're getting cut off for good chance of rekindling or reconciliation
They will never change
then its good you didn't inherit those toxic traits
No I don't want anything to do with my fanily after the weekend this usntva teachable lesson - they're cut off for good and if they show up on my property I'm calling law to to get po against them