Do girls still want to be in the kitchen as a stay at home mom?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

Yes but a lot of couples can't afford this. To be honest a stay at home wife/mom has a lot of time on her hands. I mean thanks to modern conveniences, housework takes a bout 3 hours per day if you don't let it build up and when the kids are old enough they are away half of the day at school. I find time most days to cook my husband breakfast in the morning, look after our child, do the housework, masturbate, go to the gym, visit friends or family, go to events, cook my husband dinner before he comes home.

[David_Kek]

The fact you put masturbate as part of your daily to do list genuinely made me chuckle.

[CassandraSpender]

@David_Kek it's just on the list of chores to get done lol

[crmoore]

Yeah, the humor lies in how casually it was said, lmao. I definitely had to reread to make sure I didn't misread something, lol.

[MyOwnMan2]

You're being paid to do nothing

[Opinion Owner]

@MyOwnMan2 oh no I put in the work for sure. It's just not 9-5.

[MyOwnMan2]

It's not work it's literally what you would do if you had nothing to do

[Opinion Owner]

@MyOwnMan2 look after a child 24/7?

[MyOwnMan2]

That's like saying its work for a man to have sex

[Opinion Owner]

@MyOwnMan2 .. are you not putting in the work?

[David_Kek]

@MyOwnMan2 Be nice, and add masturbate to your to do list too, because you should like you could use one

[David_Kek]

@crmoore Actually reminds me of a clip from the Simpsons when Homer casually tries to buy illegal fireworks.

[MyOwnMan2]

A woman taking care of her kids is not work.

[Opinion Owner]

@MyOwnMan2 take care of someone else's kids you get paid

[Anonymous]

If all I had to do was stay at home with the kids all day, I would be a top notch chef in the kitchen and in the bedroom. 😉

[mstbooblover]

The answer, whether girls still want to be in the kitchen as home mom, depends on the involved girls and their situations I'd say. I met some young women who, because of social and financial pressure, left their stay home kitchen mom role to earn a living, to discover a few laters they had to pay a large part of their salary to get their children taken care of. One former nurse once told me that she paid nannies for her children while she herself was paid to take care of other people's children. One day she had enough of this odd situation, and decided to stay home for her children.

I met women sincerely prefering to take care of their family and household, and others who prefered to earn a living and build a professional career. My conclusion is that both ways of life should be respected, and let's keep in mind that a household requires often more efforts and work than having a job to earn a living.

[DaisyM23]

i know a few women who'd like that, it's personal choice - personally i don't see kids in my future or they're just VERY far down the line i'm undecided but i'd prefer to split chores and cooking equally though i'd be willing to take on more cleaning lol

[OfMiceandMen]

Some women may be okay with this, however, most would likely want to contribute to the finances. Especially, with the cost of living these days.

It's tough to live off one income, even if the guy is doing relatively well.

I can see being a stay-at-home mom when the kids are young, because daycares etc., are really expensive. However, once the kids go to primary school, finances may dictate heading back to work.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am really bad at cooking, once I wanted to make my ex happy and decided to cook Georgian delicacy for him, I put my heart into it, started early at 08:00 o’clock and finished at 04:00 o’clock, he was starving hungry and moody.

Yes, it was very delicious, because I tried my best, but he asked me not to cook again and that he would cook for me from that day on.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

You are amazing for admitting that lol 😂.

[Singing_Hollow]

The idea that Women belong in the kitchen etc is crap but a woman should feel the need to want to feed her family because this is a strong form of love and brings her fulfillment knowing her family have full stomachs and are happy. If the relationship is toxic then its obvious no woman wants to do it because she isn't appreciated, however if there is love and peace in the house then it doesn't become a choir but rather a natural instinct that bring her joy.

[Apple1996]

Depends on the woman but I personally love being a stay at home mom even tho it's stressful it's worth it to spend that time with my kiddos. Can't imagine having to send them off to daycare for someone else to raise them.

[exitseven]

@Apple1996. We did not want our kids raised by strangers. We really struggled with one income but I have no regrets. When my kids were sick they got to stay in bed and my wife took care of them. They got to play in their own backyard. They did not have to punch a time clock.

[Raaj4you]

I don't know what girls / women think. My mom is a house maker but I still love and respect her. But women look more beautiful when they cook and clean🥰. Running a home is a tough job. I salute all the house wives. I don't know why modern girls are ashamed of being house wives? Tell me how do I find this kind of girls? A woman turns your house into home.

[Tomisworthless]

Women belong to be at home upkeeping the household, raising the children, and nurturing the family unit. Government and left wing radicals push women liberation as being career woman and sexually immoral however this is just a ploy to increase tax revenue by increasing employment and also consumerism.

[Brittanyroseee]

Lol. Not everyone want kids or necessarily likes them. I don’t care for kids. I don’t want to be a mom. I would rather work, make money and enjoy doing something I actually like. I don’t want the responsibility of a kid. I don’t want to clean up after them and be stuck with them 24/7. I don’t like children and i especially am not a fan of babies

[Brittanyroseee]

I prefer solitude. I don’t want a child glued at my hip 24/7

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee what are you a man?

[Brittanyroseee]

Nope, just a woman with masculine energy. It’s sad men like you believe that ALL women want kids and that our purpose is to stay home and raise children. It’s 2023…. It’s not old times anymore. You need to understand that we have different priorities in life and other interests that don’t involve kids. I literally have NO desire to be a parent. I never have. Im 25 now. I have never wanted kids or a family growing up. My goal in life has always been to get my career and make money so im independent and financially stable. This is more important to me than marriage and kids. People can leave at anytime. Relationships fail. I am not gonna rely on a relationship for stability or “happiness”. I also don’t necessarily care for children. I do not have a motherly instinct. I literally look at babies and small kids and feel no emotion whatsoever. I prefer animals honestly. A child is a huge responsibility. They are very expensive. Not a smart financial decision in this economy! They are time consuming. I am not interested enough in that lifestyle so i would be very bored and miserable.

[Brittanyroseee]

I honestly don’t like infant babies or toddlers. I find them gross, sticky, messy, loud, and annoying. It gets worse when they are teenagers. I don’t want to change diapers, or clean after a child 24/7. I prefer peace&quiet. No noise. I prefer solitude and privacy. Not being around someone 24/7 talking their ass off. I prefer a clean home, not a messy one with baby shit everywhere. I prefer being able to go out whenever i want and not being tied down to the responsibility of a child.

[Brittanyroseee]

Oh! And I don’t want someones baggage either!!!

[Brittanyroseee]

Im not interested in kids. Period. I have been this way since i was a kid myself like i said i have never cared about wanting a family. It’s not my priority in life or my interest🤷🏼‍♀️

[richardcory]

@Brittanyroseee A wise decision IMHO. Children are fine for those who want them, but many people become parents without realizing the incredible commitment they are making. I never wanted kids and have never regretted not having them

[Brittanyroseee]

No. Kids are for people who want them. Many people who have kids without wanting them or planning them, end up miserable and in tough situations. That won’t ever be me lol. If i ever got pregnant i would have an abortion. Done. No, I don’t sleep around. I had sex once actually. But if i ever get married and i end up pregnant, i would abort it. Yes im on birth control lol. So to respond to your comment, everyone is different. I would honestly regret it if i had kids. Especially if my partner decided to leave me and i become stuck with their offspring. I wouldn’t want the baggage of someone else ya know? It that did happen to me, i would regret the child and want my old life back which is the one im living now.

[Brittanyroseee]

I also don’t want kids cuz I simply don’t necessarily care for them lol. I also value my money, time, freedom, and privacy a lot more instead of sacrificing my entire life for someone else. I don’t feel like changing my life for someone else… i like my life to be simple. I don’t want the responsibility of a child. Like you said it is a huge commitment. I don’t want to commit to something that i have no interest in.

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee yeah the thing is you’re a masculine woman, probably gay and incredibly selfish to be able to care for a child anyways.

[Brittanyroseee]

Gay? I love men😂😂😂 my aunt is 67 and is married for 30 years with my uncle. They have no kids and are happy. They are both architects and run their own buisness. They never wanted kids😂same with my brother who is 31 and married to his girlfriend from highschool. They despise children

[Brittanyroseee]

What is wrong with women not wanting kids? Are we all supposed to be stay at home moms with kids? Time has changed, it’s 2023. Back then, birth control and contraceptions were difficult to get and things were different. Im sure if back then women had the choice, they wouldn’t have had kids either. Now, we have the choice. Do you never stop to think that maybe people have different interests in life and priorities?

[Brittanyroseee]

Kids are not my interest. Never have been. My priority in life is to have a career and make money to financially support myself. I don’t rely on other people for happiness and to take care of me. I prefer to be independent. And i just don’t like kids… especially infant babies. Just no. Sorry.

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee ok and when you get your career and money and you lived your life on your own terms you will be in your elderly age alone with no kids or grandkids and then what where will be your happiness.

[Tomisworthless]

Balenciaga purse so I’d figure you love kids

[Brittanyroseee]

It doesn’t make me a liberal for having a different priority or interest in life. Humans are unique individuals with different thoughts, feelings, priorities, and interests in life. You cannot shame people for thinking different than you. It is also not required by law to have kids. It’s a choice.

[Brittanyroseee]

Ah, you are bringing up “who will take care of you when your old” argument. Visit a nursing home. Look at all the elderly in there. Talk to nurses. Kids put their own parents into care homes.. talk to nurses, they will tell you that kids never come to visit their parents. Having kids doesn’t guarantee you won’t be alone lol

[Brittanyroseee]

And who said i will be alone? I may be married, have a life partner.

[Brittanyroseee]

Ah the balenciaga scandal. I don’t really give a fuck about the scandal 😂I bought this bag way before the stupid scandal. So I don’t care😂

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee that’s this American system to put parents in elderly homes, which I don’t subscribe to. I’m Croatian, we believe in housing and taking care of your parents when they are elderly. They rose you and housed you as you were growing and you must return the same as is the cycle of life

[Brittanyroseee]

Sir, im not gonna put myself into a situation that I won’t be happy in😂

[Brittanyroseee]

Sir, im in the USA. Things are different here:) and having kids to take care of you when your old is very selfish. By the time you are old, your kids will be moved on with their own life and family. I honestly would rather have a professional doctor and nurse take care of me and KNOW what they are doing, over my offspring who will resent me for it👋🏼🤷🏼‍♀️

[Brittanyroseee]

Also, just because my parents chose to have me, doesn’t mean i owe them grandkids. This is MY life. I don’t owe anyone shit.

[Brittanyroseee]

I will never agree with your nonsense

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee you’re probably a cali girl to be this ignorant lmao no, putting your parents in elderly homes is selfish also I’m in the USA as well just born from another country with better set of cultural practices than the ones that are promoted here.

[Tomisworthless]

It’s maybe nonsense to you but in my eyes your choice of life is nonsense and you will reap the penalties to your decisions later. No need to continue this conversation I see you have nothing better to do than triple text me

[Brittanyroseee]

Sir, not everyone is fit to take care of their elderly parents. And people shouldn’t have kids just to not be alone. That is ridiculous. That is selfish in itself. Again, there won’t be any consequences to me not having children. There are tons of people without children and they are happy

[Brittanyroseee]

Do you want me to have kids even though I don’t like them nor have interest in them?

[Brittanyroseee]

My choice of life is not nonsense. You have no right to judge people. I have a fulltime career that I enjoy and i make money. I don’t see myself with children and I don’t want to dedicate my life to them. What is the issue? I would be miserable being a stay at home mom taking care of kids. I don’t want a child glued to my hip 24/7. I prefer solitude and peace and quiet

[Brittanyroseee]

There are no penalties to MY choice of life. Children are a choice not a life requirement.

[Brittanyroseee]

Everyone dies alone. It’s not guaranteed kids will prevent that. Again visit a nursing home.

[Brittanyroseee]

Everyone dies bro. Get over it

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t like kids. I don't know what you expect from someone who has absolutely no interest in babies or children 😂

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t want to live for someone else. I want to live for myself and only be responsible for myself. Nothing wrong with that lol. I don’t want to serve other people

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee you finished?

[Brittanyroseee]

Yep. I hope that went through your head. I had to make it clear for people like you to understand my point

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee didn’t bother reading your nonsense

[Brittanyroseee]

Again, it’s not nonsense. Do you think everyone who has a different opinion, is “nonsense”?

[Brittanyroseee]

Choosing to not listen to someone else’s opinion or feelings, is ignorant. So therefore you sir are very ignorant lol

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee not all opinions are valid and not all life choices are worth honoring.

[Brittanyroseee]

Really? Not all opinions are valid? Are you serious? So me not liking babies and having no interest in kids is not valid?… so my feelings are not valid?

[Brittanyroseee]

Ok, so my fulltime career is not worth honoring?

[Brittanyroseee]

I don’t like kids bro. What do you not understand? Why would i spend MY life on kids if I don’t care about them?

[Brittanyroseee]

Kids are a choice. They are not a requirement for life.

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee if children were a choice then how are you alive? Some people don’t want kids sure, but I’m not saying that is wise. Your career is irrelevant to life, a woman should have a family that is what brings her true joy and fulfillment, your career comes second. You can be a mother and have a job not everyone should be a stay at home mother, and even the ones that are have hobbies and tasks that they can generate income from home.

[Brittanyroseee]

Sir it wouldn’t bring me joy or fulfillment. Im not a mom so my career comes first and is my priority. I don’t want kids so therefore i am not going to put myself into a situation i cannot get out of. What is so difficult to grasp about this concept? Yes, children are a choice. My parents CHOSE to have me. Tons of women have kids and end up being miserable and they neglect the child.

[Brittanyroseee]

Again, I don’t want kids. Im not interested in them. Please respect my opinion and my feelings.

[Brittanyroseee]

I also don’t want someones baggage if they decide to leave me. The child would become a burden on me. Good bye

[Brittanyroseee]

Im on birth control for a reason sir. Im also thinking about getting my tubes tied as well😊you can be mad about that too even though it’s my body😂😂😂😂

[Brittanyroseee]

It’s my life at the end of the day and what i do, does not affect you or anyone else. I don’t care about kids, or like them, so im not going to have them or put myself into a situation where i will clearly not be happy in. Stop forcing your beliefs onto people who clearly think differently and have a different opinion

[richardcory]

Everyone dies. All they can do is chose how they live. If they want to raise children that's fine. If they want to explore the world, or make art, or be scientists, or truck drivers or whatever - why shouldn't each person live as they wish if its not harming anyone else?

[richardcory]

My parents each spent 10 years in nursing homes, too feeble to take care of themselves. Should I have spent those 10 years caring for them. Then had my children (if I had them) waste 10 years of their lives caring for me? I never want to be a burden on someone.

[Tomisworthless]

@richardcory were you a burden or a joy to your parents when you were a child growing into a adult?

[Brittanyroseee]

Again, our parents chose to have us. We have the choice to choose if we want kids or not. How is this so difficult to understand? Also, I don’t owe my parents grandkids.

[Brittanyroseee]

Why do you care so much what people do or how they live their OWN lives?

[Brittanyroseee]

Why do you want people, who don’t want kids, to still have them? do you want that child to be neglected and unloved?

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee I’m not talking to you, go away lmao

[Brittanyroseee]

Its the internet. Im allowed to comment whatever the fuck i want

[Brittanyroseee]

Go away and stop telling people how to live their own fucking lives

[Tomisworthless]

@Brittanyroseee it’s my own comment, you should get a life and move on.

[Brittanyroseee]

Get a life and stop judging people for not living the way you do

[richardcory]

I'm pretty sure my father didn't want me - he spent as much time as he could away from home. I think the first time he actually said something positive to me was when I was visiting him in his nursing home.

My mother liked the idea of having kids but really didn't know how to raise them, and was a borderline alcoholic, so I had a pretty unhappy childhood.

Kids are great for people who want them and who know how to raise them. Otherwise its a terrible idea

[DizzyDesii]

I absolutely do not. I don’t mind staying home for the kids first year or two. But by the 2nd or 3rd year, I’d go back to working a 9-5 from home and hire a sitter. House chores will be split between the guy and I

[exitseven]

My wife was the only one in the neighborhood that stayed home with our kids. Everyone else shuffled their kids off to day care. There were some that would have liked to do the same thing.

[UniquelyBasic]

Some women still want to be a stay at home mom who cooks, cleans and does the house work while the man earns the money.

[Brittanyroseee]

No. I don’t want kids at all. I prefer working my career and making money for myself. I enjoy doing things i like. Being a stay at home mom would make me want to kill myself😂

[hsshannah96]

Yes but only because I’m 26 and still single and when I become a mom I will want to be with my children after trying to get married and date for 20 yeaes

[WonderBell99]

Nope. I would never do that. I want to earn my own money.

[richardcory]

There are billions of women, and they want different things. Some want to stay at home, others want careers.

[Anonymous]

lol no. i'm not going to have my partner trap me and have him be the only one making money. i can make my own money too. he can also cook food too... he can also take care of the kid too... it's 2023. please stop with this mentality.

[jennifer_bloom]

I read most girls prefer to be housewives but work because their husbands do not make enough money to support the family.

[BlackJeep]

I've gone out with well educated career minded women and when I say that I don't need a second income they turn into Suzy Homemaker.

[fonduegirl]

Lmao what's Suzy homemaker?

[comekitty]

I teach kindergarten so I have summers off and I'm happy as a clam being in the kitchen and being a mom. 🙂

[Izzy_3991]

I don't mind being a homemaker or working (whatever my husband needs), but children are out of the question for me 😂

[Ben487]

I think so. My sister became one and she is now happier than ever. She also went to college, got a degree, entered the work force, and happily surrendered all that shit when the opportunity arose. It doesn't hurt that her husband is rich.

[soniaaaaaaa]

No girls don’t want that because everyone human should have a job and everyone who live in. Household should align in household chores

[KetoJames]

If that's what you want, get yourself an import.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Sounds racist

[KetoJames]

Against what race?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

You called foreign women imports

[KetoJames]

What race?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Non whites

[KetoJames]

Those are your words, not mine.

[fonduegirl]

He's trying to wrong you. But I 100% agree with you. @ketojames

[KetoJames]

@anon1903
And the crazy thing is, I was serious and trying to help.

[fonduegirl]

Yes, yes

[crmoore]

Why should they import and not find someone they love, whose company they enjoy and appreciate?

[KetoJames]

@crmoore

Go for it.

[fonduegirl]

@crmoore all she meant was look for a foreign girlfriend. In eastern culture, you'll find that kind of women more.

There's absolutely nothing else she wanted to say.

[KetoJames]

@anon1903

Exactly

[crmoore]

@anon1903

With all due respect, I'm not convinced of that at all. I think she wanted to discredit those who like those qualities in women, and deride women who have them.

Importing women is often looked down upon by many people and by conflating a woman like that with importing women, she paints that sort of relationship in a negative light.

She didn't say "those qualities are more prevalent among other cultures, notably eastern ones" she said "get yourself an import" which is very clearly not a substitute for a relationship or marriage for most people, she was not genuinely trying to help with that comment.

I believe her "go for it" remark shows just how genuine she is, here. It did not answer my question, and she was trying to deflect a point that exposes a flaw in her ridicule.

[fonduegirl]

@crmoore no. Don't turn this on her. Foreign dates can definitely help. And if there was any hidden note of resentment in that, you guys very much deserve it. We're tired of the BS that traditional women are better. They ain't. Unless you get yourself one, you'd never know. So please, do.

[fonduegirl]

@crmoore whatever was her sentiment, I support it. Nothing much I'll say.

[KetoJames]

@anon1903

Let's attempt to dissect this babble. lol

"With all due respect, I'm not convinced of that at all. I think she wanted to discredit those who like those qualities in women, and deride women who have them."
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@anon1903
You were smart enough to understand that I was talking about women from the East. I know a lot about this, and I know lots of guys who brought wives back from the East. The guys and their wives are very happy. I guess the word "import" gets some people upset.
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"Importing women is often looked down upon by many people and by conflating a woman like that with importing women, she paints that sort of relationship in a negative light."
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@anon1903

What the hell is he talking about? Negative light? He's the only one shining any negativity on this. There are tons of dating sites just for this. Western men get tired of Western women, so they look to other countries
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"She didn't say "those qualities are more prevalent among other cultures, notably eastern ones" she said "get yourself an import"
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@anon1903

It's true, I didn't mention the obvious. I guess I didn't mention the obvious because I forgot I was on GAG. I should start mentioning that the sky is blue.
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[KetoJames]

"which is very clearly not a substitute for a relationship or marriage for most people, she was not genuinely trying to help with that comment."

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@anon1903

Marriage or a relationship? That's exactly how this works. For fuck's sake, Amazon doesn't just ship these women in a box. You marry her in either her country or years.
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"Why should they import and not find someone they love, whose company they enjoy and appreciate?"
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@anon1903

That was his comment to me. And not find someone they love? You can't love a Thai woman?
You can't enjoy the company of a Thai woman and appreciate her?" Christ, he makes them out to be monsters. I was serious about importing, and I would have given him tips on how to do it.

Sawadee Ka


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[crmoore]

@anon1903 What do you mean don't turn this on her? She made the post, my comment was on her post and regarded her post. This has always been about her comment.

And wow, I deserve resentment because I'm interested in (somewhat) traditional relationships? I have not once chastised a woman for not aligning with traditional gender roles. I'm a libertarian and I have always supported people to do what they want, and not conform to what other people insist they should be. So of you to suggest that I am deserving of resentment is, quite frankly, unfounded and an incredibly hateful and tribalistic gesture. You're not going to like hearing this, but you need to, your actions here are arguably no different than hating black people because some black person mistreated you. The actions of some black people do not reflect all black people. The actions of some people who prefer traditional women do not reflect the actions of all people who prefer traditional women. And I do not bear the consequences of the actions of others. I am not deserving of any resentment you harbor to people who have mistreated you.

Also, you, NOR the people you disagree with, are "right." One is not "better" than the other, we each have our preferences but these are entirely subjective.

Additionally, if your rationale for me deserving resentment is because you view it as wrong for people to say "traditional women are better", then do you deserve resentment for stating that non-traditional women are better? Because you just said that, I quote "we're tired of the BS that traditional women are better. They ain't." So, according to you, traditional women are not better. So non-traditional women are better. Should people who disagree with you now resent you? Do you deserve resentment?

[crmoore]

@KetoJames

You're attempting to dilute what importing is by saying "that's exactly how importing works, they're marrying". When I say it's not a substitute for marriage or a relationship, I'm talking about naturally occurring relationships, not the label "marriage" the government gives you.

I can pay someone to marry me, and I can find someone I who love who loves me and we each decide we want to marry each other, and those two things are not the same. I'm not knocking it, if people want to import then they can, but don't try to pretend like there isn't a difference between these two very different relationships/marriage. Because, like I said, one is NOT a substitute of the other, even if they're both "marriage."

Again, you're trying to dilute and twist things. I didn't say you can't love a Thai women, and I didn't say you can't love a woman you import (eventually). But when you import a woman, you don't love her. Eventually you might develop love for her, but you don't love her now. Nobody just automatically loves someone like that. But with the marriage and relationship that I was referring to, there in most cases is love BEFORE you decide to marry them.

[KetoJames]

@crmoore

If I said sponsor an immigrant instead of import, would you be this butt hurt? Would you be upset if the Captain went on a site like...


I think he should consider it. And I really would help him. I don't think you're of much help at all. You just make up your own reality, and expect people to believe it.

"Nobody just automatically loves someone like that."

You have it stuck in your head that you just order these women on Amazon. How can you say something so stupid about love, when half of the people on this site are in long distant relationships? Are all of these people also stupid? I just think you don't like the idea of the Captain exploring outside the US. My next door neighbor has a Vietnamese wife, and they're happy.
None of what you're saying makes any sense to me. If the Captain says he's not interested in a non-American, I would understand. And I sure wouldn't call him a racist or look down on him.
This is an opinion site, and I threw out an option. He could literally be talking to a hundred Thai girls in a week. It doesn't mean you just fucking buy one. It's like any other dating site. You chat and get to know each other. You can share pics of various things, and even video chat with them.
And at some point, if he wants to do it the legal and smart way, he must prove that he went to visit his girl or girls. Big deal.

[fonduegirl]

@KetoJames leave it. He's using your word against you. What a baby.

[KetoJames]

@anon1903

You're right. People on this site are way beyond help.

[fonduegirl]

You say one thing, they turn the whole argument against you.

[fonduegirl]

It's like Twitter, but thankfully cults aren't a thing here.

[crmoore]

@KetoJames

I wouldn't care if he wanted an import or not, and I wouldn't care what way you phrased it.

And it's exceptionally ridiculous that you would suggest I'd have an issue with him wanting to dating outside of the US, I'm not an American woman, I have no stake in that. I never stated or suggested that he shouldn't date outside of the US. So, please, based on what do you think I dislike the idea of Capatain dating outside of the US?

And you mention "my next door neighbor has a vietnamese wife and they're happy" but I've already stated in a prior response "I didn't say you can't love a woman you import" and "eventually you might develop love for her." So you're just using a strawman, arguing that you CAN be happy with an import! But that doesn't refute anything I've said. You're just either confused are trying to make it seem like you came up with an argument when you didn't.

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[crmoore]

But look, if you genuinely meant no disdain from your remarks, then I TRULY do apologize. But as of now, I'm simply not convinced. And I think that your demeanor indicates that. I expressed my opinion in a civil manner, no rudeness, to condescension. I was clearly making a point with my first response, and you didn't want to address it, you just wanted to be dismissive, not regarding the point at all. And that's fine, it's no big deal, so I remained civil, I said "with all due respect, I'm not convinced" and explained why in a non-derisive manner. I was in opposition, as is natural of a disagreement, but I was not rude. You can say "well I disagreed with your assertions" and that's fine, but instead, you regarded my expression as "babble." You even seem to imply I'm racist, or national-ist (though not the typical use of the word), by suggesting I'd oppose him dating outside of the US. I really am sorry if this is all one big misunderstanding but nothing you have done has come across as well-meaning.

If I was genuinely wrong, and you weren't being defensive for a demeaning remark, why didn't you respond with civility? What compelled you to react derisively?

@anon1903 Yes, I'm using her words against her. That's kind of how arguments/debates work. When she says something faulty, I explain why it's faulty. And there's nothing "baby" about it. Being baby would be using demeaning words are attempting to misrepresent their stance.

[fonduegirl]

@crmoore good arguments don't fixate that one thing your opponent said, used against them. That's immature. Especially since I explained her words.

[crmoore]

@anon1903 I haven't fixated on one thing, I've addressed many of her points. And I, too, have explained her words. If something as simple as "I explained her words" garners merit, then I guess we're both right, despite having opposite stances?

[EmmaMary]

It's most certainly not for me, thank you very much.

[Brittanyroseee]

Same! Sounds like a prison life

[Brittanyroseee]

Serving for others wtf

[Account]

I dont want that future for me. The answer is a hard no.

[Brittanyroseee]

Same. It sounds like a prison

[Brittanyroseee]

It honestly sounds fucking boring and miserable to be a stay at home mom with kids. Fuck that shit

[gothbxtch]

some girls do, some don’t. point of feminism is to respect both of those types.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Why is the woman in the image so sexy? Who is she? Her name.

[LordOfThePines]

Of course, but many if not most, would not want to be. Most women want to live how they wish, not be relegated to what can be seen as a mother one can be intimate with without it being creepy.

[RingOfFire]

I laughed so hard the coffee came out through my nose when I saw that 60% of the guys voted yes. Highest percentage of any category. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[DextroShade]

No, but they should. The most miserable people are single career women in their 40's.

[Sasha0426]

Whoops, silly me. I have a job. What are gonna do about it, shrimp dick? 🤣

[DextroShade]

@Sasha0426 laugh at you when you die alone.

[Sasha0426]

I mean, that’s basically my plan.

[Brittanyroseee]

Kids would make me miserable. I don’t like babies or small kids. I see them as a waste of money and time. Everyone dies alone. If you have kids to not be alone when your old, you are narcissistic. I prefer solitude and peace and quiet.

[Brittanyroseee]

I want nothing to do with taking care of another human being

[Brittanyroseee]

Go visit a nursing home. Who puts the elderly in care homes? Their own children

[Brittanyroseee]

I ain't having crotch goblins just to “take care of me” when im old. So narcissistic and selfish lol.

[DextroShade]

@Brittanyroseee do you know where you go if you don't have kids to put you in the nursing home? The streets.

[Brittanyroseee]

Actually no, my house. That i pay for. Mortage. Or a nursing home

[Brittanyroseee]

Actually i will have a load of money that i can use to put myself in a nursing home if i need to😂i will have nieces and nephews. Fuck off with your bullshit

[Brittanyroseee]

Do u want me to have kids even though I don’t like them?😂😂😂

[Brittanyroseee]

Sir im gonna get my tubes tied😂😂😂

[Brittanyroseee]

See you just admitted that offspring puts their parents in nursing homes. You just admitted that they don’t take care of their elderly parents. They barely even visit their elderly parents in nursing homes😂

[Brittanyroseee]

I will have money to figure out my situation when im old😂I won’t be wasting my money for 18 years on kids I don’t want nor like.

[Sasha0426]

@DextroShade You’re definitely not ok mentally.

[Brittanyroseee]

@sasha0426 no he is not. He believes women are nothing but breeders and his logic are is that people should have kids to have caretakers in reality, most kids put their parents into nursing homes. Even with kids you still are alone. at least child free people, have money to put themselves into nursing homes or they are well off and have their own house. My friends grandma is 86 years old and doesn’t live in a nursing home. She lives in a huge nice ass house in newport beach and takes care of herself. She actually just retook the brokers license to renew it.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Doubt much is anyone's dream to be stuck in the kitchen at home unless they are a chef.

[fonduegirl]

My mom realised only now that she could have used her amazing cooking skills to advance her career, instead of prepping my father. LOL!

[CuriousMufuxka]

I doubt it based on finances. Yes, I could afford such a lifestyle, but have jack shit for retirement. I also know many women that want careers and right on to them.

[McLlovin]

You just woke up today and chose violence lol. I bet women’s answer is a resounding no

[Unknown29]

My girlfriend. She wants to be the most traditional housewife ever, and I love it, because I’m traditional too.

[whistlingwh0res]

If you talking about Americans girls, the no. They all are spoiled and free to so anything from prostitution to fake and steal since america is free country. Don’t marry them problem solved

[whistlingwh0res]

Of they all are drug addict too just like Meagan marker she is screwed

[Sasha0426]

Wait, I’m a drug addict? When did this happen? 🤨

[ChezzD]

I'm a full time stay at home mother, but I can't really cook all that much. I can clean though and wear sexy lingerie.

[Anonymous]

Yes! I also have my art studio in my home. What's so amazing outside?

[Anonymous]

Smart women would want that we were not born to feed men.

[shortster]

Some do, or at least that is what they said.🤷🏼‍♂️

[Jmmmfi4]

I mean they should thats basically their role in life if you ask me

[Brittanyroseee]

Ew fuck no. Times have changed. It’s 2023. Not everyone wants kids or even likes them.

[Brittanyroseee]

People have the choice now to decide if they want kids or not

[Brittanyroseee]

It’s sad you only see women as breeders and to serve other people.

[Brittanyroseee]

I have no interest in kids and I especially do not like babies or toddlers.

[Brittanyroseee]

Being a housewife raising kids sounds like a fucking prison life to me.

[Brittanyroseee]

I would fucking hate to take care of kids. I don’t want that responsibility. I have other priorities in life and interests. I also prefer solitude and being alone. I would hate to have a baby or child stuck with me 24/7. Fuck. That. Life.

[Jmmmfi4]

@Brittanyroseee I couldn't possibly care any less about your opinion

[Brittanyroseee]

Cool. And your opinion is mysoginistic

[Brittanyroseee]

You live in the 1950s still

[Brittanyroseee]

My priority and interest in life is my career and making money👋🏼

[Brittanyroseee]

Kids are not a life requirement. A career, is a requirement to survive. Kids, are not for people who have no interest in them. I don’t want to spend 18 years of my life taking care and serving someone else. Its MY life at the end of the day. I also find babies and toddlers a bit gross and messy. I’d rather take care of pets. They are much easier and not so demanding and don’t cost me thousands and thousands of dollars every month!

[Anonymous]

I work full time and parent full time, it’s much easier than sharing with a guy that isn’t helping.

[Nikki1989]

Some do, some don't.

[Chikky]

No, I hate staying at home.

[alice55]

Personally yes, I want this life

[itsalyssaagain]

Some like cooking some don’t. I don’t.

[boobliker]

none of the ones I have meet in the last 5 years

[Iron_Man]

Most want careers, some like that

[TrillXHippy]

I don’t know 🤷‍♂️

[LimitedBenefits101]

The kitchen is their home.

[red_knight]

Arab girls more like it..

[WhiteBoyChill]

I said no but I really wish more did

[Anonymous]

Some do, some don't
It's case by case you know

[JustinTheGreat]

Some do

[Anonymous]

I know girls like that but its just not me lmao

[Fuentes]

Some do lol

[Akam93]

I am yes.

[yaso07]

nice