My parents divorced long ago when I was just 4 years old because of mom's long-term affair. Till this day she has no remorse about it, even was boasting about it not so long ago. Both have remarried since.
When dad found out about the affair, he did a paternity test and it came out positive. Yes I'm his child and we always had a good relationship but I look just like mom when she was my age. I look just like her (even her green eyes too) and that's the woman that hurt him badly, a narcissist.
How do men generally feel about that? When their daughter looks just like the woman that hurt him, like the woman he hates?
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It looks that even though I'm his daughter, the only thing I got from him (physically) is his smile. The rest I got from my mother. I look just like her.
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Deoends on the guy some would grow to dislike them tigers could be more mature and know its don't matter
We get along good and he's always been a great dad but I still wondered if he gets triggered just by looking at me.
Probably not
That would be weird, but I bet its happened.
I feel bad about it though even though it's not my fault. I can't help it but wonder about our quality time we've spent (ex: when dad used to take me to the park or we had lunch outside), if he gets triggered just by looking at me.
Wow, sorry that had to happen to you, and its definitely not your fault.