Is the inverted triangle body shape attractive?

[Anonymous]

I have the inverted triangle body shape. I am the first born daughter, and as you know first born daughters always look like their dads. My dad, he has unusually BROAD and thick shoulders, they are extremely wide and strong. And it's just natural for him. Unfortunately I got his broad shoulders, which makes me wish that I was a man. It would benefit me if I was born male, but oh well.
I'm really insecure about my body type, especially when all the girls around me are hourglass, pear or something else. I feel unattractive and ugly.
I do have hips and a waist, but my shoulders are so wide that my hips and waist look unnoticeable. My shoulders overpower my hips and waist which makes them look non-existent but my shoulders extremely wide.
I hate myself.

[RavVid]

Did you know artists are taught to draw female figures as triangles and circles. Having a triangular shaped torso is normal for a girl and quite nice I might add.

From the pic, everything looks in good order to me. Guys are hard wired to like a hip waist ratio of 0.6 to 0.65 (in the plan view by the way) and few girls are outside that in fact. With you standing angled it is a bit harder to tell but you have a nice ratio going.

Shoulder to waist or hip isn't really a thing. Your nicely sized breasts - not too big, not too small - are what I notice and not your shoulders and I am pretty sure every guy will be the same as me.

As you are very concerned about your shoulders do one simple test. In bare feet, stand upright and just let your arms dangle without any muscle tension in them at all. Do your arms touch your hips? If so, you're ok Lady.

I see you are under 18, so being hyper critical of your body comes with the territory. Guys vary a lot in what we like. I can be walking along the street and a friend says 'Awww. She's hot' but I am left cold. We are highly variable in what we like. I news notices from Daily Mail and there are always pics of celebs sizzling photos. I'm a guy so I take a look but I am always disappointed. Seen much better looking girls on my local street. At most the celebs were showing a lot of flesh is all.

Don't be so concerned with your body shape Anonymous and be a little kinder to yourself.

[Asker]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it.
My arms doesn't touch my hips..

[RavVid]

Hi Asker, as I think several have already said your pic doesn't show anything to worry about and a lot to attract male interest. I for one really like the inverted triangle shape of the female torso. I wouldn't be so keen on a pear shape girl. However I can tell you, cause I'm a guy, that what we like varies a lot between us. A guy might say to me 'Wow she's hot' and I am thinking 'What her? The girl over there is much cuter'.

As I like to say its just as well we do or there'd be some bloody long lines forming up to a few girls. And the reverse too. I'm likely to be more influenced by eyes and a ready smile.

There is an odd thing too. We start to like the body type of girls we like. A girl I liked had really big thighs which I wouldn't normally like but as my liking for her developed I started liking her thighs. It makes sense that we do.

Please don't be so hung up on your perception of flaws that when a guy shows interest your first thought is 'OMG he hasn't noticed my shoulders yet - he'll run screaming'.

I remember a girl complaining about some aspect of her body and I was trying to reassure her she was fine. She ended up snapping at me 'Its my body so I am entitled to be critical of it'. She had a point I had to acknowledge.

This may be a bit unPC but I have noticed that quite a few girls tuck their elbow into their waist and hold their forearms out to the side when walking or standing. It enhances the delectable inverted triangle shape. In your pic you are partially doing that. You might like to play with it a bit more.

I have also noticed a lot of girls walk line astern where both the left and right hit the sane invisible line. It really does enhance the inverted triangle from the hip to the feet and causes hip swing so you might like to play with that.

And of course there is dressing for your body type, I'm a guy so what do I know?

[Asker]

Thank you so much, your explanaion was incredible! Seeing things from others point of view really opens up my eyes.
You sound very intelligent and kind, so thank you !!!

[RavVid]

You're welcome Asker. If I can help more please feel free to reach out any time.

[Anonymous]

No, it’s a very unflattering body type. I see women built like that in the gym and I feel bad for them. They always have these husky, beefy broad shoulders and backs and these weird, square little hips and shapeless, blocky looking ass and legs. If it makes you feel any better I’ve seen women built like this who still had boyfriends and looked to be in good relationships, at least from what I saw when I’d see a couple in the gym working out together. I mean I wouldn’t find them attractive, but obviously someone does.

[Asker]

It is what it is, but thank you for being honest.

[Midna1010]

Don’t listen them, they are being disgusting person about it, I know u wanted an honest answer but I highly advise u to not take these disgusting middle aged men seriously instead listen to the ones who are being positively honest about it

[JMZ888888]

It frustrates me when people make sweeping generalizations, assuming that a certain body type is universally unattractive. It's important to remember that beauty is subjective, and not every man shares the same preferences. Feeling sorry for women with an inverted triangle shape is unnecessary, as there are men who find this body type more attractive than hourglass or pear-shaped women. It's unfair to constantly criticize one body type while ignoring the beauty of others. It's important to recognize that what you said is not a FACT, but rather YOUR OPINION opinion. Beauty is subjective, and everyone has their own preferences when it comes to body types.

[ILoveGodForever]

Naomi Campbell is a model and she has the same body shape, try finding clothes that fits the body type but idc with a style you like

[TacosRAwesome]

Body shape is neutral. If you maintain a healthy weight, have a nice looking face and hair, someone will find you attractive.

[Asker]

Too bad I don't have any of those things. 😔

[TacosRAwesome]

You're still young and have plenty of time to grow into yourself.

[TheSpaceGnome]

That picture is the hourglass shape. Hourglass just means thinner at the waist and roughly equal at the hips and chest. Why are so many females insecure? Stop worrying, you probably haven't even finished growing yet, and even if you have, the preferences of people vary so much that no matter what you look like, there will always be people who think you are georgous, and people who think you are ugly, and everywhere in-between. It's really not worth stressing over, let alone hating yourself.

[Asker]

What about you? What do you think about the inverted triangle body shape?
Less then 5 percent on women have my body shape which makes it rare, so not many men has seen it before. Just search it up.

[Asker]

of women*

[TheSpaceGnome]

Every image I could find on google for it just looks like hourglass with a slightly smaller butt. I'm not really a butt guy, so it makes zero difference to me, but it doesn't matter what my opinion is, I'm old enough to be your dad's age, I just don't get why trivial stuff like this bothers you or anyone else so much.

[Reaper1985]

there is no single female body type that all guys enjoy many have a few they like over the rest. so honestly just find a way to be healthy and secure in your own body. because having confidence in your natural looks. while having a enjoyable attitude and personality will attract a better quality of guy.

[Asker]

Alright thanks!

[Ευδεμονια]

I think that’s the body of the swimmer, it’s a natural healthy body shape. You can pass easily for a sporty person, I think you can valorise yourself through your upper body, maybe styling your hair. You can also wear something valorising your small waist, like a tight dress.
I think every body type has its peculiarities, its strengths and its weaknesses and there’s no point in hating themselves, no one decides its body shape before born.

[Asker]

Thank you, but it still doesn't answer my question. Is the body type unattractive?

[Ευδεμονια]

I don’t think it’s unattractive. It’s a matter of preferences and personal tastes, in my opinion is pretty good since it seems me a healthy and fit body. Obviously it’s only my opinion and others can disagree since is a personal matter.

[Asker]

Okay thank you!

[DarkWinterNights]

The picture shown looks more hourglass to me. If you look remotely like that, you have nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

I don't look like that unfortunately.

[HawkPerception]

If that picture is an example of the inverted triangle, then it's hot in my opinion

[Asker]

Alright!

[Birdlegs]

I don't know it depends on if you’re attractive or not

[Asker]

And what determines wether you're attractive or not?

[Birdlegs]

Honestly I couldn’t even explain it for me it’s kinda just a yes or no but it’s all subjective. Im sure some of the other guys will take the time to point out all their favorite things that they find attractive

[Asker]

Alright, but the question is, do you find the inverted triangle body type attractive or not?

[Birdlegs]

I’ve seen some that were and some that weren’t it depends on if you’re attractive or not

[Asker]

But the body itself? If you only saw the body and not the face, would it be attractive or unattractive?

[Andres77]

Just like a silly girl. Your body is perfect but you will find something to complain about.
🙄🙄🙄

[Asker]

Thank you so much!

[maximumpower]

where are you getting this crap?
reason you hate yourself is b/c you actually believe it.
find a different/better source of intellectual material.

[Alwayreckles93]

What the fuck she's an under age girl you shouldn't be allowed to even answer on here. I am sick you older man always chatting with younger woman FYI I am not 21 I'm actually 29 so your only 8 years older then me. Which means you disrespect me I disrespect you! Go out of here!!!

[Asker]

@Alwayreckles93 he's not a pedophile for answering my question. You're overreacting.

[Asker]

OK thank you.

[Surely]

I love a woman with good posture and square , broad shoulders. Slender waist with long legs and a smaller sized bottom.
Just like yours.

[Asker]

Thank you I appreciate it!!

[vald9inches]

Oh trust me sweetheart you are still attractive! ❤️

[Asker]

Thank you, I appreciate it. <3

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww. Don't hate yourself. There's nothing wrong with you!

[Asker]

Thank you, this is really comforting. 😊

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome!

[Xtendable]

If you’re body looked like the pic, I wouldn’t have considered it inverted triangle. Very attractive body type

[Asker]

It's not like in the picture unfortunately.

[Xtendable]

Oh. How then?

[Guardian45]

I don't know about none of that. You look fine. Stop worrying.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[Guardian45]

Only thing that matters is that you're healthy & fit & feel good about yourself! Everything & everyone else DOESN'T MATTER!

[IsoUser]

I prefer my girls to have smaller breasts an A to B Cup with Puffy Nipples but throughout my entire life I have always preferred girls with same so in essence I honestly don't know how to answer your question. Just PM Me sometime.

[altdbob]

tell the guy to close his eyes while you jump his bones, and he will never look at you the same again.

[Asker]

Huh? What do you mean?

[altdbob]

SEX my dear SEX

[dolemite89]

i’d prefer a regular triangle lol the girl in the pic’s body type isn’t a death sentence tho lol

[Asker]

Ok. Thanks.

[DavidRaul]

Every type of body is attractive in my opinion. What matters is, how you carry your personality.

[stratford]

Honestly, you sound hot. You just need to find the right outfit to show off your amazing sounding body.

Feel free to DM or even just chat on here if you want to discuss options that would be appealing to a guy.

[RuthlessAggression]

I'd like to understand why, when a question is asked on here, it usually because it's about the asker.

Not always, but usually

[Jerre]

I think the girl in the picture is sexy and attractive. I don’t even think about her being a triangle shape.

[20yearsolder]

All I can tell you is that she is attractive

[Asker]

But I don't look like the girl in the picture.

[20yearsolder]

Do you think us guys actually look at shit like that? Stop being so hard on yourself. We can't control the shape of our body except for by what we eat and whether we exercise or not. Our bone structure is what we are given. Stop comparing yourself to everyone else and rock what the good Lord gave you

[Asker]

Okay thank you, I appreciate the motivation and advice.

[20yearsolder]

My pleasure, I go through insecurities as well. We just have to play with the hand we are dealt

[Asker]

Wait really? What insecurities do you have?

[20yearsolder]

I'm not going to post it here. Feel free to send me a PM.

[Asker]

Alright!

[DS_Madking]

easily better than hourglas shape

[Asker]

Oh my gosh thank you!

[PatriceONeal]

The inverted triangle is for men🤣

[Asker]

I know, but like I said I got my shoulders from my dad. I can't control my bone structure. My dad is very masculine looking. He has a huge beard, muscles, he works out, unusually LARGE shoulders and so on. I am his first child and daughter so I got his masculine shoulders.

[Asker]

I probably have broader shoulders than you, I can assure you of that. I'm probably more masculine looking too.

[Anonymous]

The not fat and has a vagina body type is all that matters.

[Asker]

Alright.

[Anonymous]

No clue. I never even see those shapes in people.

[Asker]

Alright.

[HighValue]

I think it is good.

[Asker]

Thank you!!

[ChiTownLov]

I see nothing wrong with it

[Waldoe]

I prefer girls...

[Asker]

I am a girl, but I get the joke.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Hmmm…. Approved

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Dinosaursandanime65]

RHAOU

[JohnK123]

Depends

[Asker]

Aw ok.

[Nahid1707]

Yea!

[Asker]

Thank you so much.

[Nahid1707]

Don’t be too insecure
i hope the answers been good
You’re welcome 😊
Did my answer help?

[Asker]

Yes it did, so thanks! 🙏🙏🙏

[Nahid1707]

No worries, i see your
Comments, i am certain you’re a cute white girl 🥰

[Asker]

Thank you☺️☺️ That's so sweet of you💞💞💞

[Nahid1707]

You deserve the Love and the little hype.
Hope today is a good feel good Friday and a fun Friday

[Asker]

Thank you, I hope you get hyped up as well:)
Have a fun Saturday!!

[Nahid1707]

i am sorry if this sounds dumb is your body very similar to the picture you uploaded you would say?
You’re welcome and hopefully we both have a good Saturday tomorrow

[Asker]

No it's not Simi! är, my butt isn't as big as hers.

[Asker]

No it's not similar, my butt isn't as big as hers.*

[Nahid1707]

Thank you for explaining and i am sure you are cute !

[Nahid1707]

i am certain you have a good butt 😊😅

[Asker]

I don't, but thank you for all the hype and kind words. I appreciate it!

[Nahid1707]

You’re welcome and yes you do

[Nahid1707]

Hope you are feeling better about yourself 😊

[Joker_]

sure

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Joker_]

You're welcome

[Iron_Man]

I’ve never seen that really

[Asker]

An inverted triangle body shape?

[Iron_Man]

Most of African-American style

[Asker]

I'm not African American though. I'm fully white.

[Iron_Man]

Cool is that your pic

[Asker]

No it's not, why?

[Iron_Man]

Just wondered When I see a pic posted in the question

[Anonymous]

Fuck yeah!!!

[Asker]

Phew

[Anonymous]

I really like it

[Asker]

Thank you!