Boyfriend told me he hates my body?

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Hey, so last night my wonderful (not really) boyfriend flat out told me he does not like my body. Okay, so when we first met (2 years ago) he told me he LOVED my body, told me it was sexy, and loved my big butt and legs. 2 years later, I realize I am actually his LEAST favourite body type. He likes the stick thin inverted triangle shape with huge boobs, I am shaped more like Amber Rose without the boobs (I am 5 ft. 6 and 155 pounds). I am 21, he is 34. So we were sitting on the couch watching TV, JLO comes on, and I said she has such an amazing body. He goes, NO! Her legs are huge! I am like what the F are you talking about? He is like I don’t find that attractive at all, so I ask, okay what do you find attractive? He goes, "I like Miranda Kerr's shape, with a D size breast". So in other words, a pencil/ruler with big boobs. I said, wow you must hate my body then (kind of jokingly) and he SAYS... well, you could really improve your body, I don’t find it attractive to be honest (keep in mind, I have lost 12 pounds since we met, when he first told me he loved my body) So, now I am SO self conscious, don’t want to have sex and want to lose a drastic amount of weight to the point where he thinks I look “unreal” and be like "meh, I can do better now". How horrible is this? Here is a picture of my exact body shape, weight and size (I am not as toned though) VS the shape he desires. Should I lose a bunch of weight now to get back at him?

Boyfriend told me he hates my body?


Boyfriend told me he hates my body?


Sigh, now I am also depressed, because my body won't EVER look like "Miranda Kerr" I dont have that bone structure.
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OMG thank you everyone so much for the feedback, I was not expecting so much!! I really have been debating breaking it off with him, this isn't the first thing that has happened. I realize he is making me his project over his girlfriend. This guy has never said I love you ethier, we live together and it has been 2 years? I know he does not find me attractive anymore, which I can't understand because he lied about thinking I was "hot"
In the beginning. I just am scared I won't find someone new:(
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