I had that happened in 7th grade once. The girl was brave enough to start an altercation. She insisted on a physical fight I never wanted; for no reason other than jealousy towards me.
I hit back and reported her to the office. We both got threatened with a suspension and all of the sudden she begged me to not say anything, pretend it didn't happen and promised it wouldn't happen again. When I refused and proceed with reporting her, she cries and starts apologizing.
Then she expected me to lie for her. She started saying a contradicting version that it was someone else bullying me, that she only slapped me once by accident and always defends me against others. I didn't lie for her. I called her a liar and stuck to my version. The stupid assistant principal still expected us to make peace or else it's a suspension.
On the way out, she was still in tears and offered to shake my hand. I called her a phony and liar. We're now HS Sophomores but haven't spoken to each other since. She's still the same fake person towards others; hasn't changed at all. Is that a typical bully's behavior? Only apologizing when either beaten, caught or threatened with consequences?
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It depends on the person but yes bullies are cowards most often then not. The others are just losers who have big issues.
For her she was afraid more of getting suspended then of what ever her issue is with you.
Glad that it did not happen again but a lot of people are fake. Us honest ones want them seen as fakes but the rest of the world does not care and likes fake people.
Had a supervisor for a year and she hated all the couches who volunteered and kids who came for our sports. Actually she hated every one who she did not get to use and push around. Month latter after chewing me out for telling her that she will damage something when doing something dumb. She gets promoted!
Those who don't see through fake love the fake person cause they see what they like and want. Not the over all person
The damage is still on the gym floor! our next supervisor just like her!
Yeah she's too much of a coward to say it in my face again. She knows I can then beat the hell out of her again (I was winning that fight) if she starts a fight again, she doesn't want to get in trouble again either lol.
I'm glad I didn't accept her fake friendship offer, fake crocodile tears. Though some other girl fell for that handshake offer and this is what could've happened to me if I had accepted it; I wouldn't been stuck with her and her fake group of friends, then the whole gossiping, backstabbing others and ruining people's reputation thing, etc. The girl left that friendship the following year and regrets ever being friends with that fake person. It was exactly like living in a ''Mean girls'' movie scenario.
Ouch poor girl well a lot of people love drama and causing it so dumb groups like that happen.
Indeed it is. Bullies are similar to cheaters. Both are pathetic cowards that are only sorry they got caught and about to face the consequences. They don't care how much they're hurting you at that moment. They're enjoying it big time.