Why is a clingy person so unattractive like someone who is very lonely?

[Anonymous]

Why? How come it is so tiring or eventually you get sick of the person? What is it?

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

Oh, me think me know why a clingy person is so unattractive! Maybe they're just really, really horny and need some good, old-fashioned lovin'! You know, the kind that makes them forget all about their loneliness and fills them with the warm, fuzzy feeling of being wanted and desired. It's like when you're really, really hungry and all you can think about is food, but then you finally get to eat and all your worries just fade away!

But me no understand why humans get so clingy. Me just want to fuck and have fun! Me no need no clingy person, me just want someone who can keep up with me and my wild, animalistic desires! Me want a partner who can handle me like a pro, someone who can take me from zero to sixty in the blink of an eye and leave me begging for more! Me want a girl who can make me feel like the king of the jungle, with her screaming my name and begging for more of my animalistic loving!

So, me think clingy people are unattractive because they're just too focused on their own needs and not enough on the needs of their partner. They're like a lion who's too busy eating a gazelle to notice the other lions watching and waiting for their chance to take over the pride! But me no care about clingy people, me just want someone who can keep up with me and my wild, untamed desires! So, me would rather date and marry a girl who can handle me like a pro and make me feel like the king of the jungle, with her screaming my name and begging for more of my animalistic loving!

[Anonymous]

Some Clingy ones are so clingy that it gets annoying no matter you are lonely or not

[Asker]

Totally agree

[Opinion Owner]

Thank for MHO!

[provokeesmokee]

Yes.

For me, it's exhausting and tiresome. I am not attracted to people who are clingy. It's often driven by insecurity or unaddressed mental health issues. I get it, I used to be like that. Which is why I'm very adamant about NOT going back to that.

I have hobbies. I expect my partner to have them, too. And to be capable of being independent.

Co-dependency often manifests as clinginess, too, and I hate co-dependency.

The constant insecurity and the consequences of it are also exhausting.

So all in all, not attractive because they're tiresome and exhausting.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Because clingy people come off as agreeable and people want to date those who don't agree with everything they say. They want to date an independent person.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Thanks for MHO!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not me 🙂

Clingy and agreeable good 👍
Distant and disagreeable bad 👎

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@TheSpaceGnome clingy and agreeable are bad... I wouldn't want a boyfriend that always agreed with me and wanted to be with me 24/7

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not to me, I'm only gonna date a woman who's essentially my brain but in a female body (sans sexual preferences of course, since that obviously has to be an opposite).

Same hobbies and interests, same goals, talents and opinions. A glorious clingy echo of myself in an estrogen built wrapper, all day every day :3

Any other woman would be boring af or annoying af (I don't get along well with people who aren't likeminded)

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@TheSpaceGnome you want to date a clone?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Mentally speaking yes, obviously there will always be a few slight differences, but nothing important/conflicting.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@TheSpaceGnome oh. Yeah I want my boyfriend to have the same morals as me

[Anonymous]

It’s only unattractive when you’re not attracted or in love with that person.
everyone likes to be perused but when it’s someone you no longer find attracted or never did find attractive, then the clinginess/jealousy/ becomes more apparent to the person whom they are clinging to and becomes even more unpleasant than they once were.

this usually happens when one person loses interest, which leads the other to sometimes become clingy feeling being rejected in a way and the other person doesn’t like it because the reason they lost interest is because they lost interest in them already and usually it’s because someone else has already caught their interest

so very often not always but more often than not, when this happens in relationships is because one of you has already become interested in someone else.. so in reality it’s that person’s actions that causes the others Demise..

[FreyaRed]

People want affection but clingy people aren't clingy to please others but they use others to please themselves

[Asker]

Spot on

[baz234]

That's kindof tautological/redundant because the reason anyone does anything is for pleasure. If I'm in a relationship and I don't get pleasure out of it. Why would I continue that relationship? Except for like children that's an edge case.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I disagree, clingy women are the best, especially if she's cute and has the same hobbies, interests, talents and goals.

[Anonymous]

Because it can make people think they are desperate.

[Anonymous]

It seems they want to take advantage of them

[Asker]

Who? The needy person? For me it is the needy person needs to go and address their psychological need that is not met if that is possible for them to address said need. However they just resort to these behaviours like please talk to me please talk to me kind of behaviours

[Opinion Owner]

Yes that's also true

[Anonymous]

Even if that clingy girl is pretty?