Do your family or friends act like you're over reacting when u tell them u think someone likes u?

[Monalisa77]

It puts me off confiding in them, theyre not there and dont see the same things we see

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't talk to my family about my relationships until they reach a certain point. Nothing good has ever come out of getting them even remotely involved in the beginning.

[Monalisa77]

I just feel I've noone to talk to about it other than people online then my mother wonders why

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I wish I knew what the answer was. I dealt with the same problem. My family are all crazies. Which most who know me on here might raise an eyebrow at that comment. But my family is even crazier than I am.

I maybe took leaving them out of things too seriously because I'm at a point where I'm trying to fix things and I don't know where to start and I don't know how open to be.

Then I try finding people irl to talk to and that never goes quite the way I hope it does either. Lol. I guess that's what an SO is for. I feel like dating is the only time I really get a chance to get feedback on anything deep anyway.

[Monalisa77]

Exactly, i feel like the guys who r actually nice to me get me way more than my family do. Its like when they see ur vulnerability it feels more deep than any family member. I feel like if i had a boyfriend id be able to talk to him more better than i do my own fam

[Telekinetic-Potato]

That's normal I think. At least it has been for me

[jahaims]

If everyone around you thinks you over react then it is likely you do unless all of your friends and family are idiots

[Monalisa77]

Well i tell some people exacyly the same as nothers and they can see where im coming from

[Monalisa77]

Plus they dont see what is happening right in their face so how can they know for sure

[Monalisa77]

It comes across as if they think im no good and assume nobody would ever like me.