What do you think about people who use their personal experience to judge others?

[Anonymous]

I hate it when people use their personal experience to make judgements about others. I met a guy who thinks because he didn't meet any girls who like older men when he was a teen he thinks such girls are in the minority. I told him he's wrong because I experienced the opposite and he got mad.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Some people can't wrap their head around "different strokes for different folks".

[Asker]

He clearly doesn't like the truth

[Sunnybeach123]

He sounds like a stupid, narrow-minded fool.

[Asker]

He is

[Sunnybeach123]

People like him can't put themselves in other people's shoes

[zagor]

Some people don't seem to realize the limited scope of their own experience. For example, maybe a guy has dated 2 blonde girls ever, and they were both self-entitled bitches. So he concludes that all blonde girls are self-entitled bitches. It's just like if you try a burrito for the first time, and it's really bad, you conclude that you don't like burritos and never have one again. Or you go to Miami, it rains all week and you get robbed, so Miami must suck.

It is particularly evident when your experiences are very limited. Because we have limited time and resources (we can't really date every blonde unless we live in a very small town) we shortcut by projecting what experiences we have had. It is natural to do so; if a caveman lines his bed with poison ivy and has a reaction to it, he is unlikely to do so again.

So people like the guy you mention will not only be convinced he is right, but will argue vehemently in defending their position.

[ohmyguy]

Well I. think. it sounds about right.. n is a relevant element as a stand alone factor in judging some one amongst many others one could factor in or exclude...
Every one does this.. but rarely is it the sole reasoning behind how we come to. a particular conclusion.

[Asker]

It's a problem if the person pushes their views on you like this guy did

[ohmyguy]

Though I feel strongly about the things I feel strongly about.. I challenge.. the possibility that it may not be of their own sentamates.. meaning they only think that way cause of conditionality.. they aren't thinking for them selves their comfort zone couldn't handle or risk being destableised

[ohmyguy]

It's more a problem if one feels compelled to comply.. and or adopt. accept.. contrary ideals for fear of loosing value or status amongst peers cause we invested our time in the wrong persons or people n it's better to be low in a social hierarchy than alone in exile... especially if your poor n low status in the first place...

[ohmyguy]

I'm am one of thoughs of poverty n low status.. but I decided to recognize how fake insincere self obsessed every one around me was.. I stopped identifying with people as friends. Core values principles solidarity sacrifice loyalty.. are ideologies that betray us and embitter us... cause it falls shot of our expectations... n is likely caused by our owns selves... its best as I see it let others decide if your there friend or not n it better to know we're you stand in factuality... amongst your peers. ... ones who hurt you the least but apogise accordingly. VS who hurt u more n it's cool cause for what ever reason is not there fault... be careful

[LunarEclipse433]

It’s not really fair. Everyone’s experiences are going to be different with different circumstances

[Asker]

He's being judgmental isn't he

[LunarEclipse433]

Without knowing all the details hard to say

[Asker]

What do you mean

[LunarEclipse433]

Just sure there is more to the story. Just because a person experienced something when they are younger doesn’t mean it’s the same today. With different people different outcomes

[Asker]

He said when he was in high school girls didn't like older men but in my experience they did so I don't think he has any right to call me a minority

[Asker]

Also most boys wouldn't have sex with an old woman like he thinks so I think he is a sex addict

[Asker]

What do you think

[riverrat3]

So many people think their opinions are facts, sorry for them

[Asker]

Exactly

[Friendlybro79]

I think they're small minded and don't understand how anecdotal one person's experiences are.

[Guardian45]

If he is so narrow-minded to think that his experience comprises the sum total of ALL experiences, the he is either a simpleton moron idiot or a narcissist. Neither is good!

[Tomisworthless]

I tend to not judge others because I feel less than most but I am guilty of making mental judgements of people sometimes and very rarely but I stop myself and ask Jesus to forgive me.

[Anonymous]

But, isn't that exactly what you've been doing with most of your questions here? Like, this one.

[Asker]

No I don't force my experience on others

[TheSpaceGnome]

This is why statistical analysis doesn't work.

[jahaims]

You did the same thing he did and assumed your assumption was more accurate.

[Anonymous]

Next your going to say you like tint penises as well. 😆😆😆

[Asker]

What are you talking about

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you don't get something so elementary it would be a waste of my time to explain it.

[Asker]

What does this have to do with this question

[Opinion Owner]

You start off asking " why do people judge based on personal experiences" EVERYONE does that to and extent. Some a little some a lot. And most women don't like older men (men older than 10 years of them). So he was wrong. If you think otherwise YOU'RE in the minority. Get mad if you like. Your getting mad does not change reality.

[Opinion Owner]

So he wasn't wrong* damn autocorrect!

[Asker]

He was wrong and so are you. You are close minded and ignorant

[Asker]

I think you are in the minority from what people told me on this site.

You are probably like him thinking young boys like old women that could be their grannies

[Asker]

You are just mad because you are in the minority with your friends.

Also:
Is this stupid to say? ↗

[Opinion Owner]

What age are we talking about here. And what level of involvement. Because yeah I would have found a 40 yr. Old woman attractive when I was a teenager. But I wouldn't have understood how twisted such a "relationship" would be.
I think you have NO CLUE what a boy or man thinks.

[Asker]

Just like you have no clue what a girl thinks. Loool

[Asker]

Love how hypocritical you are.
You hate that teen girls find much older men attractive so you put them in the minority to make yourself feel better but get mad when someone says you are in the minority for liking older woman as a teenager.

You two are something 😂

[Opinion Owner]

You're a doofus🤣 I don't hate anyone. Let alone care what a teen girl finds attractive. I say women don't like older guys because they say don't like older guys. If you're gender has an aversion to honesty that's you're genders problem not mine.
As far as liking older women when I was younger, it wasn't older women. It was just women in general. I simply meant if she was relatively attractive I was interested.🤣
You really are a headache aren't you.

[Asker]

If you look around here lot of women like older guys so I guess it's your experience..

Most people in their teens want sex with people under 40 but there are still lot who like them past 40 too but not as many.

[Asker]

Oh so it's you. The coward who defends female pedophiles thinking they don't take advantage of boys because they enjoy it and can't understand how someone thinks different to you about it.

You're an absolute pervert and I know exactly who you are

[Opinion Owner]

Is that what the voices in your head are telling you?

[Asker]

I know you are stalking me here

[LemiaOfThunder]

They should get a life

[Jerre]

I never judge other people.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Narrow minded set 😂😂 everyone has opinion

[eagle1951]

you mean if the shoe fits

[Asker]

What do you mean